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Don’t be so quick to apologize in situations when you have done nothing wrong. It makes you appear weak.
/r/seduction17/05/22 11:52 PM
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His advice definitely works but not on every girl. I’ve had girls that’s I asked out with my opener and they immediately said yes and sent me their number. I’ve also had girls who I tried that with and they’d say “hey I want to get to know you a little more before we meet up” then I talked to them for a few days before we finally hung out Either way shoot your shot and don’t waste too much time trying to win her over. Focus on escalating and if she says it’s too fast then slow down your pace.
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:30 PM
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I like bad decisions
/r/seduction07/05/22 01:27 AM
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You have to be assertive and work on your game. If you are good at talking with women then it doesn’t matter if some dude walks over and starts talking to the girl/s you are with. When you are with hot girls they will always get hit on when you are out with them. You don’t even let it bother you or cause a reaction. Tbh I just let the dude shoot his shot bc I know there’s no way he’s gonna swoop on the girl I’m with. Then I go back to leading the conversation. I’m good at being the center of con…
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:34 PM
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Big town lol I live in SoCal outside of LA
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:30 PM
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Honestly bro that’s where I fucked up. We usually will pregame at someone’s house then go out to bars/clubs. I knew one girl was already mad at me so I wanted to separate her from her friend so I could smash. I was going to try to take these girls to this “party” so I could lose the main chick and take her friend home with me.. obviously this didn’t work but it was worth a shot
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:11 PM
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The only real way to improve your skills is through experience. You can read all the resources on how to be a good baseball player but until you actually step up to bat, you’ll never learn to score a home run. Same goes for dating and getting better game with women. You need to get out and EXPERIENCE life so you’ll gradually improve your skills. DM if you need more detailed advice
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:08 PM
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Lmao tbh I ended up getting in a fight that night. My original date got jealous. When the club closed around 2am she asked me to drive her and her friend to a “house party” I’m like fuck why not and I drive the girls there. We pull up to the house and she runs inside. I chill in my truck a few minutes and made out with her friend. Then I said ok let’s check out this house party. I walk inside and it’s just 5 dudes hahaha no party, not even music. From the moment I walk in this guy starts pressin…
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:28 AM
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No :(
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:26 AM
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Exactly. I had a hinge girl ask me if she can bring her friend like an hour before our first date. Of course I said yeah bring her. Then I ended up at a club dancing with two girls at the same time and made out with both of them that night.
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:40 AM
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I wrote a comment in this post about a few simple lines I’ve used recently in situations that worked for me. Don’t overthink it. You said you’re funny so use that to your advantage.
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:18 AM
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Idk why you got downvotes lol it’s true As I get closer to my 30’s I keep getting better with women. I know I’ll be in my prime in my 30’s. Also your idea to write out your goals is great to strengthen your mentality and it makes you more confident bc you have goals that you can passionately go after and share with others. Goals you can be proud of.
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:13 AM
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Bro I’m 29 and I get 10x more and better looking girls now then when I was 24. I’m gonna be in my prime in my 30’s and you can too if you change your mindset. No girl is out of your league. No girl is the most beautiful girl you’ll ever get. You’re not lucky. There’s millions of beautiful girls everywhere and you’ll get with a lot of them if you start believing you deserve to be with them.
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:11 AM
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Yeah man exactly haha no beef here. We’re all here to learn from each other and discuss different ideas. & to lead the conversation I mean saying interesting topics that leads everyone else to talk about it. Like you can say something as dumb as “ew why are you drinking an AMF?!” Then the girl is thinking wtf is wrong with my drink and she begins telling you why she is drinking it. Then everyone else starts talking about what drinks they like and debate if AMFs are trash or good. Or you can say …
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:07 AM
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I think you did great! Definitely on the right track. Rehearsed lines are wack. It’s not genuine and you can’t rehearse a whole convo, just a few lines. I’ve opened so many times with a simple “hey how’s your night going?” And it leads to genuine convos
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:53 AM
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Ok good point. You don’t have to be super talkative. Use the qualities you already have and make people laugh. You don’t need to be talking the entire time. But what you do want to do is LEAD the conversation. As in you are the one starting topics that everyone else can continue carrying the conversation with. I think you’ll already be affective by simply replying with funny one liners here and there. But if you don’t want to lose girls to guys who take over the conversation then you’ll need to …
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:49 AM
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Yeah bro I know. That’s exactly what I’m saying. You can’t be so passive in groups. Take the lead and speak up. For sure it’s good to listen especially when you are one on one with a girl. Let them talk all they want. But when you’re in a group with one guy who is the most dominant then he will attract all the attention and the girls will spend their time talking/listening to him over you.
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:34 AM
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Bro I wrote him a whole ass paragraph hahah Sure it’s fine to act interested in what a girl is saying. But women like men who lead. Let’s say there is a group talking and one guy who stands there saying “wow that’s so interesting tell me more” what makes him attractive? What value is he adding to the convo? Nothing. He’s just a good listener. Then I walk up and steal the spotlight by leading the conversation. Mr. Good listener sits quietly while I take his girls. Happens all the time to guys who…
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:25 AM
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He said his only contribution to convos is jokes and replying to whatever the other person said. Then you told him what you think is the correct way to reply and you said to let the other person talk 80% of the time. He is failing and losing girls to other guys bc he is already doing what you’re saying. He is listening too much and not adding anything of real value to the conversation. He needs to be talking more and taking lead of the conversation.
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:12 AM
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If your main contribution to conversations is to piggyback off of what other people are saying then you’ll never lead the convo. Which means you’ll continue to have the more dominant men take the girls you’re interested in. If you become a more interesting person then you’ll have more topics to share. You want to tell stories and spark excitement in your conversations. This is easier when you’re genuinely passionate about the topic. If you feel you already do live an interesting life that you’re…
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:05 AM
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Did you even read what he wrote…
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:44 AM
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Some of them yeah lol I would pick up one of the secretaries on her lunch break and we’d park and hook up in the back seat hahaha But yeah of course I’ve fucked some of them
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:57 PM
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Like most people here are saying just keep it casual. A simple “hey how are you you today?” Is all you need. Exchange names and next time you see her be sure to use her name. Another tip that helps me when I’m at a loss for words, is to talk about myself. For example, I walk up to the desk and don’t know what to say. “Hey how’s your day going?” Is all I think of.. She responds with a short “good and you?” (This is a very common response) Now I could reply with “great!” Then the convo dies. Or wh…
/r/seduction22/03/22 03:19 PM
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What’s your point? Are you saying he shouldn’t approach women at work? I’ve got a girls number who worked at the front desk of a gym. I’ve got bartenders, cashiers, waitresses, and secretaries numbers while they were working.
/r/seduction22/03/22 03:07 PM
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There is no average. Sometimes I text girls days later. Sometimes minutes later. Every girl and every situation is different. I just live my life and respond when I want. You have to be able to read the situation. You don’t want to be super available and needy. So don’t text her back immediately after she texts you. But sometimes it’s fine. For example, if I text a girl and she hits me back in a few mins then I’ll hit her back up in a few minutes. Occasionally that will turn into a text conversa…
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:40 AM
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Every situation is different
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:34 AM
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Bro hate to break it to you but you’re not really that attractive if you’re writing posts like this..
/r/seduction18/03/22 03:50 PM
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No I meant how did you open in your DM hahaha
/r/seduction15/03/22 11:43 PM
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Should have pulled her that night What was your opening message?
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:20 PM
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Hahaha this shit is wack. Be strong and confident in yourself. If she’s wrong, check her.
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:08 PM
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I grew up in an extremely strict military house. My family didn’t let me socialize or do normal kid things. No spending the night at friends house or staying out on the weekend. I still snuck out sometimes haha Anyways when I turned 18 I moved out and had to learn everything about socializing and how the real world operates. You and anyone else can easily do the same.
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:47 AM
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Tbh I tried but I couldn’t read all this
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:23 AM
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29M I’ve recently met women at breweries, clothes shopping at random stores, grocery shopping, in the elevator, music festival, bartender at bar, club, hinge, the gym, snowboarding, house party, hiking. Tbh I don’t look for girls. I just do the things I like. If I see a pretty girl I shoot my shot. I think looking for girls is unauthentic. Live your life and they come to you.
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:20 AM
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Adjust your profile. I’m consistently meeting beautiful girls on hinge.
/r/seduction15/03/22 02:47 AM
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Bro go eat some mushrooms and check your ego Quality women don’t care about your bank account, trendy clothes, or fancy colognes. Idk why you even feel the need to tell a random stranger on Reddit. You want a fucking medal? Hahaha we don’t care If you think those things make you a “hot commodity” then you’re going to attract women who only care about those materialistic items. I never tell women about my financial situation and I don’t wear designer anything. What makes me a “hot commodity” (hah…
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:45 PM
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You’ve hung out with her all these times and all you’ve done is hold hands? I’m going to guess she’s probably spending her time talking to a man who takes the lead and is more dominant.
