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[–]delta-whisky 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You'd probably want to be walking, being in a car while they're walking just makes things a little more awkward
[–]focus_flow69 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just say hey ive seen you around a few times, since we live in the same building, I figured I'd introduce myself and say hi. I'm xxx. Chat for a bit, build some rapport and see how it goes. Ideal if you aren't in a car.
[–]CocoBabeNYC 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Yeah absolutely. You will totally be the first guy who has done that and the first guy who hasn't had the balls to exit his car and approach her like a normal person.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Well I mean I’m driving to my destination, why would I stop the car to just go out and run after her and say hey?
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
No I mean exactly. Why even try to be normal and socially adjusted. Too much work.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lmaoo I’m so confused
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This guys is always condescending in every comment he makes lol, no need to worry about the confusion
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah he made zero sense
[–]SupremeBBC 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I already know you're gonna be creepy approaching her by asking the question. You should have just pulled up the first time you saw her and thought of approaching. Worst she could have said was "I'm okay" and you move along. Yet you've spent likely more time than needed thinking about this chick when you could have focused on many more. The issue is that you're not confident enough in the man you are to not give a fuck about how she interprets it.
Pulled up with the car?
[–]Danovitch96 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
If you want to be confident and not give a fuck about how she interprets it then what better thing to do then approaching her anyway (in the car for that matter) even though you didn't do it the first time, lol.
I mean...if the issue is lack of confidence, and you know she's aware that you're aware that approaching her now would likely come accross as creepy because you didn't do it earlier, wouldn't paradoxically the most confidence radiating thing (to her) be to approach her anyway since you STILL don't give a fuck about how she interprets it and you own up to the fact that you didn't approach her before but that isn't an issue to you?
I mean, for real, how many instances where we blow the first chances - by not approaching - and then don't take any action with those women afterwards because we think: 'ok, everything I try with her now will come across as creepy because she'll think I didn't make my intentions clear right from the start so she might not trust me now' even though we ourselves know we have no ill intentions, we were just too nervous in the beginning, that's all, that's normal, that's human, it happens, and when own up to that by admitting that to her (without being needy), what is more confident than that?
[–]Revolutionary_Fan733 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ask her to wait a minute while you go park your car, tell her you’d like to ask her something. Then you go and park and do your routine; “Hi I kept seeing you around and just felt like introducing myself bla bla” Showing her you’ll park your car just so you can talk to her is a sign of respect and she’ll appreciate you for it.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good advice
[–]Cantsleepperson 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Get a cute dog so you see the women while you’re walking it. Instant conversation starter.
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