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[–]CocoBabeNYC 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
When were you planning on asking her out? At that rate when she's 60 and her tits are sagging?
[–]DODI3OG 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maaan. I love the humor of this sub.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
NEXT.
[–]Going_to_hell123 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely bro, that being said, it really shouldn't be about acting nonchalant, you gotta set firm boundaries for yourself and stick with them. Otherwise people will take you for a dickhead. You're not cool with her ignoring you all day, then that should be your boundary and you have 2 options:
Charge it to the game. Just assume she won't ever reply and if she does it's whatever.
If you really like her, when she texts you, let her know that you didn't appreciate that (little upfront, I know, but it'll filter out whether she is actually into you (and if she's not, see #1))
It really depends on how much you actually want her, but definitely you gotta have boundaries in this shit g.
[–]DODI3OG 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Also, OP. Did you actually do a video call with her? You sure she wasn't catfishing?
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[–]DODI3OG 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If anything made me feel much worse, it was "acting". Trust me, you will have better quality sleep if you speak out your mind.
If she leaves, then she left knowing you're not a pushover. If she stays, then you both get one step closer to respecting each other.
[–]External_Lifeguard49 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I agree with your homie. Don’t reach out and be nonchalant. You reaching out will show how thirsty and desperate you are. Also if she happens to reach out tell her to come meet you to hang out so you can get things popping. My only question is why didn’t you ask to meet her from the jump.
[–]random-naija-guy 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
OP my homies always say to have at least 2-3 options you’re working at a time. That way you don’t have to strain yourself not to give one of them too much attention, you just won’t. Pursue someone else
[–]random-naija-guy 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then switch focus to your other options
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