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:32 PM
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Listen to what you’re saying… Imagine it’s the next day after the bar. You think the girl is going to wake up and call her friend to say “omg do you remember that guy with the really cool outfit and the painted nails?! His style was so gorgeous! Wowww. We’re Instagram friends now :) I hope he DMs me 🥰” Yeah probably not. Now let’s say a man with a basic outfit but has a dominant charismatic personality approached that girl in the bar and escalated past the friend zone you’re in. The next day she…
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:23 PM
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I’m talking to 6 girls right now plus 3 on hinge. Basically what I do is prioritize my life goals and friends first. If I have openings in my schedule then I fill in those open spots with girls. For example, last week I had plans with friends Saturday at 8pm. So I told one girl hey let’s hangout at 6 but I’m meeting up with my friends after. Then we hangout and I move on with my night. This way I can fit in about 3 girls per week and it doesn’t really take too much of my time. I usually pick the…
/r/seduction11/03/22 12:31 AM
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Big facts hahahaha
/r/seduction10/03/22 11:32 PM
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Real world experience is more valuable than any books. Books don’t teach you how to flirt. You’re going to get the same info as you read on this sub. You need to get out and learn by talking to women. It gets easier the more you go out. The best thing you can do is hangout with other men that are good with women. I like hanging out with my friends who are also good at talking to girls. It helps me stay in the zone and I even learn new things from them sometimes.
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:00 PM
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I’ve never read a book on soccer, basketball or football. But I started in all three sports in high school. Real life experience is all you need.
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:58 PM
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hahahahha the best advice tbh
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:56 PM
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Bro that’s what I’m saying. You can get girls that DO care about you. That’s the sex that is good. Having sex with a girl who is crazy about you and can’t stop thinking about you when you’re gone. You just have to not worry about rejection. It’s part of the game. Bro I get rejected. On the other hand, I reject girls and they still come at me even after I say no. I literally told a girl tonight “we’re probably not a good match. I think I’d be too much for you” and she says “I think you’re just th…
/r/seduction09/03/22 06:37 AM
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Hahahaha I guess you’re right then. Personally I think sex is way better when it’s passionate and emotions are involved. But everyone’s different. I can see where you’re coming from. You just want to nut and keep grinding. Nothing wrong with that if that’s you’re thing.
/r/seduction09/03/22 06:24 AM
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Fix your mindset. Love yourself. Think how fucking amazing you are, and only then will you find someone who also thinks you’re the most ducking amazing person too! Stop calling yourself average. Sure you made mistakes but you’re human, capable of growing and improving just like anyone else. You’ve been “on the market” for 5 months. That’s nothing. Give yourself time to truly find yourself. You’re young af. You have so much to experience in life. Find your passions. What you love in life. Interes…
/r/seduction09/03/22 06:13 AM
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Have you ever counted how many fish there are in the sea? No? Me either. Move on, there’s a million other options out there for you.
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:24 AM
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The way you see yourself is how others view you as well.
/r/seduction09/03/22 03:35 AM
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Tbh who cares? Just laugh at yourself, show that you don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks of you and keep talking about whatever you want. I was getting dinner with this girl the other night and we ordered some wine. I’m no wine connoisseur but I enjoy a glass from time to time. So here I am swirling my wine in a funny way and she stops me to say “what are you doing? You don’t swirl white wine” I laughed and said “I don’t care. I do” She says “I’m not judging you, just letting you know” I reply …
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:05 PM
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Idk, I’ve never met a girl like this. Girls just want to have good time so I take them on fun dates.
/r/seduction07/03/22 05:12 PM
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Good job. It only gets easier from here.
/r/seduction04/03/22 07:36 PM
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You give her a time and date If she says it doesn’t work and she doesn’t offer a time to reschedule then move on If she says your day doesn’t work but she wants to coordinate a different day then figure it out with her
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:54 PM
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What are you asking? We don’t know either one of your schedules … coordinate a date with her that works for both of you
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:01 PM
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What pick up line do you say ? hahah I just say hey how are or how was your day? Or I tell her about something I find interesting about her, myself, my day, my life, where we’re at.
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:49 AM
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She’s fucking another guy right now while you’re writing about her on Reddit. If she was into you she wouldn’t have rejected you. Move along.
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:48 AM
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Like I have something they want
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:46 AM
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Link up = meet up
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:31 AM
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This does work
/r/seduction03/03/22 03:36 AM
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Bro what is this lmao
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:21 AM
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No and it’s going to make it more difficult to have sex
/r/seduction03/03/22 12:58 AM
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You should have wrote this in MLA format
/r/seduction03/03/22 12:44 AM
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Nervous about what? What are you scared of?
/r/seduction02/03/22 11:53 PM
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Stop trippin on girls that don’t reply. They’ll always come around. And if they don’t, just remember you’re a good looking guy with plenty more options to replace her. Enjoy those tacos bro
/r/seduction02/03/22 08:57 PM
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Definitely play music but more of a background sound. If you really like a song then show it to her and ask her what she likes. Maybe you two will vibe over music. Talk to her like a friend. The goal here is to connect with her, right? Tell her about the things you’re into (hobbies, passions, goals). Ask her about hers too. If you think she’s pretty tell her. Be casual about it though. You can say things like “that color looks really nice on you! , your nails look cool did you do them yourself? …
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:38 PM
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The bungalow in Huntington Beach CA
/r/seduction26/02/22 08:27 PM
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Actually it’s good advice. You shouldn’t over think sex. Be in the moment. Or you’re going to be one of those dudes who is always over thinking and next thing you know you can’t get hard because all you keep thinking about is making the right move.
/r/seduction26/02/22 07:03 PM
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Wtf is this Just go out and talk to women. Of course you’re only going to meet women who are interested in looks over everything else when you only meet them on tinder. Meet real women and have real conversations. Cut out this isolation bs. Humans are meant to connect with each other.
/r/seduction26/02/22 05:53 PM
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Me and my friends talk to women in public. How can anyone get in trouble for that? You insecure dudes are ridiculous.
/r/seduction26/02/22 11:12 AM
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Sounds like the hot white guys just don’t approach you. You got the lames.
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:19 PM
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It’s starts with not caring what anyone thinks of you. Their opinions don’t matter. Second, most people don’t care what you’re doing or even notice you as much as you think they do. When I see someone doing something alone, I never think to myself “wow I feel bad for him. Look at him having fun all by himself. Poor guy..” If anything, you’ll get a look of surprise. Surprise that you’re confident and secure with yourself. You don’t need the comfort zone, support, or validation of others to enjoy …
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:29 PM
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This is terrible advice. That convo sounds boring af. If a girl asks me what I do for working I’m going to proudly tell her. I’ll even throw in some funny or interesting story. Any topic for that matter I’m going to add my own charisma and not limit myself to one or two short sentences.
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:49 AM
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You are wayyyy over thinking this. Please do not make a check list. You’re going to sound scripted and it will feel fake. You don’t need memorized lines and compliments. You need to be genuine. Talk about her and yourself. Connect like real people. If you like something about her then compliment her.
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:47 AM
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She changed her mind. Move on and don’t waste your time waiting around for her. If she’s interested in you then she’ll message you and make an effort to see you. It’s not complicated. Recently I was talking to this super attractive girl. We were vibing and I got her number. We were coordinating a date and she said things like “yessss id love to go there with you! I can’t wait to tell you about…” So the day of our date I gave her a time and place. She sent me a paragraph about how she doesn’t hav…
/r/seduction25/02/22 09:05 AM
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I’ve seen a few girls comment that they don’t date guys who have Snapchat, even though they themselves have it. I’ve even seen it as a girls prompt.. “let debate this topic… men should not have Snapchat” Personally I don’t use it and I see it as a waste of time. It’s more of a platform for girls and kids tbh but I’m not judging.
/r/seduction25/02/22 08:47 AM
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Do you have to get drunk to talk to your friends? To talk to your family? To talk to the stranger at the register scanning your food at the register? Probably not, right? So why would you need to get drunk to talk to a woman, who is just as much human as any other person in your life.
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:57 AM
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Bro I promise you after you make the first conversation with her it only gets easier. Then you’ll think back to this moment and be like wtf was I even worried about? She’s just another person like me.
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:17 AM
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It’s only frowned upon by the girls that don’t want you. Plenty of women want to be approached in the gym. I have friends (girls) who talk about how they wish their gym crush would finally talk to them and they go on and on about how they always stare at each other but he never makes a move. I have friends who are dating the person they met at the gym. I’ve got numerous numbers at the gym. You got this. Don’t let a few negative people decide you can’t approach in the gym.
