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[–]bemore_ 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Lol what's third base again.
Yeah your rate is low, I think it's because you're trying to date. At 19 focus on having fun and move fast with women
[–]throwaaway1432 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Third base is sex. What would you say is a reasonable conversion rate?
[–]bemore_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
1/3
Of the 60 matches, how many are messaging you back
[–]throwaaway1432 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I would say out of the 60 I’ve messaged around 50. 1/3 of matches converted to dates seems crazy high to me wow.
[–]bemore_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
How many message you back
[–]throwaaway1432 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I would say around 5/50 don’t reply at all and another 10 or so stop replying when it comes to the number/snapchat stage.
[–]bemore_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
1/5 seems reasonable.
What did the 3 you went on dates with have in common, what was the pattern of the conversation
[–]throwaaway1432 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
2 of them (including the lay) were quite the uhh “ho” type. Third was just your average girl. Dates went well imo, good convos and makeout in car before dropping her off.
Edit: What was the 1/5 referring to?
[–]bemore_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Moving forward with 1/5 of the women that you're talking with, so you'd be on 4 more dates
I say go with the ho's
[–]PimPedOutGeese 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Online dating is pretty much a waste of time. You’re better off talking to someone in person. Not to mention the plethora of women that use the app just for food and validation.
The reality is women have far too many options while browsing the app. So if you’re not ”the guy” you just won’t get a respond back… or you’ll get one liners.
But if you insist optimize your profile (Make it funny/fun while showing you are a catch… like saying something about your career eg: ‘My career’ is not for the weak or something to that effect… run your photos through peer judging software like photofeeler… and get an engaging opener ready to go.
[–]throwaaway1432 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I agree with you but I feel like girls my age (18-20) they are way less open to traditional methods such as being approached. Maybe this might change as I get older but that’s generally the feeling I get from girls my age.
[–]VisionsOfVisions 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’ll venture to guess that you have approached far fewer girls in person than you have swiped on apps. In person approaches are a numbers game just like the apps. But your success rate is almost guaranteed to be better.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Where is the proof that it is guaranteed better?
All iv seen is posts here talking about cold approaching leading to flakes more often
[–]Invest2prosper 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Have u tried? To approach in person?
[–]throwaaway1432 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, very few tho. Maybe around 10.
[–]Invest2prosper 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And? Let’s say you were 0 for 10, you know you might get lucky on the 11th one. You never know.
[–]throwaaway1432 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re right, just get demotivated after a while.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Those stats are pre good considering your height on a super shallow app.
My success rate is about 5 lays every 35-50 matches i get.
Would you say I would have better results in person (height wise)? Also how old are you if you don’t mind me asking.
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