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[–]garlopf 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Get a job that pays decently. You will need the money going forward. Get more than 0 friends. Join a activity/club and work on getting friends. Male friends you hang out with on the daily that can support your effort and introduce you to candidates. Go to the gym, get a membership. Use it 2-3 times a week and build your body. Make sure you are actually lifting weights and making real progress. Ask one of your friends to join you. Eat healthy. 3rd plate of carbs, 3rd plate of vegs and 3rd plate of proteins. Pick up a few hobbies you think you'll like. Painting, dancing, singing whatever. Find out what makes you happy and continue doing that. Go to a clothes store, with the friend in your group (you have friends and money now, remember?) that dresses the best, and ask him to help you pick out a few full sets of clothes. Go on trips, see the world (or your country), bring your friends on a road trip. Have fun. Go out with your friends and wing eachother. After doing all this you will notice that 1. You forget about girls 2. You have too much fun to worry about them 3. You meet girls all the time as part of your action packed day 4. Girls might be into you for once, they see your smiling group of active healthy guys with hobbies and think to themselves "hm those guys are doable".
[–]LeatherBoundWisdom 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do the tried and true formula of lifting, daygame, and reading theory. I was in your position when I first started. KHHV on my 20th birthday, started lifting, starting day gaming weekly, read every drop of wisdom I could get my hands on. Lost my virginity in 3 months on vacation.
[–]fourwindsgold 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Change day game for going to the club and yup. You will get a lot more than 1 in 3 months
[–]LeatherBoundWisdom 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well he's 20 so I assumed no access to clubs, but you're 100% right.
When I lost my virginity it wasn't actually from day game. I was on vacation outside the US with lower drinking age so it was my first time ever running night game. Brought a girl home on the second night. After running day game for 3 months it was so easy lol.
[–]simplyaguyonline -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, go back 10 years before social media and OLD. Average dudes don’t get laid anymore. You just aren’t good enough. Like rats fighting over scraps man. Men gotta say fuck all this shit. Pussy ain’t worth all that work. Like damn, it used to be easy to hook up. EASY bro. A bit of booze, a bit of confidence, and you had a shot. Between feminism and social media, girls either think they’re better than us or deserve “mr Chad thunderfucked in the head but he’s so cool so I’ll bang him why wondering why he’s banging 3 other chicks.”
Want to get laid? Too bad. Get bitter about it. Go to the gym nonstop. Make a fuckton of money. But don’t give them the satisfaction. They don’t fucking deserve you man. They really fucking don’t. They don’t deserve any of us.
[–]shaggy2gay -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Watch a few daygame videos and then go out and do it nonstop until you fuck someone.
[–]Artaxias 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Go read models by Mark Manson. That book is definitely meant for you.
[–]Adviceseekering -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’ve read books before, didn’t help much.
[–]Artaxias 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Or don’t. Up to you.
Though you’re gona need a greater perspective. Panic attacks when asked for sex ? Yeah, you’re definitely gona need all the perspective you can get.
[–]feedthekitty 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This fucking sub...
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