I had sex with my ex on Friday and now it’s Sunday. What should I do?

ThrowAwayAccount__0 · 2022-03-20T04:19:47+00:00

Stop looking for validation on the internet for your actions.

afshsheh11- · 2022-03-20T04:27:18+00:00

Bro just do the stanky leg cuz you hit again

zertsetzung · 2022-03-20T05:38:18+00:00

"Should I message her to schedule a date or should I not? Not sure how togo about continuing a relationship with my ex girlfriend - never beenin this situation."

No. You should focus on other women and not chase her. She slept with you once recently. She'll likely do it again as well as long as you dont act desperate and give her some space.

Giving her some space meaning: say nothing, dont text her to schedule a date. But when she texts you and shows signs that she wants to hookup, bite the bait.

By the way. She may play some games with you now and then: she may pull a stunt like calling you or texting you out of the blue, getting you to set up a meetup or a fucking session with her, acting like she is going to go through with it, and then either ghost on you or change plans at the last second.

Dont get pissed off or suggest a bunch of different dates to reschedule. Because that looks desperate. Just be like "no prob, we'll take a rain check. Hope you get to feeling better (this is just an example)."

I'd like to add that you and her are 9 times out of 10 finished as an actual relationship. So if I were you I'd quit clinging to the hope of that. Given that you dumped her so suddenly, she is going to have a bit of a wall up towards you from here on out. And the minute you start acting boyfriendish, she is more than likely going to become very wishy washy and or hard to reach.

The ball is mostly in her court. She just wants to fuck at this point. Take advantage of the situation and keep her in your back pocket while you use this time to start seeing other women.

"And yes I know I shouldn’t be, but fuck it, life experience incoming."

Yes I realize you are probably going to do what you want to do when all is said and done. That is what most people do.

But you should consider taking my advice and insight. It could save you a lot of back and forth and disappointment.

HotCard1588 · 2022-03-20T05:07:27+00:00

I had a similar situation, just keep it casual until she decides what she wants if you can. She already rejected you so the ball is in her court to decide what she wants. If it was me I’d keep my options open until she decides what she wants

cass2769 · 2022-03-20T05:18:29+00:00

You need to put in effort again as though you are first dating. Don’t assume you’ll just pick up where you left off. But also you might.

Ask her out and try to see her regularly. Stay in contact every day or so…not too much of course (don’t want to overwhelm her)

You might also need to address why you broke up. You said it was something small. She might need to know if you’ve changed since that…she might not be super trusting if she thinks you’re going to drop her over something small again.

Title	I had sex with my ex on Friday and now it’s Sunday. What should I do?
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Date	March 20, 2022 4:13 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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