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[–]Lucazzz14[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe I am the possessive type, maybe I am the jealous type, maybe I am the rough around the edges straight shooter. Maybe I need to stop being so concerned about not being those things, and just start having the balls to pull the trigger.
Mostly this, my guy. You claim to keeping it cool but then internally lose it when she talks to another guy. Then last thing you want to do is get jealous and then you will fuck up. You know what to have to do yourself based off this reflection. All you can do when opportunities arise next time is to take it. If she says no, big deal.
You have to do both man. Be smooth and charming whilst going for what you want. Looks can open doors but if you have the personality of a potato and don't stimulate her mind, what's the point?
I went out with this one chick, and instead of going in for the kiss or whatever, I wanted to build more rapport. I really wanted that validation and that clear sign she was into me. And I didn't get it. I think part of it was because I didn't express my attraction to her enough, and take a chance on hearing that "no" when I shot my shot. After, she invited me to a hang out thing with a bunch of people
I went out with this one chick, and instead of going in for the kiss or whatever, I wanted to build more rapport. I really wanted that validation and that clear sign she was into me. And I didn't get it. I think part of it was because I didn't express my attraction to her enough, and take a chance on hearing that "no" when I shot my shot.
After, she invited me to a hang out thing with a bunch of people
This sounds like 2 people just hanging out man. And with you refraining yourself, she may have interpreted it as just "hanging out".
[–]headcase1111 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree with everything you’re saying to an extent.
I do disagree with one thing though, and that’s the idea that everyone is going to be all calm cool and collected about this shit.
I think it’s normal to get emotionally jacked up about this kind of stuff at times and I think I need to accept that instead of being too cool for it.
And as for the hanging out thing, I think there was room for more but I didn’t push it enough and chase what I wanted enough. Be more forward sexually
[–]SocialReject101 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't even understand what is "smooth" considered nowadays here. For me it is probably being natural and going with the flow while being yourself and expressing INTENT
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