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[–]Great at coke approachSnooHesitations4922 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Think about how you met. Do you really want to be involved for more than a brief time with someone that hooked up with a stranger right after they met at a club? It was a hookup. She knows what this was and probably already got more notches in her belt since, what she wants from u is irrelevant if anything at all.. Don't overthink and invest your thoughts and emotions, leave it at what it was. If you want to invest your time and mind in someone, make it someone with enough respect and interest in you to keep up on the communication.
[–]lowinski_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Thank you, I really appreciate and needed that. Exactly what I was looking for. Probably didn't want to admit it myself.
[–]Great at coke approachSnooHesitations4922 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I get it. Sometimes we are unexpectedly drawn to the person and lose objectivity. If I met the girl at the library or the symphony, yes, I would keep my mind open to building something more if there is mutual positive progression and communication, but dude, this was a club, this was 1 and done from the start. The story of how u met the person definitely matters.
[–]lowinski_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It honestly makes sense. That certainly sat in my head for a bit. Our conversations for sure made me think otherwise and things she had told me which made me think she may want something more but it's easy enough to lie or hide your true feelings. I did ask her about when's a good time to come back and visit and she dodged it. So your thought absolutely makes sense
[–]Great at coke approachSnooHesitations4922 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is all stuff you already know. Of course she would have attempted meaningful conversation with you seeing as u were inside her, but that is to keep things cordial, girls are social creatures, sometimes they will humour you until their next night out when you get replaced, that's the exact point where the communication drops off. Don't even feel bad, these girls that ride the carousel will be assed out when they hit that "wall" and wonder why no one wants to settle down with them because they failed to make good decisions early. Just be OK with being the mistake she made one night and carry on.
[–]lowinski_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"Ass out when they hit that wall" 😂 I love it man. They are certainly good at social interactions that for damn sure. This is really helping to keep my head on track and not get so wrapped up in it. I think carrying on is the best bet for sure!
Out of curiosity, what do you think would be her interest in me having social media? As a status thing?
[–]Great at coke approachSnooHesitations4922 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It could be a narcissism thing on her part. Sometimes to the point of an active social media life to being being requirement for anyone trying to date them.. Some people in their mind link the amount of followers or friends they have on their socials to their own status, and/or its their way of keeping people in check or tracking who interacts with who. I've actually disbanded socials a long time ago and I will tell any woman straight up I'm more about the real world than living and interacting thru big techs pipes.
[–]revente 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Go back to medieval times with your bigotry and sex shaming.
Plenty of normal, well-adjusted and good people do hookups.
[–]Great at coke approachSnooHesitations4922 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thank you for stating the obvious. Point out exactly where I said people that hook up are bad people. You just fishing for excuses to talk shit so take the dick out of ur mouth and pay attention and stop throwing around bullshit labels in the name of ur lord biden.
[–]Pop_Zestyclose 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not one for criticism huh ... While you clearly didn't flat out state that people who do hookups are bad people you sure did pass out a lot of judgement about the girl making mistakes and not being worth the time compared to someone you'd need outside of the club. And what's with the political reference?
[–]revente 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JYlPhFj_3T0
[–]lowinski_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I need to be more on that mindset 😂
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