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Liwly · 2022-07-12T19:15:15+00:00

Get more options so you don't depend on one. Simply as that.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-12T18:00:08+00:00

She doesn’t respond fast enough because she has neither the obligation to do so, nor give you any explanations, and because she has other bigger priorities than you.

Every time you try to pressure a girl into giving you attention, you are screwing up. Every time you ask her to give you explanations you are screwing up. So just don’t do it. It’s just a choice.

xiosy · 2022-07-12T17:30:28+00:00

Because you have no purpose in life Your chasing girls

Technical_Hawk8547 · 2022-07-12T17:32:58+00:00

Dude, it’s because you’re needy. It’s clear you aren’t talking to other women and you see something potentially happening here so you’re hyper focused on her. You don’t want to “lose” her, but your current actions are potentially doing just that. Focus on other things like hobbies, work, school, friends, etc. Respond to her within the same amount of time she generally responds. If she takes an hour you take an hour. If she replies with a sentence, generally reply with the same length of text. Texting is the fucking worst, but so much is lost over text that is a lot easier to convey in person. Good luck

he-is-i-and-i-am-him · 2022-07-12T18:08:48+00:00

Why do you care so much?

caetanosaul · 2022-07-12T18:40:36+00:00

dude, i think you shouldn't "force" anything because she is not your girlfriend and even if she was, you dont NEED to be so needy because, what's the point? do you fear being alone, thats it?

headyrooms · 2022-07-12T17:28:57+00:00

Rub one out

primallyours · 2022-07-12T18:26:12+00:00

By deed poll?

Long-Review-1861 · 2022-07-12T20:40:02+00:00

Look down between your legs, what do you see? Balls or a little flap of skin? Its just a girl dude, no big deal. She's a human just like you. Imagine her taking a massive fat diarrhea shit after a spicy curry night and it will bring her down to earth really quickly.

Stujitsu2 · 2022-07-13T00:44:03+00:00

This one is fucked. Next time only use the phone to set dates. You get her number wait a minimum of 4 days to contact her. Make brief small talk then ask when she is available to meet for drinks/dinner/activity. The no contact until the day off planned meeting and say: Tonight at 7 is still good for me how about you? Great see you then!

Mikethearchangel98 · 2022-07-13T04:03:15+00:00

You just need to like a life outside of a relationship. So many people honestly like the idea of having one. And think it should be the sole center of life. Its not. Even more so when you are just dating. Drastically when you are just talking to someone. We all have responsibilities, obligations, and interests outside if dating. If you feel this doesn't sound like you then that explains your neediness. You don't owe attention, and they don't either.

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Date	July 12, 2022 5:18 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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