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[–]Unidentified-Being 16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
embrace the horndog a little, it’s not a bad thing - being in touch with your sexual side will make you more attractive and generate a natural desire to initiate. Women are horn-dogs at 19 too, just gotta escalate gradually so she feels comfortable with you, never repress your desires they’re completely normal (obviously if it’s legal).
[–]PelletsOfMescaline 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Also do not masterbate or follow insta hoes. Let your natural sexual energy guide you and women will be attracted to that.
[–]Perfect_War5446 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok
Ik but if you’re too sexual then they are turned off usually
[–]Intrepid-Artichoke25 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
A lot of women will tell you if you’ve gone to far, they might swipe your hand away if you try and put it in certain places.
It all depends on the situation like if you guys are making out then just go for it with some attempts to push the foreplay
[–]Perfect_War5446 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Oh ok gotcha. Read Body language
[–]Intrepid-Artichoke25 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
And don’t take it personal if a girl doesn’t want to move forwards either. There’s a multitude of reasons why they might not and majority of the time it’s nothin to do with you
[–]Perfect_War5446 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh no I understand. I’m really big on consent and boundaries. I also no that just because she doesn’t want to have sex doesn’t mean she’s not attracted to me. I would never try to talk a girl into it if she isn’t in the mood
[–]Intrepid-Artichoke25 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And frankly don’t be afraid to ask if things are already when you do them and such. I’ve always asked and girls have always greatly appreciated it.
[–]atomant88 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
dont touch anyone without their consent. thats sexual assault.
[–]Intrepid-Artichoke25 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Context is everything
And if you decided to read my further comments rather then just make this comment you’d even see that I say to ask for to consent
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The easiest way to initiate sex is to make it clear on the beginning of meeting each other you want sex/romance. Do this by making a joke or comment that a FRIEND WOULDNT MAKE.
This sets the trajectory towards sex for both parties. If she’s interested she’ll lay the red carpet of flirting and foreplay to the sex, if she isnt that its probably likely she doesnt want sex with you or there’s more complicated shit you shouldnt worry about right now.
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[–]atomant88 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
dont 'go for a kiss', ask for consent. if you kiss her when shes not down shes gonna be severely turned off. if she says 'no' its easy to recover from. asking for consent shows confidence, respect, and shows you have communication skills. its good game
[–]MonchichiSalt 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Touch her in non-sexual ways throughout the day. That is its own kind of seduction. The human touch, you reaching out just wanting to touch her. That's how you start a slow fire where either you will start to initiate and she's ready for it, or she may just jump you.
Never underestimate the power of casual touch between partners. There is intimacy in touch. Doesn't have to be sexual for it to be powerful.
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[–]atomant88 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask for consent
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t be afraid to be a horndog. You’re 19 and a guy, there’s nothing more important then pussy. Put out your intentions and don’t worry about it.
[–]zapadz -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bRChsxT7p24
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WpOBJulbr2c
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oRzdqh4sYPQ
In this video after 24:50 and 30:29 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twTrrGiRXtY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjpgbomald8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fzKZeaCa9lc
[–]ContWord2346 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Did Adam Lyon get married?
[–]zapadz 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yes but they divorced and he said he’s marrying someone else
[–]Educational_Ice4719 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Doesn't sound like a right person to take advices from.
[–]zapadz 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Why?
[–]Educational_Ice4719 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If we have in mind that he is getting divorced.
[–]zapadz 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What does that have to do with how useful his advice is on initiating sex?
[–]agustincards14 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be comfortable holding eye contact more than normal. This will slow things down and you will be able to see in her eyes if she’s feeling you or not.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You escalate your physical intimacy gradually, don't be thirsty in improper circumstances, enjoy the real process not thoughts of the final outcome. Quitting porn for some time will help you to view girls in different ways and control your energy better.
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