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[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lay back and enjoy her telling you about all the guys she has crushes on.
OR, you just move on, buddy. She’s not interested.
[–]thiszebrasgotrhythm 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
OK, so you have been put in the friend zone. You won't be able to change her mind, so be chill. You have two choices: 1) Either continue to hang out with her and give her security and validation while she's looking for someone else, or 2) you can focus your time and energy on other women.
[–]CanUnusual8729 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah dude the more you try to get out of the friendzone the deeper you will sink. It’s like quicksand. If this girl knows you like her and has made it clear she’s not interested but then goes over to your place to watch movies…she probably enjoys teasing you. It’s not uncommon at all. Stop prioritizing her. Chilling in your bed watching movies is a privilege reserved specifically for girls you’re intimate with. She has disqualified herself from those benefits. No need to be rude or anything, but mark her off the list, and focus your attention on someone else.
[–]rusty68 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or she likes the attention and validation she leeches off of you.
[–]STF-LTH 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't Give her Much attention "this will make her ask much question in her mind"
[–]Great at coke approachSnooHesitations4922 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Chill out. Keep in mind she agreed to come over to your house, most women will not hang out with a guy at his home if they aren't attracted to him. Even if she was talking and acting like she don't feel the same about you, she is giving u a chance, there is no way she is coming over is she is completely uninterested. Just watch movies and talk, if she is already there with you, you don't need to change anything, she is probably expecting u to make a move If she stays around for awhile go in for a kiss but stop yourself a couple inches away and see what she does, she will either lean in so u can finish the job or pull away, either way u get your answears.
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[–]Great at coke approachSnooHesitations4922 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Risk is part of any game that u want to win.. minimize risk by reading the situation and acting accordingly, you will be able to identify within 5 minutes if it's a friendzone thing and she is just trying to get your hopes up. If she avoids light kino or sitting near you, or seems generally closed off, this is the case. You tell her, with respect( don't show anger or disrespect or u already lost), that you are looking for intimacy and you can't waste time or energy where the possibility don't exist, and that you shouldn't hang out anymore. If she ain't interested, why is she even there? Never be the guy she complains to about chad and his unwillingness to commit, she will just get whatever she can out of you than hop right back on the carousel, don't ruin your own confidence by giving into a friendzone thing.
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[–]Great at coke approachSnooHesitations4922 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't disagree with the other comments, I'm just trying to let you know a good possibility still exists. Women think and act completely different when u got them alone at your place or hers, sometimes they just ain't comfortable being open with how they really feel about a guy in other settings or social situations. I had a couple fwbs that acted snotty or like I didn't even exist until they came to my place.. Just relax and identify her true motives, go for that kiss test if your feeling it, and either close or get on with your life.
[–]zapadz 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VtWU-9MW_tg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lvXX3M4hwtU
Try the “friend zone to end zone” video here https://davidtianphd.com/masterclass-content/
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