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[–]hurricane4 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Truth is getting a number or IG doesn't mean shit.
Once you understand that you will be ok
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stop taking numbers and IGs. Start valuing what you have to offer. Taking a number or IG or whatever without her earning it is just giving away the milk without buying the cow. Why are you devaluing your time and your attention like this? Always approach a woman with a big question mark of what has she got to offer to make you interested.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This happened to me recently and it still bothers me. Men have to approach, ask for the number and constantly put themselves out there in the face of rejection, and then when a woman gives you her number, many times she’s to inconsiderate and self absorbed to reply back. It’s like dealing with a different type of rejection. Best advice I can offer is to not give af. Develop an idgaf attitude and move on. I will say from my own experience that this has set me back and made me somewhat bitter.
[–]Kennymacdougall 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't get why this got 0 likes. This is gold. One like from me at least.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks. I don’t know if it’s gold, but it’s a sad social commentary on the times. God clearly had a sense of humor when he put his greatest creation, the vagina on a woman. They use to be unreasonable to deal with, but now they’re impossible. With tic-tok and insta they’ve become so vapid and pretentious that all they seem to want is insta-attention. I read the countless posts from so many guys on this sub wondering what they’re doing wrong, or what they could do better and most of the time the answer is the same. It’s not you, it’s them. The ladder has been pulled up on many single men. Women are more independent and far more selective then I can ever remember. That’s fine, but the way they treat men with the ghosting and not returning a simple text is proof of how rude and inconsiderate they’ve evolved and become. The only upside is: The wall stops them all! After they pass their expiration date they all become humbled. Time is always on a man’s side, not a woman’s.
[–]ResponsibilityKey427 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I never cold approach.
[–]Travis_Varga 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why is getting a reply from some girl you don’t even know so important to you?
Spend time pursuing what’s more important for you to pursue your own happiness, your career, other women for romance, friendships, the arts, health, hobbies/entertainment etc.
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