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[–]red__what 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All it takes is once to be cheated on to understand it from the other guy's perspective.
let her be
[–]no_not_this 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro find a a different women. You are obsessing over a girl with a boyfriend and she’s not even into you
[–]Conscious-Trifle-137 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I think you shouldn’t try to get someone to cheat. She’s rightfully hesitant. There’s a code to seduction if you ask me: don’t fuck around with another man’s girl…
[+]VanillaCider2021 -19 points-18 points-17 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
They are on the rocks, and he's halfway across the world. I didn't even know she had BF until after I pressed for the solo date. I initially wasn't purposely pursing a girl with a BF.
[–]Conscious-Trifle-137 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
But now that you know, the honorable thing to do here is to stop seeing her.
If you don’t care about all that, I think you’re text message was great. Very direct and honest, without sounding very needy. Let her make the next play or move on.
[–]VanillaCider2021 -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good advice, and that's where my head was.
[–]NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think everyone on this sub conveniently forgets about the "7 hour" rule. Yes, it's an arbitrary amount if time, but it also has merits that most men who think with their dicks forget about (her perspective).
Women are turned on by how you make them feel and it is exceedingly difficult to get a woman into that erogenous mindset that allows for her to want you sexually & passionately UNTIL she initially gets over her fear of being murdered by you!
You want to fuck. She wants to live. That initial emotional conversion (fear to arrousal) takes ~7 hours. Don't forget it. Don't try to bypass it.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What do I think? I think you need to get your lights cleaned for doing some desperate gross ass shit like trying to get a woman to cheat on top of being incredibly pushy, clingy, and childish thinking you're going on dates when she wants nothing to do with you. Leave the woman alone and respect the bro-code. Think about your actions and don't be a piece of shit.
[–]VanillaCider2021 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She was on bumble. How was I supposed to know? She was the one that kissed me. I literally thought she was single until I asked her out for a third date. That is when she told me she has feelings for a guy but she did not say it if they were actually together. I don't really see how I am in the wrong here. You don't go on bumble unless yo want to date
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[–]VapeGodPP 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Leave her alone lol. She doesn’t want you and has a man.
If she already kissed you, I think you got a chance. Might as well go all gas no breaks. Might as well play it risky while you still got the chance. Better than regretting it. Just don’t expect anything more than a casual hook up though.
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