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[–]Spiritual_Low8248 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Watch George Carlin videos. Watch Bill Hicks videos. Watch Louis CK videos. Damn ! Watch Sam Kinison videos. Read the book Models Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson. Be funny. Be touchy. Don't be afraid to tease and have fun. Be up to speed on current events. Don't be afraid to flaunt what you're good at or what cool things you know. Don't be afraid to have an opinion and be polarising. Damn! You're young and single. OWN THAT SHIT MAN !
[–]wolfbee16 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’d add on thatwasepic was GREAT when I was gaining skills and confidence. Obviously he’s a good looking dude so it helps but his social skills is how I formulated my own
[–]incognito3107 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Most of the time you try to pick up some interesting detail in present moment and build your conversation from that. Point is to provide comfort and induce emotions. Your objective is about getting sexual eventually, so you need to keep that potential romantic context between you all the time. That being said, don't focus on generic or informative subjects. Look her in the eyes, stay close to her, smile, keep proper posture, lower your voicetone and enjoy exchanging oral sounds. Literally just have fun and get personal with her.
[–]Virtual_Judgment7147 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Usually starting and maintaining conversations with any woman is hard anyway, you aren’t alone in that. The only thing you will have to figure out is how to start it, and that’s the hardest bit.
Honestly I’m more in the camp of how you say things, is more important than what you actually say. You can say “what’s your plans for the weekend” way more confidently with charisma and get better results than being monotonous. That can help maintain conversation.
Also maintaining and starting conversations requires an analysis of the environment you are in. Cold-approach you have to go off what’s happening around. For example, let’s say you meet a girl at the club, you won’t be chatting her up talking about how’s her day been and all that shit, people are drunk and partying, you be complimenting with her, be direct and dancing it up on the dance floor. If you are at some business conference, you talk about the conference and then slide into the person’s personal interests. You basically have to apply social senses and ask questions that are relevant to her and the situation.
For online dating, look at their profiles and get a glimpse of anything you can make a joke about. They got a favourite artist, make a flirty tagline using a lyric or a bunch of songs stitched together in a sentence to make a pick up line. Then talk about that artist and escalate. If there is nothing, then it’s simply a game of using a pickup that is creative and hasn’t been used by a bunch of different guys. However at that point, it’s more how your profile looks in that case.
Standing out is hard but you have to be smart about it, analyse your surroundings and create something unique. Then you’ll be standing out from the rest of the guys hitting her up.
[–]atrialflutterr 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great advice thatnks for taking the time
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