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Silver-Variation8903 · 2022-02-22T20:37:09+00:00

The gym is like a catch 22. Because there you’ll find the best girls, since they are fit, and they are at a place of self improvement which is a great indicator that they care about their lives.

But then also many go to the gym to zone out and the last thing people want is someone interrupting their workouts.

I think the way to do it is see if she has headphones in, if she does don’t disturb her.

If she is taking long breaks between sets then you can assume she is in no rush and approach her.

Hmmoklolthisisfine · 2022-02-22T22:08:07+00:00

Talk to girls in the gym like you should in any other situation. If she’s busy doing something leave her alone. If she’s chilling and looks like she has a moment to talk then say something. Don’t be creepy and don’t come at her being super flirty with the first comment.

Here’s my latest example

Last week I was walking to my next exercise and passed by the treadmills. I saw a pretty girl walking and we exchanged eye contact so i smiled and kept walking. Obviously I’m not going to go talk to her while she’s on the treadmill or be a creep and use the one right next to her.

I’m at the dumbbells and she sits down at the bench next to me. Between my sets I saw her looking for a weight. I got her attention and offered my weights. She said they were too heavy so we made small talk and I asked for her name. I told her if I see the weight she’s looking for then I’ll come bring it to her. She was happy and now we know each other’s name.

I didn’t have to flirt with her or say anything cringey. I just treated her like a normal person and showed her that I’m confident enough to talk to her.

Next time I see her I’ll say hi and if the moment is right I’ll make conversation with her and feel out the vibes. If she’s into me then I’ll ask her to grab food or a smoothie with me after the gym.

Good luck!

DarkHorizon999 · 2022-02-23T22:23:19+00:00

The problem with that is that you will see the same faces on a regular basis and get called the creepy guy to avoid

2022-02-23T01:57:30+00:00

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2022-02-22T21:31:16+00:00

You could also make friends with some of them and meet other women through them. It really helps when you are friends with a lot of people at the gym.

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