I know this question has been asked a lot but…

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-05-02T22:27:44+00:00

Yeah you probably should have gone for the kiss, rather than the phone number. Doing that mistake usually gets girls to rationalise why nothing happened when she was willing to, and it ends up making you look bad and low value.

Also texting requires you to keep it to a minimum and also to be playful, if she asks how are you, the worst thing you can say is something like: “Well i’ve had a good day, pretty busy, but also went to the gym, and had a drink with friends, what about you”

This is all logical, and dull. Doesn’t spark any emotions, which is all texting should be about sparking emotions.

You need to think of creating emotions to get her attention.

You: “Fuck i’m in trouble now” (You do this to spark curiosity which is an emotion)
Her: “What? Why?”
You: “Cuz, i just showed your profile to my mum, and she says I should marry you… Da heck do i do now?” (You say a humorous thing to spark laughter and joy, which are also positive emotions)
Her: Oh hahaha, well I think we would first need to get to know each other.
You: “Too late! You are my wife now, how are we gonna name our kids?” (Another texts that causes laughter, aka another emotion)
Her: I don’t know, you got any ideas for names?”
You: Well if he is a boy… Spider-man. If she is a girl you choose (more emotions and also you begin establishing a connection with her)
Her: Haha ok, mmm, wonder woman•
You: “Oh boy, we are gonna be the mightiest family in the galaxy!”

This should be the vibe on texts. You can read books to learn how to have this vibe.

mrniceguy268 · 2022-05-02T20:49:18+00:00

Maybe you’re no fun.

Edit this sounded harsher than I wanted. But wake up dude. Girls, just like guys, want to be around fun and funny people who will take charge of being the good time. Do that shit homey. It’s not that hard. The only time a good looking guy can’t score is when he’s boring. Be fucking loud and funny. You know what’s hard? Looking like me and scoring a lot. But i did. And i not only was bad looking I was shy and awkward too! Double threat! But I grew up and stopped caring about every single interaction. I just liked to see how I could bring fun energy to every interaction and my results followed immediately. I hate my smile. It’s terrible and ugly. You know how hard it is for me to voluntarily smile without feeling like a complete asshole? But I did it just to see how people would respond. This was in like sophomore year of high school. Immediately people started acting like they wanted to be around me. Again, fucking Shrek has a more handsome smile than me. But it works. It says you are fun and a good time to be around. Be that guy you’ll be neck deep in pussy before you know it.

Psychological_Hunt24 · 2022-05-02T20:34:29+00:00

Dawg are you ever asking these girls out on dates?

Texting is NOT for conversation unless you're dating otherwise it should really only be used for setting up dates, ESPECIALLY in the beginning. If you talk to a girl for a whole week and you never ask for a date, what do you think is going to happen?

Calamity__Bane · 2022-05-02T21:25:52+00:00

When I was younger, I was obsessed with making this shit work. Now that I’m older, I’m a lot more successful and a lot less obsessed, but I think I enjoy talking to women a lot more now. Funny, that.

Zangief89 · 2022-05-02T21:45:31+00:00

Numbers don’t count for anything unless you at least kiss close or go on an instant date. Only text for logistics, no small talk. When I get tired of the game I just go out and play Chickenshit until I inevitably get laid. A lot of fun and it just makes everything so much easier so it doesn’t feel like work

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