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[–]conker1264 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
I can share as I just went on a date last week with mine.
Noticed her a while but was too scared to approach her as it’s the gym and I see her all the time. Started noticing others talking to her so she seemed like she didn’t mind it. So I said fuck it and just hey I see you here a lot and has a small convo. From there I just did small talk, little teasing but not hitting on her, for a bit every time I saw her until I asked for her number about a week later.
Took like 3 weeks to eventually go out due to scheduling conflicts but I thought we had a great time. It was a brunch date, lasted 3 hours and the conversation never really stopped.
Sadly I don’t think she wants to continue dating. She didn’t want to kiss at the end of the date but I can let that slide as not every girl does. But I texted her after saying I had a great time and we should do this again next week. She said she had fun and that she would let me know if she could. I said alright, we can go bar hopping next time. She said that sounded fun so I suggested Friday night. She left me on read.
She still acts complete normal in the gym, our conversations don’t seem any different than usual and the teasing is still there but I think she’s just trying to avoid hurting my feelings. Might ask her out one more time next week as a Hail Mary but I’m not getting my hopes up.
TLDR: It’s possible but probably won’t work out tbh.
[–]Black_Box0110 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
In my humble opinion, you shouldnt ask her a second time. From the way you describe the interaction after the 1st date, I personally would take that as a 'That was fun, you are nice but I am not interested' from her end. I say, leave her alone and dont mention the 2nd date unless she brings it up. Dont give her the pleasure of turning you down, plus it will be alot less painful emotionally for you. Good luck man 💯
[–]Only_Commercial_774 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s the problem with you, you don’t like shooting shots, he should just throw a Hail Mary and if she doesn’t wanna go out again atleast he’ll know but the problem is that this girl isn’t direct or confrontational
[–]conker1264 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I mean I don’t think she is either. Just wish she would say that as I see her all the time.
[–]nopalesyqueso 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've had a couple lol
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The way you react towards a male and a female is different, you cannot generalise for both genders because it requires a different approach due to the simple fact that women and men are not the same and do not share the same sexual psychology.
[–]Black_Box0110 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am aware of that, hence the post. If you are a girl you are welcome to enlighten us as to how a girl typically reacts to her secret gym crush.
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