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[–]RedditsOlderBrah 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
i am not the top 10%. will never be. i'd go as far as to say the wide majority of women are not attracted to me. because 4 billion is a big number, i have still been able to be well satisfied and rampantly successful.
out of the op's list, i had the following when i got laid semi-regularly at the start:
Laugh and smile during conversations (it will make them feel that you are a fun guy but also something secretive about you, which will attract even more)
this, but because i liked the people i was talking to and was happy.
Try to use their name. It will make them feel special
this, but because of common decency.
Have a purpose in life. It will be so obvious the way you act and behave if you have something more significant to strive for. They will be interested to know where you are heading
this is the big one. i was doing something.
Have bounaries and show that you have self-respect if any minor disrespect is there (could be a test to see what kind of man you are)
this but i just considered people who did discourteous things to be shit people rather than interpret it as some sort of weird masculinity check.
Ask questions about her life, and listen and ask relevant follow-up questions. You will show her you are intelligent, witty, and a person she will never get bored of.
and that's it. didn't need much.
[–]5_7pickup 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
These are some low standard for a “1% man”.
[–]James_Cruse 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So what’s in this post and your experience is of dating apps? You didn’t do much or any cold approaching?
This doesn’t strike me as advice from someone with alot of experience - this is mostly very beginner stuff, basic things your parents would tell you.
On confidence - if you’re having inner doubts, women often or always can read that because those doubts are reflected in your non-verbal communication.
Women mirror your behaviour, so when you have doubts about yourself, they have doubts about you.
What do you do when a woman disrespects you? How do you respond to that?
[–]AThousandWayz 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Basically just create fake version of myself who is confident , has a hobby and a purpose to life
Sick, i wonder if i'll acheive happiness by lying and acting my way in... i hope i won't forget my lines 😬
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Instead of "Lying", how about "Becoming"??
Become a man who embodies the qualities discussed in the OP.
Be confident, funny/humorous, assertive, interested, dress well (and groom yourself properly), etc etc.
[–]BakarGubimGlas 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can make it bro!
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