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Stujitsu2 · 2022-07-05T21:18:58+00:00

She shows up

Initial-Laugh1442 · 2022-07-05T21:31:55+00:00

Looks at you in the eyes ...

Competitive-Bill-612 · 2022-07-05T21:36:18+00:00

Well if you are a shy guy by preference that’s cool. But by labelling yourself like that, your basically putting yourself in a box. Being sociable can be trained, if you just go out there with some risk: blowouts, rejections, awakward moments are all learning points for you to socialise better.

Also women love the initiative, you gotta make the first move when your asking her out.

Also emphasis on the initiative when you get her on a date. Remember your not hanging out with your mate here, be bold and escalate both physically (arm touch, hugs, hold her hand) and mentally (what kinda scene shes into, fetishes, wildest thing shes done)

You let your intentions known by stating them. You can play it indirect, but i always believe in direct game.

2022-07-05T22:48:58+00:00

The signs that a woman wants to spend more time usually go by way of request .. they ask “when am i gonna see you again?” or something like “im going to the store, did you wanna tag along?” .. if you mention going somewhere she ask “want me to go with you?” .. if shes at home she’ll ask “wanna come over?” .. if you constantly hear these requests & suggestions theres a chance she wants your time.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-05T23:55:54+00:00

I feel also when i have hung with women privately it’s a good time and i enjoy just spending time with them but the whole thing goes by without anything happen that would indicate they wanna be more than friends.

That’s because you are not making things happen, instead you are waiting for her to give you a clear sign that they want something to happen.

The problem though is that you need to understand that seduction and dating doesn’t work that way.

You cannot wait for signs, they won’t come simple as that. You could be waiting decades trying to figure out if the girl is giving you a sign or not and wasting your time over analysing.

You need to just do things without signs from them, you need to flirt sexually with the girls, you need to create sexual tension, you need to make your moves…

The girl is never gonna say “i have a thing for you and i want you to kiss me” it just won’t happen.

Women will expect you to just be daring, and if you can’t they will move on to some other guy who knows how to make things hot.

You need to play with her hands, you need to provoke them, you need to verbally express to at you find them hot and sexy, that their smile makes you crazy or that you can’t take your eyes off of her, you need to elevate the temperature when you are alone with her so she feels the anticipation for the upcoming kiss.

Things won’t happen if you don’t take the initiative to make things happen. You. could talk all day everyday with a woman but if you don’t show her your desire for her, i’d you don’t start to seduce her and turning her on in order to kiss her you will always be stuck in the platonic friendzone

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