Went on my first proper date - report & analysis

DestinyChitChat · 2022-06-22T16:47:16+00:00

Your self awareness is great and the first step in making changes. Nice job man.

Remember you can always analyze later, not in the moment. Whenever you get caught in those thoughts just STOP. PAUSE. And think...what do I want to do for fun? Something that doesn't require her presence. Then do that thing. Make it about you having a good time and your energy will be contagious and she will have a good time.

It's better to always ASSUME attraction no matter what. Doesn't mean be a stubborn jerk that can't catch a clue, but it does help with you naturally choosing the best responses in any moment if you start with a mindset like that.

Complicated_Business · 2022-06-22T17:50:38+00:00

I don't get you younger cats. If a girl checks her phone I'm like, "Who texted ya?" If it's a friend or something, I can bounce off of that, asking how they met, what do they like about them...that sorta stuff. But if I get something like, "No text, just checking something." I'll end everything in five minutes. She's not interested, and I'm not interested in trying to convince her otherwise.

LessResponsibility35 · 2022-06-22T17:08:14+00:00

You miss every shot you don’t take You never know, until you know. Don’t stress yourself out , leave that to the women . Be the man and do what your subconscious is telling you. ignore the resentment, and negative feelings that come when you’re with her . She’s there for a reason so you must be doing something right , a lot of women are very understanding but only so many times until she decides to no longer deal with you. Be different, be you.

Also, don’t move too fast. And I’m speaking In reference to how you speak, to when you’re opening her door etc. your subconscious has all the answers.. It’s just kinda hard to hear em sometime

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-06-22T19:19:44+00:00

Do you like art? Would you go to an art gallery by yourself if you didn’t have a date? If you answered yes to both of these questions, then you did something that you typically enjoy and she didn’t. If you answered no, you have no idea what you’re doing. If you want to try it again, just come clean and tell her you fucked up. Tell her you would like to take her out again and find out what she likes before you plan anything.

Title	Went on my first proper date - report & analysis
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Upvotes	7
Comments	10
Date	June 22, 2022 4:34 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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