So I've had a crush on this girl for almost 5 years now. She friend zoned me at first because she had a boyfriend (logical decision) and because we weren't talking much as I live between two countries, I'm originally from country A (and the girl as well) but I spend 10 months in country B per year.

I've tried to date her whenever I go back to country A but I've always thought it was a bad idea because when I go back to country B it would either end the dating or turn into a long distance relationship which in my experience doesn't work.

So back in 2021 I moved back to country A and we started talking more and more, I felt like I'm out of the friendzone. We went out a couple of times but those weren't dates (She explained that she doesn't wanna date at the moment and take a break from the whole scene), I was flirting at times and she flirted back.

One time we were talking about sex and the conversation escalated when she asked me to turn her on and show her what I can do, but there is a plot twist, I can't kiss her or touch her in you know where (this is torture).

I've always been curious on how you can turn someone on from sexual tension and such but we've never really built any in our hangouts.

Would really appreciate some tips on what to do/where to touch and stuff like that (I don't really have much experience in the sexual scene) at the same time I don't wanna do something that would be "too far or too much".