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[–][deleted] 27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Don't treat her like you would your girlfriend. Treat her like a random hookup.
At the same time, don't expect her to treat you like her boyfriend. Expect to be treated like a random hookup.
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[–]SemiDabz710 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Let her bring up the date. That way it do not seem like your rushing her into something she does not want.
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[–]SemiDabz710 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You should, keep hooking up until she wants to do something more.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This. If she wants something more, she'll bring it up.
[–]SlyderKmK 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You left the ball in her court. She said she would message you if things changed. You need to plan on that things haven't changed...so don't message her again right now.
You need to mirror her actions.
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[–]SlyderKmK 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What I mean by that, is to mirror her actions towards you. Is she being bitchy? Just let her know you don't have time for that. Is she not messaging? Fine, don't message her. If she isn't excited to hear from you...then why should you be excited to hear from her? If she's busy, then you should be busy...
If she contacts you, then chat for couple minutes, and just say "Hey, have to cut this short...have some places I need to be..holler at ya later".
I mean why do you want to put your time into someone who doesn't seem to be excited about it?
It's funny, but women are like cats. You give them a little attention, and then they go away...they come back when they want attention. If a cat leaves, and you chase it around, they just run away from you faster...and you'll never catch that cat.
[–]BatBottleBank 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Leave it
[–]EvadingTaxes 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wait it out, she’s gonna respond eventually
[–]Ok_Philosopher_8093 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn’t have texted her again after she said she’d let you know because the very next text from her should have been her decision, instead you texted her nonsense and she replied and now it’s up in the air whether she’ll circle back to letting you know. I’d assume it’s off and she probably lost interest before that.
[–]Ok_Philosopher_8093 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
hope it works out tho!
[–]determinator94 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Next gal
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She lost interest in you. Leave it, and don’t talk to her again until she text you again.
[–]drakeinmycar 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro congrats on getting laid 🤣
[–]chonos03 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She has no intention to date you. She’s just using you for self validation purposes. Don’t ever send her another text, and if she ever does text you first, leave her on seen.
You’re nobody’s second plate, king
[–]b_a_d_r0b0t -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Move along, someone else is fucking her.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Have you had sex with her yet?
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ok well "making things more formal" sounds like you're trying to relationship her up.
If you want a FWB, invite her over to watch sponge bob
[–]consiliac 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm curious, what do you mean by "fuck boy" communication versus "formal"?
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