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[–]ex-v 4 years ago [recovered] (11 children) | Copy Link
Some same-sex siblings develop this weird obsession where they try to copy whatever the other one is doing. Since your wife liked you & married you, her sister approves of you as well.
(Yep, it's messed up)
Or she's just after the money (even worse).
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I cant actually kick her out either, where she would go to
Now, you say you don't want to cause her any trouble by taking a serious step, but I'll tell you this: People know what they're doing!
So, the consequences of her actions on her future is NOT your concern!
She's clearly looking for an affair. Women pay a lot of attention to their dignity, both in public & private life. So, if she's been doing the things you said she's been doing, she has taken it too far & she's aware of it.
So, confront her & do it with a serious tone. Try to clear things up, let her know your intentions & ask her to stop.
But start the conversation with an understanding that you probably misunderstood her intentions & she's just playing games with you. If you directly accuse her of misbehaviour, she might get bolder & frank about what she wants, since you've already figured out her intentions. That'll catch you off guard & the conversation will not go anywhere after that.
If she doesn't change her mind after the talk, take it up with her sister & let her deal with it. It's best to leave it to your wife.
And it's safer to tell your wife right after the confrontation (if she won't stop). That way the SiL won't have enough time to cook up something to ruin your marriage (if at all she decides to go there).
Also, in the case your talk with SiL goes well, still inform your wife of what happened, but not for taking any actions. Ask her to not do anything as you've taken care of it.
Edit: This is to make sure that your wife is aware of the incident & if it ever repeats, your wife knows what you did earlier. She'll side with you. Also, if your SiL later tries to conspire something behind your back & manipulate your wife, wife will be aware 🔥
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I said all of this assuming you love your wife & respect your marriage. But if you're looking for a way out of it only because it'll ruin your marriage or affect the dynamics of your life, then please fuck off. Do whatever you want :)
[–]NewAccount8871765 4 years ago [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for this. I really love my wife. And we have a kid, too. Maybe I need to talk to the sister instead of just trying to avoid her. I feel guilty also because I also started to like her and I somehow enjoy attention I got from her, because she is after all, a beautiful girl. But this thing now is tearing me apart because I really love my wife and my family. Besides she was supposed to look for work so she could stay in this country and bring in her husband and kids also. Yes, she had children also.
For weeks I didn't see her going to job interviews or such. Maybe I could also try to redirect her attention to try to find work instead. I am also hoping she will find another guy to flirt to. That is, if she really doesn't want to stay with her husband, who is a good man and kind, but unfortunately very uneducated and poor. But I am sure he also loves her and their kids, so I feel bad for him, too.
[–]ex-v 4 years ago [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link
Edited the informing-the-wife part.
Also, there's absolutely nothing wrong with liking the attention you get from your family. SiL is just a sister from another family. So, clear it & get back to having a healthy relationship.
Be careful with the conversation part though!
[–]NewAccount8871765 4 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link
I am not as much worried confronting the sister than I am worried to inform my wife. She must feel betrayed if she will know. But I understand something must be done to stop this.
[–]ex-v 4 years ago [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link
That's the important part. Your wife cannot trust you if you don't tell her things!
Also, it's effective if your wife deals with it as she's direct family.
[–]NewAccount8871765 4 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
As this problem is not going away by itself I think I need to talk to her, maybe today.
I think she confronted her sister the other day a bit. I dont understand their conversation fully but I think she didn't like her sister borrowing some of her clothes and necklaces without her permission.
When I inform her about this, its going to cause a crisis, but hopefully it will save both families.
[–]ex-v 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Good luck!
[–]NewAccount8871765 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks 🤗
[–]ex-v2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
So, she's started noticing it.
Yes, you'll have to talk to your wife. And you have to do your best to prevent that crisis.
Trust me, you just have to tell her that you don't want it to affect this marriage & cause any discomfort. So, she has to deal with it in a very calm manner.
Ask her to do it for you!