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:13 AM
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The gym is pretty easy to spark a conversation. You can say things like: “Hey can I get that weight/machine after you?” She says “yes” “Btw my name is …. What’s yours?” She tells you her name Then you continue making small talk Or Say “hey are you a trainer here?” She laughs and says no You respond with something like “oh I was going to ask you for some advice… (talk about whatever exercise she’s doing and if she’s into you she’ll be open to talk) Or Say “hey can you get me on a spot” Exchanges …
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:10 AM
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lmao these guys don’t get laid OP. Nothing wrong with being direct and confident. When I’m at a bar/club I’ll walk passed a pretty girl, stop and take a step back, and say “wow you’re pretty, what’s your name?” This works often for me. I swear everyone on here gives opinions based off no real world experience. Just shitty PUA videos they watch. Girls like confidence and honesty. I’m not going to beat around the bush acting like I just want to be her friend if I think she’s hot. Good luck bro and…
/r/seduction24/02/22 06:32 PM
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Yeah I’m a construction superintendent. We build warehouses and offices. Each project has about 100 people laboring from electricians, framers, concrete workers, graders etc Each project is $10M+ and takes approximately 6-18 months. So after paying all the different subcontractors and each person on my team, I’m left with my pay. If the job goes well bonuses are given out as well. Construction is a great business tbh. I started out as a laborer making $15/hr. With enough determination anyone can…
/r/seduction23/02/22 12:59 AM
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Talk to girls in the gym like you should in any other situation. If she’s busy doing something leave her alone. If she’s chilling and looks like she has a moment to talk then say something. Don’t be creepy and don’t come at her being super flirty with the first comment. Here’s my latest example Last week I was walking to my next exercise and passed by the treadmills. I saw a pretty girl walking and we exchanged eye contact so i smiled and kept walking. Obviously I’m not going to go talk to her w…
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:08 PM
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You should get out and meet more people. For example, I work as a senior level position in construction. I make over $100k and would consider myself living a pretty good life being able to afford anything I want. Idk if that’s considered high class but it feels nice. Anyways I have hundreds of laborers work for me on my projects. One of them invited me to their wedding. At the wedding I saw a lot of the guys that work for me and I walked around talking to them and their families. To my surprise …
/r/seduction22/02/22 09:57 PM
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From my experience girls want genuine authenticity, honesty, and fun. I used to work as a construction laborer, making minimum wage and living in a dining room. I literally hung curtains from the ceiling so it looked kinda like a tiny room. My lack of status never stopped me. I had different girls in my make shift room every week. I actually took pride in showing them the room I made and they all were happy to be there. I think if you have to lie to women then it’s time to do some self reflectio…
/r/seduction22/02/22 08:05 PM
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Hinge is the best. Tinder and bumble take up so much time imo. Hinge is lit. A ton of beautiful women. You spend a few minutes swiping and sending genuine openers and by the end of the week you have multiple matches that lead to dates. Just make sure you have a good profile and you’re golden.
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:31 AM
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The gym is fine to talk to women. If they’re obviously busy then leave them alone. Here’s an example of how I introduced myself to a cute girl at my gym yesterday: I finished doing pull downs and headed over to the other side of the gym to hit dumbbells. I walked passed the treadmills and noticed a pretty girl. She looked at me and we exchanged eye contact so I smiled with like a “hey” nod and kept walking. I’m doing my exercises at the dumbbells and next thing I know she’s sitting down at the b…
/r/seduction18/02/22 06:41 AM
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Idk what you mean. You’re wasting time because you’re afraid you’ll miss out on a hot girl? There’s a million other hot girls out there. You can’t get every girl. Just move on to the next one.
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:31 PM
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No it’s for u/g35guy1994. He said he doesn’t approach women and say it’s catches them off guard. But if you look at his profile he made a post that said “women need to approach men” it’s ridiculous. Cold approaching isn’t weird. I’m sure it’s different in every country. But we are humans. We are social beings. We are meant to communicate. If you want to talk to a stranger then just do it.
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:29 PM
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You have to be clear with your intentions but not care what the outcome is. You don’t care if the girls wants you or not because you have an abundance mindset and you know you can get another girl anytime you want. When you truly believe that, your mindset will be reflected in your actions. Here’s an example: I went out with a girl on Saturday. We hung out a few times in the past but we haven’t talked in over a month. She came over to get a drink with me. I asked her what she’s looking for and s…
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:37 AM
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What is weird? You’re talking to a stranger.. have you ever made a friend before? They were a stranger and you talked to them. It’s not weird to talk to new people. Everyone does it every day. Networking, socializing, dating. It’s all the same. Addicted? How are you addicted to something you think is weird and a waste of your time??? If you get better game it’s not a waste of time. Better game = better results, and less time and effort you have to put in.
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:11 AM
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You never cold approach but you made a post titled “women need to approach men”…
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:07 AM
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No. I slept with a girl last night that’s 4’11 125 lbs. Your 3” taller than her and only 7 lbs heavier. Her body was poppin. Personally I hate fw skinny girls. Sex feels way better when you don’t have ass bones hitting your pelvis haha also I’m a big guy 6’2 195lbs. I need a girl I don’t feel like I’m gonna break. Something to hold onto ya know?
/r/seduction24/10/21 10:18 PM
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Bro you want it to be obvious. Stop being a pussy and go get you some head big dawg.
/r/seduction23/10/21 04:56 AM
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Women are everywhere. Just approach them. Don’t think of it as you’re bothering them but as if you’re going to brighten their day. Just be friendly. Don’t think if a goal like you have to get her number or anything. Approach her in a friendly way and feel the vibe. If she’s into you then escalate. 20 is a prime age to date. I wish I could go back to that time and try again. I had a gf at the time so I missed out on those years.
/r/seduction22/10/21 11:41 PM
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Do you approach women irl? Online is much harder for most people. Tbh I didn’t have success until last year. Before I would barely get any quality matches online.
/r/seduction22/10/21 10:19 PM
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Bro you’re actually a good looking guy. If you fixed your mindset you could get women too. Good luck
/r/seduction22/10/21 10:08 PM
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You’re wrong. It’s fine to approach women if you know how to do it. These girls didn’t approach me. They looked at me so I started conversation with them.
/r/seduction22/10/21 10:01 PM
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Wake the fuck up. Your life is for you to create. You can be anything you want.
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:11 PM
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Keep your head up! Positivity and confidence are key. Don’t exchange socials. Get her number. With socials she can share your pics with her friends and they can all judge you and tell her if she should talk to you or not. (Unless you have a great profile then share it) With her number you just hit her up and set a date. If she accepts, great. If not, move on. Keep taking action! You’ll improve.
/r/seduction22/10/21 02:59 PM
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This is a sub about attracting people and building relationships. Lame excuses and negative mindsets are not needed. I made a post about talking to women at the gym. A girl said she prefers to be complimented (option 3) over all the other approach styles that were listed. https://imgur.com/a/k6TJf09
/r/seduction22/10/21 02:55 PM
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This happened a few years ago. I was only 25 and she was 28. Basically I walked into the office and told her why I was there and that I was meeting her bosses. I sat down in one of the chairs in the lobby waiting for the office manager so it gave me extra time to talk to her. While I was sitting I made small talk with her (I make small talk with people everywhere) eventually I stood back up and leaned against her desk as we continued talking. We talked about our interests and I told her that I l…
/r/seduction22/10/21 01:37 PM
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Best advice I’ve read on this sub
/r/seduction22/10/21 08:58 AM
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This is a seduction sub. Wtf is this. Ignore your ex and move on.
/r/seduction22/10/21 08:55 AM
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Exactly! Good job bro! Keep crushing the game
/r/seduction22/10/21 08:07 AM
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Charisma and an outgoing personality are what I use to my advantage. I’m always smiling. So people are naturally drawn to me. Girls feel comfortable because they look at me in the gym and I’m just laid back and smiling. I’m not this intense angry guy swinging around weights and blasting my music. Sure being fit and attractive adds to it. But I’m pretty average. It’s mostly my confident demeanor, laid back attitude, and charismatic personality. I’m not swole. Just skinny fit. The positive mindset…
/r/seduction22/10/21 07:48 AM
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One of the women I’m dating right now is from the UK. She always tells me I’d do great if I dated in the UK. I tell her about the other women I meet and I told her this gym story and she didn’t seem to think it was weird. She works in the fitness industry too. Maybe you should just try to socialize. I go to big gyms like LA fitness or fitness 19 so there’s a lot of people to talk to. It’s actually a pretty social environment. I make friends with men and women at the gym.
/r/seduction22/10/21 06:53 AM
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I used to be like that too. Mainly because I would be influenced by social media. I would see these ripped dudes and think fuck I’m slacking I need to catch them. But for what?? I’m 28M, I don’t play professional sports, I’m not weightlifting in the olympics. I’m just in the gym to be healthy. I don’t need to impress anyone. So I dialed my training down. I look good and I feel healthy. Tbh I dropped from 205lbs to 195lbs and the girls I’m talking to right now tell me they can’t even tell the dif…
/r/seduction22/10/21 06:45 AM
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Fix your mindset. I know guys that are tall that can’t get laid and guys that are short that get girls. My best friend is 5’7 and his gf is hot. I got on the elevator at my apartment today with a couple and the girl was super fucking pretty and her man was the same height as her, like both 5’6. Your excuses and limiting beliefs only hold you back.
/r/seduction22/10/21 05:57 AM
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On to the next one
/r/seduction22/10/21 05:08 AM
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You should share your irl dating format for these guys. Most of them have no luck with OLD so giving them a formula for what to say doesn’t matter because they can’t even get a match.
/r/seduction22/10/21 04:54 AM
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There’s a million ways to talk to people at the gym. You can ask them to give you a spot, record your set, ask them about the exercise they’re doing, or just go straight up to her and say she’s pretty.
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:54 AM
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Yeah it’s wack. The gym is just like being out anywhere else. It’s the same as talking to a girl at the mall, grocery store, coffee shop, etc. Of course women go to the gym to workout but it doesn’t mean you can’t socialize. Just like women go to the store to shop, it doesn’t mean you can’t talk to them.
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:53 AM
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The people who say these things are most likely men who have no confidence with women and make up excuses to not approach them. Acting like a nice guy who’s so caring that he wouldn’t dare interrupt a woman hard at work. Or women that probably don’t get approached by men all that much anyways and they’re bitter so they complain about men who do approach women at work.
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:52 AM
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If this sounds like a dream to you, you need to get out and live life. This is easily attainable for anyone. I haven’t even slept with this girl yet.
