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[–]Snight 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Initial hellos -> establish common interest -> some kind of banter / intrigue -> ask for number / date if you already have number -> few more messages -> ask for date.
Think I’ve gotten 90% of the dates I’ve sought by doing this.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
One of the rules of seduction is to stop looking for a woman’s approval. If you want to say the right thing you are literally breaking that rule which will have a high rate of bad results.
If the girl thinks you are lame and loses interest so be it, that’s a choice you have to be willing to make.
You need to accept losing girls.
If you choose that you don’t ever want to lose ironically you will always lose.
[–]Vinegar_Tits_9 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Just be yourself. We aren’t that hard to demystify. Be a little bit funny, a little bit flirty. And hopefully you will genuinely get to know whoever matched with you. You don’t need to overthink things. Worst comes to worst, find something you like in her bio, and bring it up in conversation. Stand out of the crowd, because women on dating sites get a lot of ‘hey beautiful’ as an opening line, and let me tell you something…it gets old, FAST. Don’t be afraid to be different
[–]MrBlack__ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do not listen to this person
“Be yourself” is nonsense if that worked you think men wouldn’t have figured that out by now? FOH
[–]Vinegar_Tits_9 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Clearly you can’t be yourself, women can obviously see right through you. Definitely be somebody else.
[–]MrBlack__ -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re advice is trash, you can try to insult me but you’re chatting shit
“Be yourself” actually means be relaxed, cool, calm and seductive any other version of yourself won’t cut it.
So patronising as well.
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The only way is to get over your fear and do it. NO magic bullets are sold here.
[–]angrypuppy35 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Accept that you are a work in progress and stop expecting yourself to be perfect from the start. you’ll start off rocky, but just keep going, tinker with messages, adapt to feedback but just keep going
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[–]MrBlack__ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey how was your weekend has been killing it for me I’m not going to lie
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