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[–]Technical_Hawk8547 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Holy some truly terrible advice listed here. Hell one commenter even thinks you’re a dude. Another thinks you should be vocal about your tastes, which would be close to impossible with zero experience. No it’s not weird to be a virgin at 22. Don’t let these other redditors guilt you otherwise. Don’t hide the fact you are a virgin as well. Your first time should be with someone you trust and actually like. Not just a random hookup because you feel you need to get rid of. You aren’t going to be any different after you lose it. Just go out meet some guys and when you feel you met the right one then it’ll happen naturally. Your first time is important, for both men and women. The stigma for virginity in men is much worse then virginity with women.
[–]Candid-Sky-3662 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
But somehow i couldn’t find someone who i truly like so that’s the reason why i didn’t have sex but i made out with a guy i liked to a certain extent before. And now since im getting old and listening to my friend’s dating life makes me want to have sex and i just don’t know if i should wait till i find someone i can love cuz it’s somewhat really hard for me to find a person i like :(😭
[–]Technical_Hawk8547 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean it’s pretty clear you’re feeling pressure from friends to lose your virginity. Even if that pressure is coming from yourself. Personally I think it’s a big deal, your first time, but not all will agree with me. It won’t feel great to have some random dude sleep with you and toss you to the wayside. Then again I’m not you though. At the end of the day you’re going to be the same person before and after you lose your virginity. You only get one first time. Only you can truly decide what’s best for you. Good luck and be safe.
[–]kiramdahanett -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro u 22 but talking about highschool , enough to realize you're living in past & in ur head
just leave your "introvert" mood & start introducing yourself to girls during daytime.
[–]revente 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is this weird?
Yes but who cares? Most people who are in relationships or having hookups are equal weirdos.
Im a bit worried if it’s gonna be a bit weird just bc i don’t know what to do.
There's plenty of advice what to do on the internet.
General tips are to be active, explore his body with your hands, lips, etc.
Also have a general idea what he has to do to please you. So you can direct him.
Be vocal about your tastes.
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't tell them it's your first time and lose tour virginity asap. The longer you wait the more weird you are going to get.
Do u think telling them is gonna make the situation odd? But arn’t they eventually gonna know that im a virgin?
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Telling them you are a virgin is shooting yourself in the dick.
[–]NoDatabase1552-1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Ooh. A woman's body closes up holes if they're not used for 13 years. It's like any other piercing. Just make sure he goes into your pooper.
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