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:50 AM
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Talking to women at their jobs works just fine for me. Here’s a fun example: A few years ago I was managing the renovation of an office (i work in the construction industy) The first day I walk into the office the front desk secretary greeted me. She was pretty so I stayed and chatted with her awhile. We exchanged information and she invited me to go to San Diego with her and her friends that weekend. (We’re in LA) of course I said yes and I had a crazy weekend partying with people that we’re al…
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:49 AM
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Read my field report today. You just talk to her and ask for her number. Stop making it difficult.
/r/seduction22/10/21 01:34 AM
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Delete these and go to the wiki for this sub
/r/seduction22/10/21 01:24 AM
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Just talk to her. I make random small talk with all the girls that show me a sign of interest. A wrote a field report today on a girl at the gym who’s number I got. It’s pretty simple man. If she shows interest then approach her. If she’s not receptive then go back to your workout. If she’s into the convo then talk to her and get her number or make a plan to hangout right after the gym together.
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:32 PM
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That’s on you to decide. If you have a ton of options then you can be as picky as you want. If you are struggling to get women then I’d suggest dial down your pickiness and be happy with what you can get as you improve your game. I’m somewhat picky. I have a type I’m attracted to and I don’t stray too far from what I like. You’ll never see me with a girl that’s not at least a 7+. I have a small rotation of two girls right now. One is out of this world beautiful, I’d say she’s a 10 for me. And th…
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:49 PM
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Of course you want to understand the needs of women. That’s basic. You want to understand the needs of any human to properly communicate with them and build a relationship, platonic or romantic. You’re totally wrong about women holding out though. I sleep with women that want relationships and I sleep with women that want to hook up. Every girl I sleep with happens within the first two weeks of meeting. Every single time. No one holds out just because they want a relationship. Of course you’ll s…
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:39 PM
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Don’t overcomplicate it man. You simply take action. When you meet a stranger you talk to them. Men and women, you just talk to them. There is no secret ‘how’. The more you socialize, the better your communication skills become.
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:31 PM
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You know what to do. You take action. It’s as simple as that man. You talked to a girl in the pouring rain and she reacted positively to you. There’s absolutely no reason you can’t talk to people in normal situations.
/r/seduction21/10/21 07:56 PM
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Change your mindset. Be confident in yourself. Think of it as in you are sparking up a conversation with someone you’d like to know. Don’t think about the outcome or goal of getting laid or whatever you want. Just talk to them. Feel the vibe and escalate with flirting if it feels right.
/r/seduction21/10/21 07:13 PM
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Don’t over think. She showed up before you and found a random seat. You already have plans to meet up. Do you have her number? Hit her up the day of the meet up.
/r/seduction21/10/21 07:06 PM
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Start conversations with strangers. Be enthusiastic about the other person. Listen to them and act genuinely interested in what they have to say. Try to find similar interests between you two. Once you talk for a few minutes you can ask to exchange Instagram or whatever you use. Tell them they’re cool and you two should chill sometime.
/r/seduction21/10/21 06:32 PM
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It’s because you care too much about the outcome. You care what this specific girl thinks about you. You need to take action and talk to her like all the other girls. Good luck.
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:54 AM
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True. These are the basic building blocks for anyone trying to be successful in dating/seduction. Unfortunately most people will ignore these, fail to take action, and continue to bombard dating subs with their misery and complaints.
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:53 AM
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6 is not small. I saw a stat online that only 10% of men are 6.3+. Idk how they know but fact check it if you want lol Anyways most girls I sleep with don’t even like deep penetration. They often say not too deep and have me pull out a bit. Tbh I bet guys that are 5” can easily please a woman. Also remember penetration is a small part of sex. There’s so much more than you should experience, especially if your goal is to please the woman you’re with.
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:48 AM
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Who hurt you?
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:35 AM
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If you’re seeing other people then it doesn’t matter so much. They see people, you see people, and if you vibe after awhile then you can go exclusive.
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:02 AM
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Nice guy vibes. You should have responded by telling her if she proves her self then maybe you’ll spoil her. Something like that would have worked better. Make her qualify herself.
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:51 PM
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Good looks
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:16 AM
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I feel you. My in person game is wayyyyy better than anything I say on text. In text I try to be direct and make sure the woman knows I’m trying to date her, not be her buddy. You don’t have to be overly sexual. Just make sure your intentions are clear.
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:14 AM
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Ok then ask a better question. “Was that your dream as a kid” is boring and not building tension. You want her to be attracted to you. Not thinking about how she used to feel as a little kid. Your first messages should be building tension and making her interested in you. You want her to be looking forward to the date. I usually use the first few messages to talk about a shared interest or a date idea. I transition this into a date invite by message 6 or so. Then I don’t really small talk until …
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:00 AM
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I escalate and set up dates within 5-6 messages always. I save all the connecting and getting to know them for the date. When your small talk texting goes dry, come back to this post and lmk how you should have set up a date sooner.
/r/seduction20/10/21 07:46 AM
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Ask her out on a date
/r/seduction20/10/21 07:12 AM
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I’m definitely guilty of over training lol I put my body through hell in the gym and running/hiking.
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:15 AM
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Yeah I never knew it was that complex. I always felt like T stays up when getting a good sleep, eating a balanced diet, reducing stress (meditation), working out. How do you target your organ system specifically? Diet?
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:08 AM
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Interesting. Stress and anxiety definitely take a toll on hormones but i would have never thought about the affects from the organ system. Other than how you look now, do you feel healthier?
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:02 AM
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So your didn’t even do anything? You just grew up and your T increased lol I think it’s all in your head. You aged.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:56 AM
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How did you “naturally” quadruple your T? How long have you been at this elevated level? Maybe these situations are not because your T but just because of how you’re acting now that you feel like you look better. Maybe you’re coming off too arrogant.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:52 AM
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Bro you fucking solved the game… Let me take some notes: pretend to have a wife, be funny, and be confident. BOOM! This sub has been saved!
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:29 AM
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Interesting strategy. But definitely possible. Talk to her like a friend. Invite her and her friends to hang out with you and your friends. Pick something fun. Throw a party. Or find a similar interest and maybe she will invite you to an event. I stay friends with a lot of women I’ve dated even after I don’t see any future with them. I think it’s great to keep my social circle active and growing.
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:17 AM
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Agreed. Never use the when can I see ya line.. ever. The second line is equally as bad.. The man takes lead and makes plans.
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:13 AM
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Of course you wanted to talk to her. That point was made when you invited her to play with you. Saying “Good game” isn’t building tension. Teasing her for distracting you when you miss a shot is building tension. Engaging her and asking her to blow on the pong balls for good luck then make a joke about it is building tension. Make a ball with your left fist and ask her to hold this (she thinks it’s the pong ball but your hand is empty because the ball is in your right hand) then she opens her ha…
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:51 PM
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Keep getting out and working on your conversation skills and this won’t happen as often. She probably has some initial interest if she was down to play pong with a stranger and step away from her friends. Maybe you aren’t flirting enough or building tension. Either way it doesn’t matter because you took action and you’re improving. Most guys on here are stuck on the approaching part. You’ve got that down so now you just grow from there.
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:18 PM
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At least you took action. Keep it up. I think the first set you could have talked to more if you made a comment about her pushing you and you were more playful then just saying “oh wow” Obviously the second girl you could have done better with if you work on your conversation skills. Try not to get so wrapped up in the pong game. Pong isn’t going to sleep with you at the end of the night. I know it’s fun to be competitive but in that situation I’ll occasionally lose on purpose so I can pull the …
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:05 PM
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Do what you want. Just be okay with the fact that women have desires as well. While you’re courting girls they’re most likely dating or being approached by other men. If these women want sex but you want to wait for a relationship first, it’s entirely possible they abandon you for a man that can fulfill their needs. You’ll eventually find what you want but it may take awhile.
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:00 PM
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This. The more experienced women I sleep with always squat rather than kneel. They have way more control of the motions. But it does usually get them tired fast so I can understand why they prefer to kneel lol
/r/seduction19/10/21 06:44 PM
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Yeah don’t ever say “when Am I going to see you again” that’s weak and passive. If you want to see her then you need to be clear with your intentions and tell her to come over. You’re clearly fwb. Who cares if you’re both fucking other people. The people who are easily bothered by this don’t get laid. There’s no emotions in fwb. You can reply with something like: “Really the same line? Damn those guys are lazy. I thought they would have tried harder for you than that” A lot is going on here. She…
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:23 PM
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Yeah tbh it’s not too hard picking up girls when you’re a good looking dude 6’+. I’m in the same boat. I have girls approach me too. But we can’t rely on women only approaching us. The future is very bright for you man. Make approaches next time and post your field reports.
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:55 AM
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Proud of you bro! Now you know you have what it takes to be successful so keep building on that.
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:49 AM
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Looking for excuses to not approach women is only going to hurt your game. Good luck though..
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:38 AM
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You just send it. You’re going to make mistakes but if you keep practicing you’ll get better. Learn how to be social and make friends. Talk to men and women. Don’t focus too much on scripted lines and questions. Let it be natural. It will all come together as you progress. Just make sure you keep taking action. That’s the only way to improve. Even if you get rejected a few times don’t ever give up.
/r/seduction19/10/21 01:05 AM
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Maybe he was too nervous to make eye contact with you or maybe he noticed you had a piece of toilet paper stuck to the bottom of your boot.
