Girls younger than me are not my thing, but all I meet is girls who want to date men older than them. How do I go about this ?

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-06-10T23:30:59+00:00

Women in their 20’s and 30’s are generally not attracted to men over 40.

Jaykee808 · 2022-06-10T15:04:45+00:00

Figure out why they're dating older, like are you guys broke or immature or both? I'm almost 30 and have most of my shit together and don't have any issue dating women the same age.

travelling_cirque · 2022-06-10T22:25:41+00:00

In teens and 20s, girls/women tend to go for older guys because women tend to be somewhat more mature (puberty happens much earlier, and societal pressures force girls to grow up more quickly.) This doesn’t take into account the social clock/ life experience (when you go to school, enter the workforce, etc.) but I always felt like men my age were on average significantly less mature than myself and other women my age.

The way to solve this for yourself is to be mature, and you’re going to have to clearly show that maturity in the relationship. But you can’t fake it and put on a show because women will see right through that.

I’m sure there are plenty of women out there who are older or about the same age as you, but you might have to look a little bit harder. As you get older, the maturity/ life experience gap will start to close though.

hopeful_hopelessness · 2022-06-10T17:47:54+00:00

How are you in bed? Because as a female who’s dated both older and younger men, I can tell you that more often than not, the older ones really know what they’re doing in bed, because they’ve had more experience, and been in more relationships. You’ve only dated 1 girl? One night stands don’t really count simply because it takes practice with one partner to get to know their body, what works, what doesn’t, having an open line of communication, etc.

So perception wise, women tend to generalize that older men are more mature, better in bed, and more financially stable. They don’t need to be “trained” to be a good boyfriend and lover because their exes have already done the work.

Title	Girls younger than me are not my thing, but all I meet is girls who want to date men older than them. How do I go about this ?
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Date	June 10, 2022 2:49 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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