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[–]TheSunshineMan 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Making out with the girls is killing your chances.
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[–]TheSunshineMan 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Killing attraction as all the tension of the unknown is gone, her own plausible deniability is gone.
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[–]TheSunshineMan 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
There's a whole framework you should be following..
But essentially..
Try to pull them home asap.. you don't wait 30 minutes.. you don't wait 2 hours.. you don't wait until the end of the night.
It's a lot more involved than that.. but that's the general rule.
The only people who do good at night game, live within 5 minutes walking distance from the venue.
If you live more than 15 minutes away, and you need to take cabs/Ubers, the odds of you bringing her home go way down tremendously.
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[–]TheSunshineMan 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
There's no magical line that will take girls from the club to your bed in 30 minutes.
There's a whole framework you need to follow for that to happen.
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[–]TheSunshineMan -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not on a public forum so the 1.5M readers of this sub can copy it, and then it loses its effectiveness.
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Message me and I'll give you the basic framework. I get a lot of DMs so just message me with "framework" so I know what it's about.
[–]Hmmoklolthisisfine 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I generally agree with most things this guy says but I’m also no PUA. I’m successful pulling girls at bars/clubs and I usually dance with them and make out a lot more than I should. I still get laid more often than not. I’ve also hopped around different venues with a girl. I think for me I get caught up enjoying the night rather than rushing home to fuck haha
Also once I get a girl in the bar/club setting I feel like they get hooked and I know it. I’m so sure of myself that I don’t even think of PUA techniques or even the possibility that I won’t get laid. I just do what I want.
BUT his advice is solid and applying it will definitely improve everyone’s game. I’m newly learning PUA and it’s helping me improve my weaknesses.
[–]5_7pickup 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Group management, seeding the pull, screening logistics, and testing compliance.
[–]gbizzle2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You didnt get her number?
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They cant cock block through the phone. Once you get any girls number youre already most of the way to home plate
[–]5_7pickup 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I disagree. Getting numbers should be a last resort. Once the girl is away from you, your influence on her diminishes drastically. Also, the next day, she might not even be interested anymore.
While you're at the club with the girl, she's in a high energy state and in a chaotic environment. The next day, she will be in a low energy state and at home most likely. The frame isn't the same anymore and she might not even text back.
[–]gbizzle2 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In this scenario the woman showed the highest level of attraction which was literally rubbing on his cock. There is a slim chance she would completely lose attraction by the following day unless she was very far from sober.
So a number wouldnt be my last resort.
But your perspective is precisely the reason why i dont even go to clubs, atleast not for the purpose of getting women who are more than likely low quality.
[–]5_7pickup 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As someone who does go to clubs alot, I assure you that it’s very likely for her to lose attraction the next day. She doesnt need to be drunk. Just buzzed or tipsy along with a high energy state, a frame of having fun for the night, and the chaotic environment will be enough of a difference to the following day after.
All sorts of people go to clubs. There are high quality women.
[–]GordonGecko69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A lot of what you are getting is good info.
Yes, don’t fucking dry hump at the club. It’s cool to escalate. But unless you are going to fuck in the car it must fizzle out and you lose that momentum.
Always address the friends. As you can see from the comments, there are a hundred ways to do that. But you at least need to be able to measure them. Some groups of girls don’t give a FUCK about letting their girl leave alone. Others are chicken hawking all the time. Know your environment and act accordingly.
Chill out and play it cool, hot, cold, repeat. You bring it on hotter and hotter and hotter. There’s no room to build attraction and it’s either bone or bust. Some sets you simply cannot get home. You have to know that and play it right. Others it’s up to you not to fuck up. Those are a different strategy. Still others are just girls who want to be just slutty enough on a night out with the girls without fucking anyone. Fools mate.
[–]Orange-of-Cthulhu 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stuff with friends pulling them away always happen in clubs.
The others are not wrong in that it's good to befriend her friends and do conversations etc.
However the grinding it a nice thing to have going, it's a bit of a shame to just dunp it. It's possible to have sex with chicks right in a toilet in the club or if there's a nice hiding place outside. I had a friend that did that a lot, but I think he'd walk around before entering to find possible places to habe sex - and he said some places didn't have any.
Seems to me like if she's got her hand on your dick, you just gotta say "follow me" and then lead her to the sex place while you keep the sexual tension up my making sone stops to make out on the way.
Bottom line it, you can move her for like 10 minutes from the dance floor before her juices drop, so you need to find a dance floor that has a pkace you can have sex really close to it ... you could move in opposite a club lol
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