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:27 AM
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Tbh not really man. I’m not a dating coach. I just try to share the basics that work for me. I think my personality is what helps me with my game. Charismatic, outgoing, fun, good sense of humor, genuine, confident. I’m usually the leader in most situations and tend to be dominant in nature. I’m also incredibly social and make friends everywhere I go. Talking to strangers is one of my greatest strengths. Just get out there and keep practicing. Practice confident body language, maintaining eye co…
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:26 AM
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Every scenario is different. If the women are receptive to talking then I think you should focus on the conversation. If they seem like they want to dance then talk to them and lead them to the dance floor.
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:06 AM
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Talk to as many people as possible. Men and women. No one is going to develop feelings for you over a short encounter like that. It takes time to really get a woman to develop strong feelings for you. Anyways good job. Get back out there and try again tomorrow.
/r/seduction18/10/21 09:50 PM
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You meet a girl at the bar. You escalate by flirting, physical interactions, building attraction. You build her interest in you. You get her to leave the bar and sleep with you. If you can’t get her to leave then you get her number and move on to the next girl. This is very basic but every scenario is different. Look at the field reports on here if you want to read more on game. u/5_7pickup post pretty detailed reports and his game strategy.
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:54 PM
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I think other men just have higher sex drives than you. There’s nothing wrong with that. Everyones different.
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:13 PM
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In my experience this isn’t true. When I’m out I’ll tell women about one of the mountains I’ve climbed or skydiving or a boat trip or an event I went to or a PR in the gym, and then use my Instagram to show them what I’m talking about. They usually get pretty into it and compliment my profile. I guess I could see how women might be turned off by men who have a nice looking profile but it’s nothing but selfies. I think if you have an interesting life then it’s actually a turn on for women to see …
/r/seduction18/10/21 05:43 PM
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As others have said this is a weak move. Never do it. I only buy drinks for women I’m seeing consistently and they buy my drinks as well. Also some girls will test you and ask you to buy them drinks. Again don’t do it. You can say things like: “better yet, you see that guy over there? (point at random dude across the bar) I saw him checking you out. I bet you can’t get him to buy you a drink” (This is cool because you can both share the drink from the random dude and this game raises the emotion…
/r/seduction18/10/21 05:11 PM
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Maybe I’m being modest or maybe I’m just a rookie haha On average I pull 2-4 girls per month. I think what keeps my number lower is that occasionally when I really vibe with a girl, I’ll keep hooking up with her rather than find new girls. Recently I met a girl visiting the US from another country. The sex is awesome so I’ve been seeing her consistently before she leaves.
/r/seduction18/10/21 04:49 PM
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Why are people questioning the morality and fulfillment of sleeping with women on a seduction sub? lol There’s a few good answers on here. It all comes down to your game and generating leads. You have to take consistent action. Always be socializing and talking to women when you’re out. You need to understand the basics of confident body language and how to escalate your conversations so you close more. You want to shoot your shot any chance you get and overcome approach anxiety if that’s an iss…
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:57 PM
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I’m going to assume your goal of picking up girls in the club is to get laid. So you don’t need to dance with them. You need proper game. The moment you meet an attractive girl at the club you should have confident body language, strong eye contact, and smooth conversation. You want to escalate to get her out of the club and into your bed. Dancing isn’t necessary but if it happens then so be it. Never just walk up to women and start grinding on them. Introduce yourself. Spark up a conversation a…
/r/seduction17/10/21 06:56 PM
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There’s always a next time man. Maybe not with this girl but there’s millions of other women out there. Every mistake, every experience, every time you shoot your shot - you improve. Keep taking action and you will succeed.
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:18 AM
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I date new women weekly and I always kiss when the moment feels right. I don’t make up rules or create self limiting beliefs which only hold you back. Your goal should be sex on the first date and if you know what you’re doing it is more than possible. I understand where you’re coming from because I used to think like you. Honestly I did. I made up silly rules like I have to wait until the end of a date to kiss her or I have to wait until the third date to sleep with her. I made up these rules b…
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:09 AM
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What are the top 10 most important factors in getting women?
/r/seduction14/10/21 09:40 PM
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You know you’re making excuses so just stop making them… pretty simple. If you want women then go talk to them. One of the girls I’m sleeping with right now is from the UK. I approached her while I was out and she constantly compliments my confidence. So I don’t think all women from the UK are as bad as you make the “culture” sounds like it is. You’ll never improve if you don’t put in the work. It’s not easy at first but over time you will get better.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:52 AM
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Continue to seduce? It doesn’t sound like you’ve even began seducing her. Honestly it sounds like you’re making excuses because you lack the game to close. If you actually wanted to sleep with her, why are you taking her on dates? The first date went good and you didn’t take her home. (At 28, ending a first date with a kiss is no accomplishment. Don’t get me wrong you’re doing well but no mans goal should be to wait till the end of the first date to get a kiss. That’s teenager mentality. You esc…
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:34 AM
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Life is yours to create. Either YOU choose to be alone and unloved your entire life or YOU choose to take action and find what you desire. With the proper mindset plus the ability to take complete ownership of one’s life - anything is possible. Best of luck to you!
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:39 PM
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I think starting off apologizing is weak and hurts your first impression. Your mindset should be that by you engaging in the conversation you will make their day better, not bother them.
/r/seduction03/10/21 07:21 PM
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Yeah I generally agree with most things this guy says but I’m also no PUA. I’m successful pulling girls at bars/clubs and I usually dance with them and make out a lot more than I should. I still get laid more often than not. I’ve also hopped around different venues with a girl. I think for me I get caught up enjoying the night rather than rushing home to fuck haha Also once I get a girl in the bar/club setting I feel like they get hooked and I know it. I’m so sure of myself that I don’t even thi…
/r/seduction02/10/21 02:33 AM
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You can and should improve every aspect of your life. If you’re not taking action to meet women then you’ll never get good at it. Do both.
/r/seduction02/10/21 02:04 AM
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Bro appreciate you sharing these! We need more content like this. Helpful for the whole sub
/r/seduction02/10/21 01:14 AM
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Everyday brotha!
/r/seduction02/10/21 01:05 AM
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Fucking great man! I do the same technique to break up the conversation and interrupt with something random/interesting to spike emotion. Meditation before going out is a good point. Definitely got to give that a try to focus my energy and clear my mind.
/r/seduction02/10/21 01:05 AM
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This man really does give out gold. Not a lot of users I pay attention to on here. But u/thesunshineman is sharing valuable knowledge most comments I see
/r/seduction02/10/21 12:45 AM
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Stop caring about the outcome of the situation when you talk to them and be present in the moment. You’re comfortable talking to what you may call a 5 because you don’t care what she thinks about. You’re uncomfortable talking to what you may call a 10 because you care too much what she thinks about you.
/r/seduction01/10/21 04:51 PM
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What’s that ?
/r/seduction30/09/21 11:34 PM
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Ok first of all that is the worst note I’ve ever seen.. Creepy af and doesn’t even tell her anything about who you are. Second don’t write a note Lastly just talk to her. Fuck what anyone says about not approaching in the gym. It works for me all the time. Don’t make excuses and stop trying to look for the easy way out by leaving a note. Go talk to her before another guy who’s more confident does first.
/r/seduction30/09/21 08:50 PM
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Bro don’t over think it. Your chances of this working are already pretty slim. This is just a final shot before you move on. Send her a text tomorrow for a fun date invite on Saturday then leave it alone. I’d suggest using the template like “haha I was positive that place was your vibe. I’ll try one more time.. I’m going to (cool bar) tomorrow around 7. I hear they have the best tequila mixes and even better views/food. Lmk if you’re down to join me” Then leave it alone and move on.
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:51 PM
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No. It sounds like you don’t have confidence in her to say yes. Never say “if not it’s cool.” It’s just a weak statement. And what’s the random “haha” for? That only fits if you have something to laugh about. Like “haha I thought you would have loved that” or “haha I thought that was your vibe” you’re laughing that you misread her not you’re laughing just to be randomly laughing to make the message seem funny.
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:36 PM
1

Don’t double text her just to small talk. Send another text when you’re available.
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:31 PM
1

Don’t double text right now, move on to other women. Who knows what went wrong here. Maybe she didn’t enjoy the convo as much you think she did. Or maybe you invited her out to do something she doesn’t care for. But I have been successful in similar situations. Here’s how I pulled them off: I sent text inviting her on a date. Girl ignores message. I try again 3-5 days later. I send a text saying “haha I for sure thought that (date place) was your vibe. Let me try again.. (insert new idea)” OR If…
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:20 PM
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I’ll post more tomorrow as well.
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:53 AM
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There’s no script. You talk to them like you’d talk to anyone you want to build rapport with. You just add in flirting to build tension and escalate.
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:00 AM
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lmao you’re welcome. You don’t need them. As for the pong girl, like I said you need to escalate and build tension. It’s fine to ask questions about her but did that make her want to stay and talk to you more? No. You need to excite her. Talking about school isn’t exciting. You need to transition into better topics and make her want to keep hanging out with you. If you lost pong together you should have left the table and said “fuck we lost hahah. What shot are we going to take?” You’ll get bett…
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:49 AM
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How to build tension? Talk to her more than focusing on playing pong. Pong isn’t going to sleep with you at the end of the night. Push/pull. You sounded like you were flirting with her so build on that. Make her qualify herself. You were on the right path. Before she left to dance with her friends and I’m assuming you lost the game you could have asked her to go grab a drink with you and continued the conversation elsewhere. If you’re at a party then I would be going for getting laid not her num…
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:33 AM
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Build more tension so she doesn’t want to leave without even telling you goodbye. You obviously know what you did wrong so now you improve and grow. Good job!
