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[–]CompetitionFair7686 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Because most women aren’t in online dating apps to go out with guys. They know and get to meet plenty of guys in real life so they don’t need to date guys online.
The only reason they are on those apps is because it gives them an ego boost.
Girls love validation, and guys on the internet give so much validation for free to the girls. That’s all they need to feel satisfied, they just need attention, compliments, praise, to feel confident again.
They aren’t really planning to go out with any of those guys who give them attention though. They are more like guys that entertain her.
So the problem is you trying to take online dating seriously when girls just see it as fun game and nothing more. Much like they use Tik Tok all day long, they can listen to guys on tinder complimenting her all day long.
I have yet to meet women who treat tinder or hinge or any of those apps seriously.m for dating. They all keep complaining the those guys in those apps all suck.
So you pretty much wasting your time there with 99.9999% of women you match.
[–]AdditionalHyena5109 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
makes sense. thanks
[–]Fresh_Leek7371 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't ask them out. Ask them over
[–]VisionsOfVisions 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Going out alone is better than going out with losers.
[–]AdditionalHyena5109 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
going out alone is hard because everyone in their own cliques and their kinda anti social. i went out thursday with an old friend of mine and we had fun, he even made out with a girl that approached us. but he’s gone now and the rest of mine are virgin losers that never do anything. so i’m stuck
[–]VisionsOfVisions 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Things are hard when you first start. Hop on a skateboard, the first time, you will have no footing.
If you want it to be easier, learn the skills required to navigate social situations with more ease.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wouldn’t be surprised if those are bots. IRL OLD usually takes a lot of work and effort unless you have amazing photos and an impressive bio.
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