Girls that workout....

Disastrous-Wasabi400 · 2022-05-27T20:51:57+00:00

Yea don’t be that guy who interrupts her at the gym. Now if you catch her walking out the stars have aligned. Fair game.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-05-27T20:55:27+00:00

Some girls like to be approached in the gym, some girls like it depending on the guy or how they are feeling that day, and some don’t like it at all ever (those usually wear headphones).

Your best bet is to start things indirectly to test the waters…

You can start by asking for help with a machine, or asking if they can take a video of you while you lift for your instagram or tiktok…

It needs to feel spontaneous, like it cannot look like you are deliberately doing for her, but rather you ask her because she is the closest person to you. You can also ask sometimes boys so it’s not that obvious that you are always asking women only.

Eventually from there if you feel she is friendly, you can say thank you and proceed to introduce yourself..

You can also approach in locker rooms, or in group classes, like zumba, yoga, body pump, etc As the group environment invites people to interact directly.

2022-05-27T20:52:44+00:00

When I workout (dude here) I don't want to socialize or talk to people. I only briefly chat with someone if I already know them.

At the gym, I want to get my reps in, and get the fuck out -- because I have to get back to work or some place else.

I believe women in the gym are the same. I have seen some girls in the gym working out with the same level of intensity as most guys. I don't think they are there to network or be approached.

However, if there is a girl with whom I make eye contact, and she seems approachable -- I might make a move. It's rare though. I've had this happen only a few times, and when I talked to them, they were open to chatting.

Lesson -- gym isn't always the best place to pick up chicks.

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-05-27T20:31:44+00:00

Girls do not want to be approached at the gym

TomHutch1 · 2022-05-27T20:10:45+00:00

I’d like to know how girls are the gym would like to be approached/ talked to. Even when I have no expectations about dating you, when & how do you want me to start a conversation with you?

ooeygooeylucy · 2022-05-27T22:38:02+00:00

I can immediately tell when I’m being eyed/ followed at the gym. Leave her alone but hope you can catch her on the way out. BUT, I will say, the one time a guy made a nice impression on me mid work out was when I came to a barbell I wanted to use but the weights weren’t reracked. He came over quickly to help me. Definitely didn’t feel romance or anything, but shit that was nice haha.

conker1264 · 2022-05-28T01:03:12+00:00

I’ll give you my advice as I actually have a date with my gym crush tomorrow.

It’s ok to approach girls at the gym but only if they seem approachable. Do you see other people talking to them? If so they probably don’t mind talking to you.

Do not hit on them if you approach them. It’s the gym and you see these people on a regular basis. This is not like a club interaction. Just say hi I see you here pretty often and converse from there.

Do not ask for her number in the first interaction. Again you see these people regularly, just do small convos for like a week and then ask for her number. Its also ok to be a little flirty when you converse but don’t be overly flirty.

Worked for me, but the odds that my gym crush was actually interested in me was a miracle itself.

Title	Girls that workout....
Author	Black_Box0110
Upvotes	4
Comments	11
Date	May 27, 2022 8:08 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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