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:19 AM
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I can’t believe I never thought of this.. you’re a life saver
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:42 PM
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I’m sure you’re unworldly talented at socializing and getting dates. Good for you !
/r/seduction29/09/21 07:07 PM
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Let’s think about this for a second. How many men make less than $300k? A lot right? Ok now ask yourself how do all those guys get women if they aren’t making $300k? Genuine women do not care how much money you’re making. They want you for you. They want a real connection with a real man. I used to be broke, sleeping on a mattress in a dining room for almost two years when I was 24/25. It never stopped me from getting girls.
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:43 AM
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“what’s the best way of going about this without getting kicked out of class for sexual harassment?” I told OP in a different comment how to go about it. My comment to u/thesunshineman was simply stating my opinion on the post and the apparent difference on this sub between men who get women and those who don’t. If you relate to the men struggling to get women then I can understand why you may be offended by my comment - just know I didn’t direct anything at you. You said yourself you dated a fa…
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:06 AM
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No and I hope you don’t either. It would be ridiculous to even attempt to rank someone’s intelligence level and even more ridiculous to change how you communicate because you THINK you are smarter than them.
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:07 AM
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Ask her friends for a class/building you’re looking for. Then start making conversation. Comment on something they’re wearing/holding. Comment on something going on at that moment. If you see her all the time what you can also do is walk by and say a simple hello and smile. Now she notices you. Next time you can say a simple compliment and smile at her. Don’t be creepy though. Keep it casual and friendly. Then when you see her again approach her and say hey you look cute, I wanted to come over a…
/r/seduction29/09/21 07:43 AM
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Ok do you have a class with her?
/r/seduction29/09/21 07:30 AM
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Stop thinking about the outcome. You don’t walk up to women thinking I’m going to get that one girls number. You walk up and socialize. Start a convo and see who you vibe with. If you’re vibin’ you can ask them to join you for whatever you’re up to. If they’re busy you can easily say “you’re really cool but I got to go, let me get your number and we can grab a drink later”
/r/seduction29/09/21 07:08 AM
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I’m 28M and get more girls now than ever before. Always strive to improve and you’ll never reach a peak baby boy!
/r/seduction29/09/21 05:29 AM
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Here’s what you do: Do well in her class. Go to her office hours. Build your rapport with her. Don’t sexualize her. Pass her class. After you’re out of her class then shoot for it. I’ve got drinks with my old professors before. It’s risky for her to sleep with a student, plus she probably won’t want to see you in class after you hook up. It will be unnecessary tension and possibly awkward for her. Once you’re out of her class it will be easier. Good luck!
/r/seduction29/09/21 05:27 AM
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It’s honestly hilarious how easily you can tell the difference on this sub between the men who get women and the men who offer advice based on what they “think/feel” works and have no experience to back up their statements. These dudes insecurities and lack of confidence will always keep them trapped in the mindset that prevents them from getting women. YES you can fuck your professors. It happened all the time in my college. Men and women professors. Just because one of you can’t do it, doesn’t…
/r/seduction29/09/21 05:21 AM
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I’m dying after reading bar 1 💀 But I’m proud of you bro!! Keep getting out there. It gets easier I promise.
/r/seduction25/09/21 06:18 AM
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Something I like to do is when moving from one place to another I’ll grab their hand and say “check this out over here” or “look at that!” then you walk them over to whatever you want to show them.
/r/seduction23/09/21 06:46 PM
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You could have potentially tried again after she flaked the first time but this one is now wayyyy too long gone. You ghost and move on. Know your worth and value your time.
/r/seduction23/09/21 05:40 AM
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You’re only nervous with the girls you perceive as 10’s because you care what they think. You care what will happen if you talk to them and you fuck up. You don’t care what the so called “6’s” think because their opinion of you doesn’t matter to you. Realistically you shouldn’t care what anyone’s opinion is of you and you shouldn’t be outcome dependent, like others have said. Strengthen your mindset and don’t let anyone determine your value. You got this bro!
/r/seduction23/09/21 05:33 AM
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Be confident in who you are bro! Also get good at telling your stories with pride. Don’t just say yeah I workout. Say it with enthusiasm. Tell her a funny story about the time you got stuck under the bar on the bench because it was too heavy. Talk to her about the things you do in life with passion. You don’t have to impress her (common mistake guys make) you just have to make her smile and laugh. If she’s having fun with you, it doesn’t matter what your hobbies are, she will be into you. If you…
/r/seduction22/09/21 05:11 PM
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Just made a bumble last night and used your line. It was funny because she opened with hey 😊 and i replied with the vibe line. Then she questioned how I knew her vibe from a simple hey haha anyways a few messages later and I got a date set for this weekend. I got lazy and used the line a few more times with other girls but no replies yet
/r/seduction22/09/21 04:29 AM
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I can agree with this. On Sunday I went to a music event. Not too big just a couple hundred people. I went with my friends and we spent the day dancing to whatever dj was playing. When I noticed a hot girl and we made eye contact I would keep eye contact, smile, and wave at them. They would smile back and I knew they were interested. I would see other guys go up and talk to them and I just kept doing my thing. Then whenever I needed a drink or to use the bathroom I would walk through the crowd. …
/r/seduction21/09/21 09:26 PM
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Yeah that was a boring question. In the conversation you take lead. You make it fun, interesting, or you initiate setting up plans to meet up DM if you need help again
/r/seduction21/09/21 06:17 AM
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Reply with something interesting. Usually relate it to their profile. Did they open the conversation or did you open and they reply hey?
/r/seduction21/09/21 06:02 AM
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Bro listen to yourself. She wants nothing but friendship. You want more. You are blatantly ignoring her. This is disrespectful to her and your own self worth. Acknowledge that she only wants to be your friend and move on.
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:55 PM
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I partake in neither but I support you and your habits!
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:51 PM
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You’re right, I apologize. I assumed you were past the age of trolling. I thought that was something teenagers do, so that was my misunderstanding! Thanks for the recognition though bro!
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:46 PM
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She’s on a dating site to meet people... If you ask a question, ask about something that relates to their profile. She has a million other dudes asking her average “hey how are you” “what brings you here” questions.
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:42 PM
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Thank god my favorite player is back to answer this one.. sometimes I just can’t with these 😂
/r/seduction18/09/21 07:46 PM
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Just go for it. I fucked girls in the back of a tintless Saturn suv in the middle of a neighbor during the day. At night or in a parking garage is even easier
/r/seduction18/09/21 07:12 PM
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I mean you know what you have to do.. just do it lol Tbh I kiss every girl on the first date, if she is hot. Here’s a few first date experiences of mine recently: Scenario 1: First date at a rooftop bar. About an hour in I walk my date to see the views. She stops and says she loves how the city lights look. I hold her from behind as we both look outside. When she turns around I lift her chin up (I’m also 6’2 btw) and kiss her once. She’s glowing and we keep walking Boom easy! Scenario 2: I’m at …
/r/seduction18/09/21 07:10 PM
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They both sound fine. Don’t trip. Keep it casual. She likes you so far. Roll with it and don’t press her too hard. You got this bro
/r/seduction18/09/21 06:34 PM
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That mindset is garbage. Throw it away. You say whatever you want on the phone. Be your unapologetic self. If she loses interest then so be it. You move on to someone that likes you, not the careful lines you rehearsed before she calls you. Take this lesson you learned and stop giving people your time that they haven’t earned. Maybe she got bored with you because you were always there for her neediness. She saw you more as a friend she could call about her problems, not a man that’s busy with hi…
/r/seduction18/09/21 05:43 PM
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Maybe you lost her. If she doesn’t respond it doesn’t matter just let it go. No reason to every get angry about a girl. You’re a grown ass man who chose to give away your time to a stranger. Take ownership and stop blaming others. Yeah you fucked up. Never choose a girl you barely know over your priorities. She could probably sense your neediness. It’s not a good look for men or women to constantly be available. I also think you played it wrong. You over pursued her and didn’t keep the tension. …
/r/seduction18/09/21 05:29 PM
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Bro she’s a hoe. She’s cheating on this guy with you and if you date her she will cheat on you too. Why would you love some one like her who has no morals? You fuck her and move on to someone else
/r/seduction18/09/21 05:20 PM
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What benefits do you get if it’s not physical ?
