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irunian · 2022-07-26T05:34:53+00:00

Sometimes it’s just a test to see how you will react. Don’t slink off. Stick with it until you know she is or isn’t worth your time, I mean if she flirts a bit and you steal her attention back then you are golden. If she really isn’t into you you’ll know it. But it sounds like you are in a good spot. I think you are worried for no reason. Show her a good time and enjoy yourself.

2022-07-26T05:44:31+00:00

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2022-07-26T05:59:53+00:00

Don’t operate on scarcity mentality. If she entertains other dudes, she’s simply not the girl for you. Hard next and move on to another one. There should be other girls at the club for you to approach.

-Mavs · 2022-07-26T05:52:05+00:00

Right on all points.

A chick who’s truly into you would have tunnel vision (eyes for you only).

These “events” (the club) is important though sinc you can test just this.

If she does, in fact, go off with another guy I would mentally ump her then and there, tough it out, and pretend nothing is wrong.

When you get home, I’d erase her from your life; let some other dude deal with her.

amb56 · 2022-07-26T06:51:58+00:00

Dude, women are like cats. They won’t stick by your side the whole time, they kinda come and go as they please. Don’t chase after her and don’t be jealous or intimidated of the other guys. If anything, the “alpha” thing to do is take an interest in the other guys just like she will. Banter with them, don’t get all cold if she flirts with someone that isn’t you. Just be buddies with the other guys. Talk to other women too.

If this girl is really interested in you she’ll wander and come back. Give her your attention and interest but don’t be following her like you’re scared to be alone or stuck with the other friend.

The priority should be to have fun.

Turbopre2 · 2022-07-26T05:42:06+00:00

Keep it cool. If another guy snakes your girl then that wasn't your girl to begin with.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-26T10:51:38+00:00

Women want a guy who will make them safe and protected. Letting other man hit on her and get in her pussy means that that's how you will treat the relationship and she will soon find a guy who is not willing to tolerate such bullshit. So either be a bitch and get nothing or tell any suitors to fuck right off.

ViewInternal3541 · 2022-07-26T05:25:00+00:00

Sounds like you've got it all figured out. Grow a pair and stop asking Redditors for advice about picking up girls.

TuckerTheCuckFucker · 2022-07-26T08:16:58+00:00

If a dude approaches, just introduce yourself to him and make friends with him. He will usually feel bad about it if he picks up on the vibe.

If he doesn’t and she entertains him longer than a few minutes, I would personally just nudge her and say, “hey I’m gonna go grab a drink/go out to the patio for a smoke, etc if you wanna come with” and just leave. If she doesn’t follow, take your time and don’t be in a rush to come back. Give her time to come find you and ideally sit at a place where you can kind of see her.

If you see them still going at it after you been gone a bit, i would approach a group of girls and start making friends

MrBlack__ · 2022-07-26T08:23:33+00:00

Exactly why you should avoid the club and do something with just you and her

elhabito · 2022-07-26T11:16:47+00:00

You'll be in a club. It's unlikely this is the only woman in the whole club.

It really doesn't matter how much you like her if she leaves you sat at the bar to go make out with a random guy she just met.

AlexJordans · 2022-07-26T11:25:23+00:00

Let us know what happens!

tanahgao · 2022-07-26T12:28:04+00:00

Had a similar experience lately. Be chill but firm when another man is talking to your girl. If they are just talking, be chill, join them for small talks. If the dude gets handsy with her, be firm in telling him to fuck off. Don't be afraid to get physical since your buddy will be there.

Titty_Slicer_5000 · 2022-07-26T14:40:55+00:00

Have you kissed, had sex? If not then right now you are just flirting. Your goal should be to escalate with her. Do you need to wait for the club to do that? Can you invite her for a drink with just you two?

If you must do the club thing then your goal should still be to escalate with her. Keep flirting, dance, and go for a kiss. You should give her a good amount of attention, but also devote some focus to having a good time. Crucially though, observe how she reacts and acts. If she starts flirting with other guys, then back off and flirt with other girls. And this is NOT to make her jealous. If you’ve made it clear that you like each other but she rejects your advances and instead starts flirting with other dudes in front of you is that really someone you want to pursue? I wouldn’t. If that happens then just focus on having a good time and chatting up other girls like you normally would (or at least like you should be).

Don’t get sucked into some bullshit dick measuring contest where you have to compete for her attention with a bunch of randos. It sounds like she already knows you somewhat well, so she’s either into you or she’s not. If she’s seriously likes you she will NOT risk ruining it with other dudes. If she doesn’t, well then move on. You are also a prize, don’t forget that.

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