I can't even come up with a title for my friendzone situation [recovered]

5_7pickup · 2022-05-08T21:49:29+00:00

Just take the L fam

SnooBunnies9918 · 2022-05-09T01:39:34+00:00

Okay, couple things.

1) She knows you just ended a LTR and within a week or so you pivot to and essentially say, "You're next." Nobody wants to be in that position.

2) She accepted the fact that you all were friends, and you did too. The emotional attachment hit a ceiling. You can't just open the gates and expect her to rush in. Most women don't work like that.

You can get out of the friendzone. You're gonna need a lot of alcohol though...lol...totally kidding. For real though, you will need to backtrack what you said a little bit. Just tell her you were on an emotional rollercoaster and in the turbulence you got lonely and said what you said. Tell her you apologize for making her feel awkward and that it wasn't fair to through her in that position. Don't say shit about any expectations you have for your friendship or anything. Just tell her you wanted to apologize and end the interaction. Then, go radio silent for a while. Give her time to digest everything and get back to baseline. After some time passes, whatever you feel is adequate and appropriate, hit her up and invite her to hang in whatever fashion is normal for you all. Then, AND LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY HERE, you SLOWLY and EVER-SO-SUBTLY escalate with her. Like petting a fucking baby duck subtle. If you rush that shit she'll catch on like a Metal Gear Solid alert! As time goes on you close the distance with things like more eye contact, look at her lips, simple innocuous touches that grow over time, divulge a few very personal things with her. Push and pull. Hang for a while, then get distant. Never said another word about your feelings with her. At this point you are projecting the emotions to her and letting her create that connection to you organically. You can't reason a person into a relationship, they have to feel it. Create the feeling. Enough time, effort, and gradual escalattion will get you out of the friendzone. You'll know when it's gone. You'll see it in her eyes, how comfortable she becomes with being physically close and touching you, and if she starts looking at your lips. Make your move then, but do not try to negotiate your way into making her feel for you. Fucking swoon her, man!

Good luck, amigo! 👍

ElulEli · 2022-05-08T21:44:31+00:00

She said no. Sounds like an open and shut case. She doesn't like games, yet you're asking advise on how to manupliate her. Move on buddy.

Frosty-Parsley9140 · 2022-05-08T23:36:41+00:00

Omg 🤦🏻‍♂️ these comments. There is always a way out of the friend zone idc what she says. You can change a women emotions for you. Obviously she has a wall up. Have done this countless times

Contango6969 · 2022-05-08T21:42:32+00:00

Im sorry that happened to you or congratulations im proud of you.

denis_x · 2022-05-08T23:43:53+00:00

tl dr

klippklar · 2022-05-09T02:05:57+00:00

Hate to be the bearer but sounds to me like she was never into you. Apologize and lay low.

Go see other girls. She will eventually catch wind and if not hey, you are seeing other girls.

Title	I can't even come up with a title for my friendzone situation [recovered]
Author	NoMixUpMixUp [recovered]
Upvotes	1
Comments	20
Date	May 8, 2022 9:39 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ulbxds/i_cant_even_come_up_with_a_title_for_my/
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