This place changed me. I'm one of the most confident guys that my friends know and they think I'm an absolute ladykiller. I still have some problems though. I've never dated an alpha girl before and right now, I am. I'm intimidated by her (I haven't ever once said this to her instead trying to keep her on her toes by guessing my next moves).

She has a ton of male friends. I saw TofuTofu's thing the other day mentioning the fact that we can share a laugh. The thing is, she's not my girlfriend (yet?) and while we were out at a bar yesterday, I saw her getting hit on by a bunch of dudes. She loves the attention, what girl doesn't. I tried to not pay it any mind, she came over (from the bathroom she was waiting to use) and explained it and I just shrugged it off like it wasn't a big deal. Oh and she also has a TON of male friends, more male than female friends I think. And the sex is fantastic too. We only had sex once, but it was great. Last night was our fourth date in 4 weeks. We don't really text much (is that bad?) and we don't really ever talk through phone unless it's to plan a date or something (I don't know if this is bad). Anytime I try, the conversation goes through 1 or 2 texts between us before one of us gets busy and just stops texting. Sometimes she'll say she's busy on a night, then I'll see her at a party and we'll just be flirty and touchy feely with each other, at the party.

She told me yesterday this is because she is so focused on herself (what a turn on) that she ignores her phone (I didn't ask about it). There's more that I'll try to fill in as I remember, but how do I handle this?

tl;dr: I'm dating an alpha. what do I do?