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[–]Tabitash3656 40 points41 points42 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She said twice that it's not for her. She's not interested. Take the no.
[–]justhereforsomefunn 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
you kept pushing it despite her saying she's not into it, I understand her reaction. I get that you want a fwb but ignoring other people's wants and needs is not the way to go, next time just take the no
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. The total opposite of seduction.
[–]btrpb 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude. She said no. Take the hint.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro wtf
[–]NotYourAverageBulI 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I’m gonna go ahead and just say that her answer is no I mean she did say it twice and she blocked you.
[–]Maleficent_Resist975 -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I can confirm I was not blocked she just stopped replying
[–]ZoeticLark 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Who cares, she said no. The problem here is you arent able to accept it at face value.
[–]Blitted_Master 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Why risk surprise violence or property damage with a woman known to be taken? Seems thirsty and not worth the risk.
[–]Maleficent_Resist975 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Check edit
[–]Blitted_Master 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah. Still sounds like more trouble than it’s worth.
[–]Dstar538888 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
she said no already dude....
[–]Thought_too 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes you were direct enough, she is not interested.
[–]Artist-in-Residence- 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
She's not that kind of girl, she's not interested in being your FWB in whatever strange arrangement you've got with your partner
She probably secretly thinks you're sexy though
[–]NotYourAverageBulI 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You should never assume for other people that’s a dangerous thinking and if she did think he was sexy she might’ve said it or let on not block him
[–]Artist-in-Residence- 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
She probably likes bantering with him and talking with him from what I assumed from their exchange, but she is most likely the type of woman who likes being the complete centre of a man's attention and needs 100% love and devotion so would not be inclined to enter a polyamorous relationship situationship in which there is another Queen bee hovering over her head who is formally the official partner of the intended.
However, she probably still likes talking and bantering with him because it's mainly innocent and non-sexual in nature aside from the fact that she might find him secretly sexy
[–]Maleficent_Resist975 -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She definitely likes talking and bantering with me. And the only reason I went after it is because she’s very flirtatious with me and I constantly catch her staring at me
[–]Artist-in-Residence- 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Flirtatious and friendly is a fine line.
To me, she seems more like a friendly, inquisitive person who likes your insight on things but doesn't go over the flirtatious barrier
[–]Maleficent_Resist975 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Do you see our friendship being Ruined over this? Did I say too much when indirectly asking her about fwb?
[–]Artist-in-Residence- 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She'll probably pretend you never asked and continue with the friendship
[–]Lazy_Guest_7759 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bro, why would you pick a married woman to lie to like this.
Even a single woman would most likely pick go on your BS.
[–]Maleficent_Resist975 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s not a lie. My girlfriend and I are in a non monogamous relationship
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[–]Hanmura 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
she ghost you. that’s her real response. stop being a creep, this isn’t porn
[–]Orange11a -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You sound like an sjw
[–]Orange11a -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In all honesty if you have nothing to lose or don't value the friendship as much continue pursuing and ignore everyone that told you to give up. This pick up artist on YouTube did this experiment where he was extremely persistent with women that showed him low interest over text. After a couple months he eventually got her over his place and did the deed. So it's not impossible you just have to be smart about it.
If she thinks you're sexy and continues to flirt and talk to you even after rejecting your offer over text then just take things slow. Continue to flirt and banter with her take two step forward and one step back. When she is turned on its gonna be hard for her to say no, that's when you propose to her again
[–]ZoeticLark 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Was that women being pursued for so long then dumped after sex or did the guy do it because he actually wanted a relationship with her? Did the woman misread the long pursuit as actual interest thereby causing her to do something she was otherwise resistant to or fully agaisnt? Was it a zero sum game or did they both win in the end?
Being "smart about it" sounds like maybe act of deception, if it was just to tag her. Stealth and trickery is one thing, maybe that guy felt proud of his accomplishement, but of what? Trickery? Or finding alignment in common goals? Something tells it was the former.
[–]KingAJ032304 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She very clearly doesn't want that
[–]DMTmeister 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe don't be a p.o.s. and go after a married woman? Forbidden fruit is tempting and all, but we have enough problems in society without every one trying to destroy relationships.
[–]Orange11a 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]sinhaanip 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I understand you don’t want to take the no. Take a step back… build some more rapport. And re attempt.
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