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[–]hunterpua 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Be more specific. What did you say exactly and how exactly did she react?
[–]landsofwonder12 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Her: I wanna leave work early today
Me: What happened? Half day today?
Her: No!! I want to sleep!!
Me: bullshit! No way you gonna sleep at 8pm
Her: How do you know?? Are you following me?
Me: Yeah, on Instagram (not really following her)
A moment of silence after that 😅
[–]hunterpua 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This would be off putting and make her feel like you could be a creep but can be salvaged especially if you often get to see each other around other people.
How did she say, "Are you following me?"
[–]kathruins 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
we call that a learning moment. depending on what you said, it could have been rude or maybe that person in particular just didnt vibe with what you had to say. regardless, awkward moments happen. it sounds like it didnt ruin your chances. dont over think it!!
[–]ReorgAtty 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Assuming it’s nothing egregious, just move past it. Pretend it didn’t happen. People do stupid/awkward shit all the time. Just put space between that memory of you and her current image of you. She’ll get over it: either she’ll genuinely just forget it or she’ll cut you some slack.
But learn from it. You can’t constantly say stupid shit and get away with it.
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