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[–]SnooPets1514 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Seduction is a part of the ‘getting a girlfriend’ process too so don’t be so hard on yourself. There’s a lot of value in this subreddit and a lot of skills you’ve picked up (clearly) on the way.
Just don’t pick up another guys girl again. Problem solved.
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[–]grindforthegold -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
why don’t you focus on clubs, school events, classroom whatsapp chats etc and see if you find something more organic there. even if you don’t go to the school pretend you do. you’re 18 and super young meeting people like should feel very natural at your age
[–]CocoBabeNYC -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So what? I had a engaged girl give me handjob once. It's her choice, you are not forcing her to do anything. No attractive girl is ever without a boyfriend. They all have some guy who is either a bf, a fuckbuddy, a guy who has been waiting around for his chance for years, and ex, an orbiter, etc. If she wanted you, it's because she is not happy or satisfied in her "relationship". Women typically wait to find another guy before they break up.
[–]Creepy-Storage-1786 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do you use condoms?
[–]Creepy-Storage-1786 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women are really toxic. They judge men on their ability to sleep with other women. They are so shallow. Its the womens fault its not yours
[–]bandsupjay 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I mean. Its not that bad bro, lol. First of all. Good thing you realized how wrong you were and the badness of what you’ve been doing. Thats how change starts so props to you. But secondly, you’re being way to hard on yourself. Relax. As silly as I hate fucking saying this because I say this too myself every fucking time cause im a fucking victim lol. We are not perfect. You are not perfect. Who gives a fuck. You’re 19, you live and you learn. Now you know not to tie your worth to sex or external things instead to how you feel about yourself. I suggest you deeply practice some compassion and self love with yourself. Remember. Suffering and beating yourself up isn’t going to solve anything so stop. Its going to ruin your self worth even more. Instead be kind to yourself like as you would a friend. “Hey, i fucked up, but it isnt the end. We all make mistakes, its okay I can learn from this and not hold it against myself so deeply. Its normal to make mistakes”. You also didn’t do anything terribly wrong, just your own fuck ups in your head so you’re okay dude. I know its rough but start validating yourself. Remember all the good things you’ve done and how good of a person you are and start showing up for you. Build a bigger you off of this. U got this bro
[–]bandsupjay 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Welcome bro
[–]Creepy-Storage-1786 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Women are using him as a sex toy and not considering his feelings.
[–]bandsupjay 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thats what u think
[–]Creepy-Storage-1786 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
wym thats what i think , thats how it be
Lol ok 👍🏼 whatever floats your boat
[–]maaaxs 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am in the same shoes right now.
[–]Marcoscondit 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro didn’t you say you had sex only twice since being a virgin but you think you’re a whore🤣
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