/r/seduction18/09/21 05:06 PM
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A man with goals 💀
/r/seduction18/09/21 04:56 PM
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Y’all funny af on this sub I swear. Acting like women are solvable puzzles. They’re human just like you. People get busy, people aren’t always interested, doesn’t really matter their reasoning. If she says I’ll let you know then you don’t pursue and wait. As for your specific situation why go for the 6? You absolutely need to get laid? Maybe a 6 is fine for you but if not then don’t settle just to get some. If the 7 doesn’t want you then fuck it go for the 6. Get them both at the same time. The …
/r/seduction18/09/21 04:55 PM
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All these guys say this because they lack basic social skills. People go to the gym, grocery store, chik fil a, it doesn’t fucking matter where, obviously for a reason other than getting hit on. But that doesn’t mean you can’t socialize at those places. These dudes don’t know the difference between creeping on a girl and talking to her. But hey let em stay scared making lame ass excuses not to take action, and I’ll keep talking to all the girls they wish they could
/r/seduction18/09/21 04:40 PM
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You see that negative mindset you got there? That’s why only one person knew it was your birthday. You create your world. Take ownership for it. Stop complaining, and definitely stop making assumptions about people before you know them. Here’s some motivation for you: I go to a gym and I see this cute girl. We smile I say hi when I walk by and that’s it. I see her again on a different day and and she’s doing RDLs. I tell her she’s doing great and her form is solid. She thanks me and I walk away.…
/r/seduction18/09/21 04:28 PM
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This is an awesome goal and mindset you want to build! I have to admit I even fall into this negative mindset. There was a girl recently that I was seeing and I was thrown off by how little interest she showed me outside of our meetups. I’m used to girls blowing me and this girl made absolutely 0 effort haha but I realize it’s all in my head and we still hangout and have a good time. Anyways you’re right the self improvement part is really important but you have to be doing things with your life…
/r/seduction18/09/21 02:38 PM
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I’m busy and I always do a week in advance. I usually have a date planned for the upcoming weekend so any new girls I’m talking to I tell them I’m busy but I have next weekend open. How do you keep her from flaking? Do something more fun than coffee lol or give her a reason to want to meet up. What sets you apart from the other 50 dudes asking her for a coffee date? Don’t mean to be harsh, I’m just not a fan of boring dates but I’m here to support you! let’s work with what you got going. First o…
/r/seduction18/09/21 09:19 AM
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Exactly… Bro I would be bummed if I went to EDC and spent the whole night getting numbers I’d go to rave with my friends and pick up girls if the opportunity presents itself. It’s a fucking rave with half naked chicks so the opportunity always presents itself haha but still go have fun. Why spend all that money just to get girls 😂
/r/seduction18/09/21 08:58 AM
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What’s your goal for texting? You’re looking for a pen pal? You’re bored and just want someone to talk to to pass the time? Texting game is not necessary for escalation. Seriously keep texting to a minimum. There is no secret pick up line in a magical book out there. You meet a girl in person or online. You get her number. You text a simple greeting. Keep small talk to a minimum. And get a date as quickly as possible. Connect with her in person. Don’t waste your time trying to get to know someon…
/r/seduction18/09/21 08:53 AM
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Exactly this! I’ve been in relationships with girls that wanted to wait for sex before we established something exclusive. Every girl is different. Some of these guys have a cookie cutter mindset as if every woman is the same. Not the case at all. Everyone is different and every situation should be observed objectively to know what the right move is. Good luck to these guys though!
/r/seduction18/09/21 08:42 AM
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I’m more of a brat but you make a good point, I have been getting a lot of buns
/r/seduction18/09/21 02:46 AM
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So many lessons learned You don’t have to be the rich guy with bottle service to get a girl You have the confidence to walk up in a club and talk to girls Stop sending cringy you’re hot messages to girls Never ask to kiss. It ruins the mood. Either go for it when the vibe is there or don’t do it. Nothing but a win tonight from my point of view Keep your head up Edit: add rule 4
/r/seduction18/09/21 02:09 AM
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Good save the fiddling for me. I’m getting pretty good at it
/r/seduction18/09/21 12:55 AM
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So let’s say when a girl walks up and says I look good or when a girl comes over to ask me for advice on her exercise, I should tell them nooo go away this is cringe 😂 I couldn’t imagine living in a world where socializing in a gym wasn’t allowed. I have so many friends men and women from the gym. Where do you meet people?
/r/seduction18/09/21 12:45 AM
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Just wanted to hear what your idea of neutral is. I made this post to discuss different approaches than what I go with but it’s turned into a judgement on the morality of approaching the gym. Anyways thanks for your input buddy
/r/seduction17/09/21 11:10 PM
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You sure I shouldn’t say I saw you floating over here in your heavenly aura of radiance and couldn’t help but to muster up enough courage to say hi m’lady? jk Glowing is great adjective to open with. Not to much not too little
/r/seduction17/09/21 11:03 PM
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Solid advice 😂 It’s definitely a risk reward system when i shoot my shot. I travel a lot for work so luckily I don’t workout at the same gyms too often just in case I lose my place of peace
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:56 PM
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Girls go to target to shop and I get their numbers there too. I should be arrested for all these crimes…
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:43 PM
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Love hearing this! Thanks for sharing your thoughts. The whole cap on/ear buds is definitely true. If a woman doesn’t look like she wants to be approached, don’t do it lol
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:38 PM
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Awesome! I love hearing others perspectives. It makes me think outside of my typical dating patterns and definitely helps me improve my own game
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:35 PM
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Can you give an example?
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:33 PM
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Just don’t be a creep. Treat them like any other friend in the gym. When gym bros and girls ask me for advice or a spot I don’t say “omg what a creep” I’m just friendly back and say of course! I think there’s a different vibe between me and the guys who don’t talk and just stare at girls from the distance. I talk to everyone
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:32 PM
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Exactly! I’ll even have girls find me on IG after they see me in the gym and I’m like damn why didn’t I just go up to her when she was looking at me lol I think a lot of people feel insecure when they’re at the gym so they feel uncomfortable. I have a little body dysmorphia so it happens to me too But I’m a super social person and I like to make friends everywhere I go. I use 1 & 2 with both guys and girls just to make new friends in the gym. 3 is my favorite too ngl
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:30 PM
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Here’s what works for me: I get their number ASAP on the app I’ll hit them up the next day or the 2nd day with a simple message that usually refers to something we talked about on the app Personally I hate texting and I prefer to keep it to a minimum. And what’s the point of getting to know a girl that I may never want to see again after our date? If we didn’t already talk about a date on the app, I’ll propose something fun for us to do on the weekend If her schedules busy then I’ll say no worri…
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:19 PM
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I didn’t know how to post screenshots on this sub
/r/seduction17/09/21 09:48 PM
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You’re awesome! I typed out my messages on an earlier post and was like fuck I’m never doing this tedious typing again haha
/r/seduction17/09/21 09:46 PM
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I’m asking because I’m new to Reddit and people like u/amplesling tell me what I need to know
/r/seduction17/09/21 09:45 PM
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Noted. Thanks for sharing your perspective! You know what I used to think the same thing. I would get nervous and think damn this girl doesn’t want me to bother her in the gym… but it was all made up in my head and by the opinions of others. Now I make a ton of friends in the gym girls and guys. If I can tell the girl is interested when I spark up a conversation then I’ll get her number or we grab a bite to eat right after the gym. Here’s one more example why I don’t listen to this advice.. I wa…
/r/seduction17/09/21 09:43 PM
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How much did you text her before the date? Maybe she got a neediness vibe from you and cancelled.
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:25 PM
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Spoken like a true king! Much respect man. Looking forward to seeing more advice you post in the sub
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:36 PM
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Lovin the stats man! You really know your numbers. To be fair I’m no PUA. I don’t watch their videos or read about their stats so I couldn’t even tell you about any of that. Sometimes I even have to google definitions you guys post on here haha My games natural and getting better with time. I’ve always got girls and I’ll always get girls. I simply like to share my success/advice with the guys on here who seem to be struggling with the basics. Also props to you bro on your crazy success rate! I d…
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:10 PM
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It’s all good man hahah personally I like to mix it up. It keeps my mind on point and when their profile makes it easy to think of something clever I always run with it But you’ve convinced me. Next time I run into a profile I can’t think of something, I’ll use this line and report back my results. Thanks for your advice!
/r/seduction17/09/21 03:06 PM
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Yeah try posting on here. When you click the photo icon it says this sub doesn’t allow photos and it suggests other subs to post in. My messages are pretty quick to getting numbers. I’ll post more detail when I have time. I’m here to help! Tbh the only reason I made this account was to share my advice/experience in the world of dating. I’m no Casanova. Just an average guy getting successful results. I see a ton of men struggling with the basics. It reminds me of the days I dealt with inexperienc…
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:56 PM
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Well your the Canadian seductioner! Of course the same messages works everytime for you lol but some of us need to mix it up. You’re killing it though so props to you bro!
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:51 PM
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What do you mean by examples? r/seduction doesn’t allow photos to be posted so all I can really do is type out my experiences. Are you suggesting I write my messages from open to close to give an example how I get numbers or set up a date?
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:44 PM
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This is a good one. I agree the energy/vibe message works pretty well in a lot of scenarios!
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:38 PM
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Will do! Hope they help. I’ll post screenshots on r/reddit too when I can. I see so many dudes question how to start OLD convos. And they try cheesy pick up lines, boring compliments, or the average hey how are you? Which results in poor outcomes and they don’t know why. Well it’s because they’re boring and unoriginal. Women want fun and unexpected messages. So I’m here to shed some light on what’s always worked for me. Nothing copy and paste. Just original comments generally based off their pro…
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:49 AM
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So you’re telling me you meet girls out at club, talk to them all night and don’t escalate to kissing them until you get them back to your place that night? What’s your success rate with that tactic? I feel like if I kiss a girl when I’m out there’s absolutely 0% chance I’m not taking her home or at least hooking up in my car.
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:07 AM
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You think or you know? Have you tried it or are you just guessing what the right thing to do is? Personally if I meet a girl at a bar/club/concert I escalate to dancing and getting physical pretty quickly. I can sense they want to kiss and I feel like it’s a relief for her when I pull the trigger rather than keep them guessing if I have the balls to make a move. Everyone has their own game though. Whatever works for you keeping getting it bro!
