I keep freezing up

CometAzur42069 · 2022-10-04T01:50:56+00:00

cool, just keep trying. Find someone who can encourage you or push you.

Neo-Rio · 2022-10-04T04:50:37+00:00

It also helps knowing what to do and having a plan.

If you have no plan of attack of course you're going to go up there and possibly mess up. Still, you're in college. It's early days in the span of your life. Educational institutions are great places to fail in while learning.

First thing to know about seduction with women, is that women view men that they have sex with as manwhores. Not in a literal sense, but in the sense that they expect you to approach, attract them, and then lead them all the way to the bedroom. And then once you've had sex, to not bother them again or catch feelings until they contact you for more. They are buying and you are selling - and it is business. Pretty much everything in my understanding of game flows from that principle. Same goes when dealing with rejection. It's not personal.

As for an opener, I prefer serendipity. Not knowing yourself why you approached so it seems like fate or chance or divine providence."Excuse me, I don't know why, but I just felt that I *Had* to introduce myself, or I'd never get the chance to meet you. Hi my name is: "and then follow up with "Isn't it funny how you can find yourself liking a trusting someone for a very long time, even though you've only just met this person?" etc etc.

From there you just talk about feelings, emotions, body sensations, and visualizing things that turn her on, and you find out what gets her passionate and excited by asking questions and listening to her. Then you link it to yourself: "Would it be great if you could feel the same way you do about (whatever excites her) in another person?"

Anyway, experiment, have fun.

OrzhovPalatine · 2022-10-04T03:49:16+00:00

This game is all about attrition in the early days.

You will fail ALOT OP and that's fine, what separates the guys that succeed in this game from those that fail is the former dusted themselves and tried again, the latter just gave up after a few or didnt even try.

zapadz · 2022-10-04T05:41:01+00:00

Here are some videos on approaching with anxiety

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YCeDPkUB98c

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AUj6gN0o4wU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NQHuRdMJguo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OJKiFisdi5g

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPCU03Dp8Zw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XMChZC2fopI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kdy3zk5Uf_0

Title	I keep freezing up
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Date	October 4, 2022 1:40 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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