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[–][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe not the advice you want, but the advice I have seen some women need: Don't look for a partner who wanna have kids. Look for a partner who's a great person and a good match for you in other areas, then go for kids.
I understand the stress of the clock ticking, but being in a hurry and settle with a guy who's "ok" just because he wanna have kids right away is a bad, bad idea.
Get yourself out there, meet lots of people and have fun! The best partner is usually the one you find when you don't expect it.
[–]kanyesbathroommirror 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But it's good to at least have that conversation early on, yeah? I think it's foolish of anyone to waste a year of their life with someone just because they didn't ask if they want kids at some point in the future within a few weeks of meeting.
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Move to a bigger city.
[–]spicy45 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Find hobbies, and move to a place with a larger population.
[–]g3wb3r 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Start sayíng hi to random men
[–]Important-Main-3828 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont seek advice on here
[–]Majestic_Meal_5655 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You are in your 30s and haven't been in a real relationships that have lasted more then one year. There is something going on with you and you haven't allowed yourself to pair-bond with a partner.
[–]fazzavich 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
100% hitting the wall after riding the carousel.
[–]hoodbgoode 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
matchmaking service
move to bigger city
Apps are best tool for women otherwise
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
arranged marriage
[–]ChadMagic1 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask a dude to help with ‘man stuff’. Touch his arm and shoulder. Smell nice and wear make up. Tease/poke fun of him a little and don’t answer text or phone immediately. Act impressed by what he does
[–]greenOcto 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I understand
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Could you tell us a little bit about yourself? Describe your appearance/race/education level/career?
[–]project-ubermensch 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Step 1 - Decide on the type of man that you would want to marry and have a child with
Step 2 - then figure out what type of woman they would be interested in and consider starting a family with and begin to change your self into that type of person.
Step 3 - Once you are the type of person they would be interested in start engaging in activities and hobbies that the type of man you want would be engaging in and after a while establishing your self going to different events and such things you should start to get a sense of possible suitors
Step 4 - position your self as a high value woman that hasn’t been with many men, is feminine and willing to do the natural feminine things and subscribe to the traditional gender role and that you are interested in starting a serious relationship and a family.
This is the best strategy to achieve what you are trying to achieve
Good luck
[–]H8beingmale 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
how long have you been single now?
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