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2022-05-15T23:01:16+00:00

Yes, I live in Europe and Switzerland is dating hell. Girls are so arrogant and just not that good looking. Go to Northern Germany and suddenly you're surrounded by tall goddesses who put effort and appreciate you

gaifogel · 2022-05-16T02:18:55+00:00

I 100% agree. Location, country, culture changes how you are viewed. In economic terms, you are a commodity, or perhaps a product. You are competing against other products.

thebaileybubble · 2022-05-16T03:33:29+00:00

From what you’ve described, if you end up in London, the ladies would loveeeee you!

Sea_Particular_9086 · 2022-05-16T00:31:11+00:00

It all depends, if you go seeking the attention you won’t get it. You go about your day doing the things you need to get done, being aware but also not giving a funk(indifference).It happens naturally being it’s not being perceived that you’re looking or seeking attention to be looked at.

2022-05-16T07:11:07+00:00

I think it strongly depends on the country and locations in the country as well. In the 100.000 inhabitants city I live dating is complicated as well. There is lack of younger women in that certain location. Lots of middle anged and ancient people out there but so many younger ones.

The only good thing about that is, that I am not young any more. I will be 40 in few years and then it is only 5 years left until I reach the average age of my city which is 45.

I am not blaming the disadvantage demographics in my town as the main reason why it is difficult in my city though. I am not that arrogant. There are other factors as well to consider for sure that have nothing to do with the age.

I am also curious though if my percepition would be different in a complete different place and country.

In September I might have the chance for that. Going to visit the states for the fist time (San Diego and LA). If I have to time I will try some day and club game on the weekend and maybe it is going to be funny.

ps: If you should end up in Austria be careful as black guy. We are not all borderline racists but do not be mad if some females here view every black guy with caution.

In Austria there is no thing such as African Americans. We only have a few black people that were born and raised here. Most blacks here are literally Africans that come from a complete different culture then our own. Their mindset is different and not the best attributes are asociated with them.

I am not going that far to say that you cannot score with Austrian women, mixed couple (white austrian women and black guy ) is thing here but you need to prepared to break their shield before you can talk with them.

chaoticneutralgirl · 2022-05-16T07:15:43+00:00

Yes. My idiot husband seems to have more success getting attention in the American Southwest. A girl there even told him he was “A Miami 3 but a Tucson 9” Tf?

Woujo · 2022-05-16T07:33:45+00:00

Yes, you will quickly learn that your success will vary based on the places you go. Different places attract different kinds of girls, and those girls may be more or less into you.

But you need to go all kinds of places. It is easy to get sucked into the mindset of "I am going to just go places where I have had success in the past." The rules of game are the same everywhere, you will just have a little more or less success.

You also need to be careful to not cause this to be a self-fulfilling prophecy. You may start to suck in a particular location because you feel like you suck. When I was growing up, I sucked with women, so for a long time my game sucked when I went back to my hometown. I finally got to a point where I realized that there was no possible way that girls in my hometown were that much harder than girls in other places, and the problem was really ME. I changed my mindset so now I do fine in my hometown too.

UnderstandingNo4813 · 2022-05-16T02:40:49+00:00

I’m surprised that as a black man you got attention at all! And plus its Texas. Also, lets be real, ALL women crave/lust for white men. Competition is stiff is all

Ok-Lingonberry1372 · 2022-05-16T02:12:09+00:00

Same here. Leicester. Zero attention so far

david10277 · 2022-05-16T15:47:39+00:00

It's all about the culture ..states differ countries differ.

Go to brazil bro..you wont believe your eyes

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