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:41 AM
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I’m sure it would but it looks like photo posts aren’t allowed. I see so many questions about guys who can’t open so I want to provide examples. It’s literally the basics. I either message something that connects to their profile or I suggest a fun date.
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:37 AM
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Nvm lol I just tried to post and it says this sub doesn’t allow photos. I guess I’ll be dropping my screenshots on the tinder sub
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:33 AM
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Depends what the setting is.. If it’s a bar/club scene you should be escalating quickly. If you are with her for 15 mins she’s into you and if you don’t kiss her within 20-30 mins then you’re wasting time and she’s going to move on to a guy with confidence. If it’s a casual date the vibe is different. But still build tension and escalate physically. Make subtle advances like hold her hand or pull her close. Literally anything you think of to create a physical connection in the moment will work. …
/r/seduction17/09/21 05:10 AM
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Next time you’re dating someone wait to get to know them then ask them what they are looking for. They will tell you either hookups, a relationship, or idk. Then you respond with a similar answer and decide if you want what they are looking for. You make the decision to continue dating or move on to the next one. You’re young bro. Keep focusing on your self improvement above everything. You don’t need a woman and you don’t want them to sense that you are being needy. It sounds like you’re gettin…
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:23 AM
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OP is a fuckin king! But don’t worry buddy if you keep working on that positive attitude you’ll earn your crown too I believe in you 🥲
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:20 AM
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This is all around excellent advice! Great job!
/r/seduction16/09/21 10:48 PM
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Tbh there’s a ton of other tall good looking guys in her DMs. Be original. No hi how are you BS or some cheesy pick up line. Either comment about something in her profile or immediately suggest a fun date. There’s so many women on there so don’t waste a lot of time small talking your way into boredom.
/r/seduction16/09/21 09:33 PM
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Control it! Trust me bro I know it feels good to have a woman. It’s our primal instinct engrained in our dna. I promise you though, the more independent you become, the more you will attract women who can sense that you don’t need them. You got this king!
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:26 PM
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Being with women and stressing over women are two different things. You don’t need a woman and when you project neediness like saying your life is most fulfilled when you have a woman you automatically set yourself up for failure. Women want to be with you for you. They don’t want to be your one fulfillment in life. Go out and discover yourself. You have so much more to live for than finding validation from women.
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:01 PM
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How did you learn to ride a bike? How did you learn to swim? How did you learn to drive? Were you scared when you first attempted those things? Did you have no clue what you were doing? Of course, we all were. But how did you learn and gain experience? By taking action and doing. There’s a ton of books, videos, and forums to help but nothing will replace fighting your fear and trying. It’s not the advice you want because you’re making excuses for reasons to not do it. That’s your subconscious mi…
/r/seduction16/09/21 07:13 PM
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She’s busy. You’re trying to be her pen pal. What’s your goal here? Trying to be her buddy? Send her occasional messages about her IG stories to keep the spark but other than that you’re going to bore her with small talk. Wait for her to get back and then make a move to see her and get to know her better. When she’s into you then the conversations will flow and you don’t have to worry about what topics to message. Good luck!
/r/seduction16/09/21 06:56 PM
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Great choice for a date man! But definitely not a place to get laid. Get her to laugh and keep things playful. Like someone else said is move the date somewhere for drinks. What works in my experience is saying something like “I’m having a great time, let’s go grab a drink at (whatever bar,brewery,etc)” That’s when you can build the sexual tension and escalate the action. If you’re both into each other don’t be like every other dude and wait till the end of the night to kiss her like there’s som…
/r/seduction16/09/21 06:51 PM
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No woman is worth stressing over. Know your worth king! Be straight up with your intentions and if she’s not on the same page move on. Fill your life with value outside of dating. Stay busy on your grind and remember women are never a reason to lose sleep over.
/r/seduction16/09/21 06:41 PM
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Squats, Bulgarian split squats, and hip thrusts are 🔑
/r/seduction16/09/21 06:24 PM
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How to be hot - Have a purpose. Not like saving the world kind of purpose. Just a general goal for your life that you are working towards. Be charismatic, socialize, and know how to make a girl laugh. You don’t have to be a comedian but you should be able to make the girls feel comfortable and laid back with you because they can tell you’re being yourself. Have a hobby or something that interests you so you have something more to do with your life other than chase women. Focus on your health lik…
/r/seduction16/09/21 06:22 PM
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I don’t have a deep voice and women tell me they love listening to me talk. I think it’s more about how you talk then how deep your voice is. Talk with confidence and make sure to slow down and include dramatic pauses and amplification of certain words.
/r/seduction16/09/21 06:04 PM
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Let’s goooo! Happy to help bro
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:52 PM
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Drop the excuse part, it’s a reason. She’s not doing you a favor or seeing you because you make up an excuse. This is the message I sent to ask her over: Guess who’s finally putting a tv in their room and needs help testing it out 😛 It’s literally that simple. You don’t need some extravagant reason to invite her over. I usually wait after the first or second date so I can build tension and know if they’re worth my time. Every situation is different but you don’t have to serve them wine or anythi…
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:50 PM
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The first date we met a rooftop bar. We had a good time and decided to go to a brewery down the street. The second date we met at a botanical garden. Again we had a good time so we drove somewhere had a few drinks and dinner. It was getting late so I walked her back to the garage we parked at. Before she leaves she wanted to make out in my truck. We had fun and we decided to keep the night going so we walked down the street to some clubs and danced for a few hours. The third “date” was she came …
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:54 AM
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Sounds like a text you’d send a girl from tinder. Personally I try to keep texting to a bare minimum until I go on a few dates and actually get to know the person. At first texting should be just to coordinate the meet up and a few casual messages to keep things playful but nothing more. I’ve been in your shoes before. I said some stupid shit recently to a girl I met on hinge. She gave me her number and I opened with something funny but she didn’t reply. So a few days later I said “I was for sur…
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:43 AM
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Say “I hope 1 after tonight”
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:18 AM
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Great attitude! You can achieve the life you want and deserve with that mindset!
/r/seduction15/09/21 11:25 PM
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It’s not fair to make any assumptions before you meet her. The girl I spoke of is super fun in person but a dry texter. You’ll never know until you try. Dating is trial and error. You’re not going to find what you’re looking for without going over a few bumps in the road along the way. Good luck and keep an open mind!
/r/seduction15/09/21 09:29 PM
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Just organize a date and don’t worry about her poor conversation skills Here’s my most recent experience with a girl I’m dating who’s terrible at texting: I met her on hinge 3 weeks ago and my first message was inviting her on a date with me. She sends me her number shortly after. I text her and I don’t get a response. Three days later I shoot one more shot to which she replies saying she’s still on for our date. We don’t text throughout the week until the day of the date she hits me up to make …
/r/seduction15/09/21 09:12 PM
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Money does not attract women of value. I’ve been dead ass broke sleeping on a couch and i could get just as many women as I do making $100k. Girls want authenticity and fun when you are casually dating. Sure having more money will help you provide better in a serious relationship but when you are dating you don’t need to use money to attract women. Use your new income to improve your life. Your growth is always top priority. The women will come and go but you will always be with you so take care…
/r/seduction15/09/21 08:04 PM
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Talk to everyone. Literally everyone. Say hi to strangers walking on the sidewalk. Compliment people you don’t know. Any situation you find yourself in just say something, anything. This will eventually progress to full on conversations as you improve. But for now just start small. Good luck, you got this!
/r/seduction15/09/21 07:56 PM
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Like anything in life the first step is to take action. You’re going to fail sometimes. You’ll get nervous sometimes. But the more you try the easier it gets. Here’s what happened for me.. I’ve always had an pretty easy time getting girls but only in situations where there was a reason for us to be talking, i.e., work, school, friend groups, OLD. Approaching random women I thought were attractive was totally terrifying to me. I would over think what I should say, question what if they don’t want…
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:07 PM
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Not true at all… Last week I texted a girl I met the previous week and told her to come over for a movie night. She said I’ll let you know. I said I’m open Saturday or Sunday just lmk whatever works for you. She said okay. I don’t respond. Later in the week she texts me that she wants to come over Saturday. She came over Saturday and we hooked up. The “I’ll let you know” is not a bad sign. People have lives and are busy. If she’s interested in you she’ll find time to see you.
/r/seduction15/09/21 03:55 PM
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Go for the kiss on your next date or she’s going to think you either are not interested in her or that you don’t have confidence to make a move. Take your time getting to know her before even mentioning something serious. You may think you want a relationship with her but you don’t even know her well enough to determine that. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a relationship and not casual hookups but these things take time and must happen organically. Good luck man, you got this!
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:52 PM
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You messed up and it’s okay. Consent is important, especially when you escalate past kissing but here’s my experience dating women.. There’s been times I was new to dating and nervous. I could tell the girls I was with were into me but I was scared to make the move to kiss them because of a silly fear they might reject me. So I would ask them or tell them that I wanted to kiss them. It instantly kills the tension but they always let me kiss them anyways. It wasn’t hot and usually just a few soft…
/r/seduction15/09/21 04:38 AM
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u/TheSunshineMan is absolutely right About 4 years ago I was broke and worked a miserable job as a construction laborer. I couldn’t afford to live on my own so my friend let me turn his dining room into my mini bedroom. I made a wall out of sheets so it sorta felt like a room, and had just enough room for a full size mattress on the floor, a dresser and a small night stand. But get this OP. I got all kinds of girls to come over to hook up and they didn’t give a fuck about my broke ass sheet room…
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:58 AM
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