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[–]dump_fool 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
"you pulled away first i don't know why, you better explain yourself. are you playing stupid games with me"
You don't have to explain anything, you are a man, let her do the talking.
[–]LiamSi00 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Solid approach, don't even go on the defensive. Thank you for you response man (y)
[–]dump_fool 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not defensive, you are offended you strike back.
Be willing to tell her to fuck off at any time....
[–]LiamSi00 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
fuck off at
check
[–]dump_fool 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
:))
[–]Brilliant_Network_86 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I would be honest with her and tell her the exact reason why you pulled away, but try to say it in a way that is not demeaning and putting the blame on her. If she does not come back and you decide to end things, I would be open about that feeling with her and sit down with her and tell her how you feel this is not working out anymore and that you feel that it is best that you both move on. Hope this helps.
[–]LiamSi00 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for your respond
[–]Marcoscondit 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
She probably already likes another dude
[–]LiamSi00 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Maybe, if so it is what it is. I am only trying to improve my game and learn more. I am absolutely okay with the relationship ending.
You didn't answer my question but thanks for the reply tho
[–]Marcoscondit 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think you should just move on . Usually when a girl does that is because she’s had her eye on another guy , she might get in a relationship with him or just fuck him then try to comeback to not feel guilty I’m sure there’s times where it’s other things but a lot of times it’s that especially if you see her behavior twoards you change, but it does sound like you got the right mindset
I don't really agree with you, most of the times she pulls back is because she into someone else? and once she fucks him, she will get back to me? I don't think that's valid.
[–]Marcoscondit 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It happens dude sometimes they do that because they don’t want to cheat . But they might still feel more comfortable with you it’s like that saying having your cake and eating it too
[–]ReorgAtty 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just say you’ve been busy. Don’t let her know you’re playing into her pulling away. Brush it off.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
First off: There’s someone else in the picture and that’s the real reason why she’s distancing herself. The question is: if the new guy doesn’t work out, do you want to take her back?
[–]LiamSi00 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The problem with your theory is that there is no way to prove there is someone else.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Are you a mean bf? Are you a dick to her ? Do you verbally or physically abuse her??? If you answered no to those questions then there’s someone else.
I see what you saying, but you will understand if I don't breakup with a girl who's been great for 5 months, because of this theory.
I'm no asshole, but I'm no gentleman.
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