Why would this girl who i met while working give me her phone number if she got a bf?

Matt_Bigmonster · 2022-07-28T20:16:38+00:00

Yup, she's looking for a hookup. Less shit you give and more arrogant you are the quicker you will get it.

PugsleyAdams4 · 2022-07-28T20:15:47+00:00

She's either looking for a hookup or she's monkey branching. Don't consider her for anything serious. This behavior is a huge red flag

Crow729 · 2022-07-28T20:06:32+00:00

Do you keep a number of a good plumber or a mechanic in case you will need?
So this girl keeps good guys for back up.
Don't bother with her cause you will end like her current BF.

Edit: If she is hot and you are looking for ons, then it shouldn't hold you.
She already got a guy who is dealing with her sh$t.

Turbopre2 · 2022-07-28T20:35:22+00:00

Having a bf doesn't mean anything anymore tbh. If he's not taking care of business she will keep her options open. Have fun with her if you want but I wouldn't take it seriously.

boxmail2800 · 2022-07-28T22:46:58+00:00

So much to be said about this tactic. A lot to unpack. A cautious man would drop bro code and steer clear. However a little adrenaline and danger makes it fun. Consider that she may be playing the bs “I’ve got a bf” angle to Keep things casual or cover for her dude that’s ok with it- if he’s a fireman he’s pulling numbers.

Neo-Rio · 2022-07-29T01:58:07+00:00

Not all men are looking for one night stands, but the fact that all men THAT SHE HAS HOOKED UP with have been looking for one night stands tells you EXACTLY what her game plan is.

She just wants a casual find, f**k, and flee. I can appreciate that.

Personally if I like a woman enough to want to have sex with her, of course I want to see her again. But women with so many options, so little time, have no problem using men for sex. ... until someone knocks her up that is.

Of course they can't openly say that they want casual hookups unless she ends up attracting every man and his dog. That's why the behaviour comes off as confusing.

Just don't fuck it up by catching feelings, getting needy, clingy, etc.

Title	Why would this girl who i met while working give me her phone number if she got a bf?
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Date	July 28, 2022 7:57 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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