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[–]EdUNC- 47 points48 points49 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’m not sure how things work in your country but I think it’s safe to say don’t ask her what’s in her bag.. she could think you’re a thief or something
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[+]Different_Algae4918 -7 points-6 points-5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Beta af
[–]nevertextgoodnight 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hey man that is awesome
And the fact you walked with the chick around the park is good too
Also it's great you're recognizing "comms"
One of the biggest things I look for is if I stop talking after a while is if she "fills the gap"
So instead of ever feeling like you need to fill every void with chatter, let there be a couple pauses. Especially if you two are having a good talk.
If she's willing to invest that little bit into the conversion, it is a good sign to close with her.
And after you get a few numbers and start to deal with the texting I'd recommend start setting dates in person with the women. "Hey I know this cool place I think you'd like, how is your schedule coming up?"
That way you'll leave with the # and the date
Good job bro
[–]flirty_guy17 45 points46 points47 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Be careful with Indian girls. Things that work in US/EU won't work here. You could be mistaken for a creep and there are always simps ready to defend her.
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[–]flirty_guy17 29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Don't approach girls who look like they have too much attitude (didi) and try to be good looking/ work on your appearance.
If they ignore/say no, immediately stop. Don't try to communicate again.
Try not to touch her, PUA may advise you to touch her, but don't ever try it.
Don't bring up sex at least till you know her decently well.
One night stands are almost impossible, unless you're a rich kid in Mumbai/delhi
[–]SwimComfortable7465 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
One night stands are almost impossible
Impossible to have or to cut out without any ties?
[–]flirty_guy17 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Impossible to have. Plus laws in india are women favoured. So a lot of indian girls regret consensual one night stand and their family may file rape case against you if they came to know about it.
and the burden of proof falls on the accused. so you'll immediately be in trouble.
[–]avirup_sen 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Both are! Even if you get one night stand cutting out is a big trouble. She might complain to Police that you persuaded her for ONS by promising her for marriage.
[–]PsychologicalCard448 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Either rich or very handsome. My friend has no problems.
[–]Healthy_Compote1195 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bro how much does skin colour matter according to you here ?
[–]flirty_guy17 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To be honest, It matters a lot, at least if you're an Indian trying to Pick up a white girl.
Indian guys have a quite bad reputation among white women because some uneducated Indian guys hit up women and send creepy messages in broken english.
That being said, if you're good looking and have a non indian accent, maybe you can get a girl a bit more easily. I have an indian friend who a lot of US girls find hot, but he's very attractive and athletic. And doesn't look like your avg guy
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Which city you're from?
[–]Evil_god7 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude!that's good.In india,the PUA culture is too different from the other countries. Wish there was a whole different dating advice sub for just Indians and similar country folks (the conservative ones ).
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Damn man good for you!
[–]mcgradydunk163 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nice one my man !! Keep going
[–]the_vendetta777 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro I just want to say I’m very proud of you.
It’s good that you approached 2 different girls had conversations with them, you already did so well. Keep practising but always keep the convo light so that your not stepping on any toes.
Since you know how to approach and start I think you should just focus on the girls who you feel approachable and attractive and keep practising.
My friends and I used to do this on church street after watching Vitaly & simplepickup 10 years back. Some of the girls gave us their numbers.
Bangalore is the best and there are a ton of hot women who are quite open minded.
Just spark a great convo get her details and bounce. Keep the convo light & nice so that even if she goes and tells her husband or boy friend, they should be like who cares.
But in her head you made a good impression. This attitude will get you more success and protect you as well.
[–]anshselfie123 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro where you from in India?
Anyone from CHANDIGARH into pickup
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