Met girl at bar. Got number. Invited her out to dance with some friends. She mentions she's bringing friend + date

Jmilly87 · 2022-03-10T01:23:51+00:00

Get another number my dude

Billyjeanisntmylover · 2022-03-10T02:49:18+00:00

Yes you got friendzoned. But this might be an opportunity to expand your social circle and meet other girls, such as her friend.

whoapnw · 2022-03-10T01:25:14+00:00

Yeah you’re probably better off. A girl that gives her number out while she’s dating someone is probably sketchy to date lol

Jmilly87 · 2022-03-10T01:29:00+00:00

Yeah, if she’s into you it will be very clear. I found my beautiful wife in a parking lot at a music festival. We were married 3 months later in Vegas. Our parents were mad, but whatever, 5 years later they’re over it.

ikeepon · 2022-03-10T02:41:38+00:00

She bringing a date and a friend? Thank her for the foursome but you only down for threesome’s with her friend 😅

ksmith11011 · 2022-03-10T05:52:37+00:00

Imagine your girlfriend gives her number to a guy at a bar and then wants to meet him for a date he invited her on. The only way she can rationalize doing this is to bring you, her boyfriend on the date. She’s not doing anything wrong if her boyfriend is there.. right?

2dice1hand · 2022-03-10T07:00:16+00:00

Depends what your capable of ! Depends what you make it Depends what you can handle

Jmilly87 · 2022-03-10T01:29:44+00:00

Oh, that was out of 60,000 people and our GPS took us to the wrong parking lot!

Billyjeanisntmylover · 2022-03-10T03:02:29+00:00

Charge it to the game my boy.

Grand-Transition-626 · 2022-03-10T03:52:16+00:00

Screw the whole of that. NEEEEEXT

zertsetzung · 2022-03-10T04:45:52+00:00

Sort of.

But initially when you are setting up dates with women, you should avoid the party date (parties, bars, clubs, megaclubs...) and always shoot for a 1 on 1 date.

This will do 2 things. It will prevent (or at least make it more difficult for) her to invite her boyfriend along or any other people who could get in the way between you and her, and it will eliminate any confusion about what you want from her.

It is likely that she realizes that you are romantically interested in her. But she probably has the mind that she is going to just keep you in her back pocket for now.

My advice would be to attend the "date" but since she is with her boyfriend, use the time to definately move around the venue, socialize, and chat up other women.

Dont be spiteful about it though. Women are very socially calibrated and know when men are playing petty games with them to try to make them jealous, get back at them, or "punish". It doesnt look good in their eyes.

Make sure you initially have conversation with her and her boyfriend as well with the date.

Oh btw I just realized something. Her bringing along her friend is likely an arrangement or something. Keep an open mind. Dont get oneitis. Because its highly possible that the friend could be even more attractive than the girl you are interested in.

Dont miss out on a 9 or a 10 because by becoming blinded by obsession with a 7 or 8 who just dresses sexy...

Prof4CMV · 2022-03-10T08:02:55+00:00

Lmao a girl says she’s bringing a guy she’s dating and you’re wondering if you got friendzone. I’d want to know what that interaction was like if you’re confused about this

I’d at least get a pic of the friend to see if she’s cute

Title	Met girl at bar. Got number. Invited her out to dance with some friends. She mentions she's bringing friend + date
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Upvotes	3
Comments	18
Date	March 10, 2022 1:21 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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