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SoA_MC · 2021-10-20T01:20:09+00:00

You should not have said that about coming off as pushy, because you were not being pushy by just asking her when you can meet again. It’s almost too accommodating, and sends the message that you value her too much, which will push her away.

My advice to you is to not say another word to her, just let her initiate and if she does then just arrange a meet. And less of the exclamation and emojis in your texts, it conveys a way too excited tone. Chill out

TaypHill · 2021-10-20T01:29:22+00:00

yeah, you did bad by seeming over interested, learn from that, people explained it well here.

That said, i think it may not be game over. chill out and start being more laid back, let her work a little.

If she doesn’t, in some two weeks you ask her to do something again, but in a more planned and “manly” manner. she may respond, if she doesn’t, move on.

TheTruth221 · 2021-10-20T01:39:05+00:00

seems find outside of that last text

just ask her when she trying give u head

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-10-20T00:58:22+00:00

No you didn’t come off pushy. U did come off needy and girly.

Next time drop her off and mind ur business.. don’t ask “when can see ya” ever again.. and, don’t ever get back to her after her “idk”(and similar) bs.. not gona talk about double texting beta stuff, that’ll prob be too hard to get rn after all lameass questions u asked after all

jwilhelm0618 · 2021-10-20T02:54:47+00:00

I think a good rule of thumb is if you are asking yourself if you messed things up beyond repair... You probably did.

sammatheson · 2021-10-20T06:13:56+00:00

A lot of the time i find people assume that the person is always in the same energetic mood that they last saw them in. So you continue to assuem that person is in that happpy, horny sexual mood but things in her reality may not be like that.

She might of gotten bad news then saw you had messaged and it was just too much to process. Maybe she felt weird about something or something you said triggered and repressed memory locked away.
So what i do is know that emotions go up and down so the next time i text her i assume i have to ramp up the emotions again/basically starting from the ground again and building them back up with value-giving texts and jokes.

IN YOUR CASE: I would leave it a couple days then send a video of what you are doing in your day like walking by a lake or beach then text her with "what are you up tp today?" build the emotions then go for a spontaneous date rather than this planned thing

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2021-10-20T10:26:38+00:00

There's nothing you said that would indicate that you did something wrong. Maybe you did something else on the way home that you overlooked, but despite what some of the inexperienced boys here are telling you, it's highly unlikely that she decided to not see you again just because of a text talking about maybe coming off as needy, especially after she sucked your cock.

Maybe all she wanted was a one night stand. Maybe her dad died. Maybe you said something that you didn't think about that put her off. It could just be that she really is busy. There's a million different reasons that she might not be texting you back. Most of them will not have anything to do with you.

How long ago was it between that night and when she stopped responding? If it was a day, chill out. She said she was busy, right? People got bills to pay and shit. Give it a couple of days. If she doesn't hit you up first, drop her a text. If she doesn't respond, move on.

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