[–]NewAccount8871765 4 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Today I tried to talk to my sister in law. She was doing our laundry. Actually I noticed she only washes my clothes, neverminding my wife's and kid's clothes. I went to laundry room as she was neatly folding my clothes and told her she can't keep on doing what she does. She first responded she didn't do anything, so I asked her why she left her panties in my office and her thong in my car, as its not possible it could be "forgotten" there. My car is in garage and is always unlocked, so she had left her Hello Kitty thong there next to gear selector. I also asked her why she only wash my clothes and hers, not others. She became emotional and told me she really likes me. She then did the unthinkable and there was no way I was prepared for that in any way. She approached me and gently touched my shoulder and came very near. She even put her other hand on my thigh, sliding it upwards. She told me to relax and sit down. She is very beautiful and has sweet voice, I felt as if I could not resist her and her touch but I was able to reverse and told her no. I told her she is married and so am I and we're not going to destroy the 2 families. She ran upstairs to her room where she has been staying, its our guest room which she has used during her visit.
Then I approached my wife, she had Sunday shift so she arrived home a little after. I told her everything, panties, thong, offer for massage and what just happened today. She got shocked, and she immediately wanted her sister out. She asked what kind of thong I found and I described it. It was the one she had bought for her sister just a week ago because she wanted to have one. She went to her sister's room where she was crying on bed. She said she was so sorry, as I looked from distance. Then I left them alone.
Even before she has told my wife she was envious of her life somehow. My wife's kid is half white, while her kids are 100% Asian, and she also wants to have mixed kids (this is actually quite a big deal in Asia, many women want mixed kids who are whiter than the general population there) She had also explained her before that she is envious because my wife has everything she doesn't, she has car, branded clothes, bags, jewelry etc.
They both are from poor family, they didn't have almost anything when they grew up. They didn't even have smart phones before I bought both of them phones when I was dating my then girlfriend.
After the 2 girls talked in the room, we reserved her a new ticket going back home and we will bring her to airport later today. My wife is upset and sad, and her sister doesn't talk, just sitting down quietly. I can tell both of them have been crying, but the sister in law seems to have cried out a lot. She doesn't have any money so I have to give her some so she can travel home comfortably. So far, nobody has been pointing fingers at me, not even once, which is surprising after all.
I think this is all going to turn out well, but just few hours ago if I had not told her no, things would had been a disaster.
You saved yourself from a great deal of drama! Now you just have to help your wife forget about the incident. Try talking to her about good things or just spend some time alone with her.
I'm just glad it didn't hit the fan. Have a good life!
[–]NewAccount88717651 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
There was quite enough drama for now. But I really dodged the bullet. Sister in law is now delivered to airport Hotel and she will have a flight tomorrow morning. She didn't talk anything during the ride to airport. Only said "I am really sorry" as we bought her to Hotel reception. I did the check in for her already for her flight and gave her the ticket. I feel also pity at her, she knows she did wrong. And its also my fault, I should have stopped her earlier.
[–]Crow729 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe your wife is behind this? Trying to see if you won't cheat on her. I'd keep away from any siblings, and get her out of the house asap.
I thought of that too, but that would be just too much from her. She is a demure girl and wouldn't do that. The sister however is more out going, more talkative in general. And the fact she did her "home work" how to get my attention, she wouldn't know unless she heard it from her sister. I think they have been sharing everything since we started dating.
And it was the sister who asked to be here so she could work and get her family out from poverty. Just my wife didn't have the money so I agreed to help with financing her ticket, insurance, visa. And basically she doesn't have any other place to stay, only in our house. Its not like she can afford a hotel if ever she has to leave.
[–]TheTruth221 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
tell her u only like busty white breast and white pawg
[–]NewAccount88717652 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I think she knows I only like Asians, she knows because for sure her sister told her. She even wear dresses as she knows I bought many cute dresses for my wife.
[–]incognito3107 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Can't you just say something like "I think you are taking this play too far, SISTER"
I should. I will. I am just not used to get this kind of attention from pretty girls, must have confused me. Maybe I thought this thing will just go away by itself
[–]cronasminate 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmao it's a trap then she'll tell her sister you've been perving on her once you start obsessing over her. It will only break your family not hers.
[–]Mypettyface 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Please let us know how this turns out.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask your wife for permission first, then do her.
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