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[–]seduction-ModTeam[M] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Call her asap before she moves on to the next guy.
[–]burritoman1[🍰] 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed. Text her now and set a time.
[–]MrBlack__ -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ew, this mindset is lame af
[–]Horror-Skirt7233 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Strike while the iron is hot, nothing lame about it
[–]MrBlack__ 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Definitely strike while the iron is hot, but if you’re doing because you think she’s going to find someone else… that attitude stinks and will reek in every interaction with her
[–]DependentAd1504 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree with this
[–]zerodark__3 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
you should have set an actual date. text her and make one.
[–]epimpstyle -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't do anything dude! She is your colleague.
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[–]Bodisel68 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t have a problem with asking her out I was asking if I talked with on Sunday whens a good time to speak to her again? I don’t want to come off too needy by talking to her too soon
[–]MrBlack__ 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Call or message her, chat generically for a bit, mention seeing her and ask her when she is usually free.
Don’t mention bowling because you’ll look robotic, when she tells you when she’s usually free then mention bowling. If she says she doesn’t know when she’s free, take a step back and say “cool, when you know, let me know and I’ll see you around”
N move on, n be cool when you see her
Oh and the reason I say not to mention bowling is because she should want to hang out with you! Not have a bowling buddy, you should be ready to drop the bowling idea for a back up, in case she only agreed to bowling because you said it. A desert place is usually a good spot
Well just set the date and tell her... it's a great idea to go for a bowling on first date...later you can go on walk or cafe... Escalations you do however you seem appropriate as per situation. Just give her space when she asks, wants or needs it .
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