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Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-09-16T16:06:08+00:00

That's a tough place to build sexual tension on a first date. I recommend focusing on building rapport and comfort on that date and don't spend too long at the art gallery. After 30 mins to an hour there, suggest going to a cool bar nearby to get a drink. It's easier to build that tension there. After a drink, ask her if she wants to come back to yours and split a bottle of wine. If you've done your job right and she's into you, she'll say yes. Then you can physically escalate.

ProperDefinition6668 · 2021-09-16T15:56:27+00:00

Bro how do you win using IG DMs?

Like there's so many simps messaging her it's very hard to win using IG DMs

Pls let me know how

RainbowChardonnay · 2021-09-16T15:48:04+00:00

Referring to women as chicks is tacky

2021-09-16T16:55:22+00:00

That's so cool you got a girl from IG .. the fact that you are meeting her offline... what I would do is not jump into anything sexual because it'll creep her out unless she goes first with the touching...

Just relax and go with the flow...

Hmmoklolthisisfine · 2021-09-16T18:51:24+00:00

Great choice for a date man! But definitely not a place to get laid. Get her to laugh and keep things playful. Like someone else said is move the date somewhere for drinks. What works in my experience is saying something like “I’m having a great time, let’s go grab a drink at (whatever bar,brewery,etc)”

That’s when you can build the sexual tension and escalate the action. If you’re both into each other don’t be like every other dude and wait till the end of the night to kiss her like there’s some script to follow. Make the move when the moment feels right.

If the vibes right you don’t need your own place to hook up right now. You have a car right? Break in that back seat.

But definitely hustle and get your own pad. It helps 1000%

Particular_Visual531 · 2021-09-16T19:19:41+00:00

Remember a few things

When you are walking around treat her like your gf. Walk slightly behind with a hand near the small of her back. Later if attraction grows you can actually start putting your hand here, but trust me she will know you are acting like a confident, protective date instead of a friend.
Amp up the playfulness and fun. Maybe you both guess what you would pay for each piece of art. Maybe you sneak in some wine to drink( mischievous tension feels the same as sexual tension) joke " I always drink the best wine when I study art, like the time I was in Milan." And laugh your ass off.
Don't be afraid to slide closer to her from the back/side as you get more comfortable. If she stays close you have permission to touch her shoulders, arms, hands. If she steps back then give her some space until she gets closer to you.

Dodechaedron · 2021-09-16T20:44:01+00:00

Quite a lot of art has some erotic vibe. If you two find yourself in front of a painting or a sculpture, e.g. of a nude pose, say something and se how she reacts. It is not unlikely that she might actually anticipate you (good sign). If she moves quickly away, on the other hand = bad sign.

bandsupjay · 2021-09-17T02:34:07+00:00

Cant really escalate at a art gallery, thats just a fun thing. Have a good time and bring her back to the crib if you can then escalate. If anything just keep eye contact, break touch barrier if you can and indirectly flirt. Meaning lead her on if she says something and turn it into something sexual like shes trying to seduce you, or you yourself say indirect things sexually that relate to the context.

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