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letsgetrandy · 2021-10-19T16:14:34+00:00

Do what feels right to you. If you want casual sex, go for it. If you want to reserve that for serious relationships, that's your prerogative as well. The most important thing is: don't compromise yourself in order to be like someone else... that's not authentic.

PuroPincheGains · 2021-10-19T18:08:19+00:00

You will likely hinder your success if you only get intimate with people you're in a relationship with. Here's why casual intimacy is not just for casual relationships: Real long-term monogamous relationships involve a lot of trust, honesty, closeness, and understanding. If you want to find something real. Something REAL. Something solid, like a fairy tale romance, you need to get to know people before you jump into something serious. Intimacy is included in that. If you have no idea what your physical compatibility is like, you would be entering into a weaker version of a relationship than you deserve. It's important to keep in mind, that even if you can't think of things that way, most women do. There are women who want something serious, but won't be tied down until they know for sure that you're the real deal. These are strong women with a lot of self respect, and you'd be doing yourself a disservice by screening them out. Just because you sleep with someone and don't end up with them doesn't mean it was casual, it just means things didn't work out. That's okay. In the end, do whatever you want man. There's someone for you, you don't have to compromise. My advice is only meant to make your game a little easier.

Hmmoklolthisisfine · 2021-10-19T19:00:43+00:00

Do what you want. Just be okay with the fact that women have desires as well. While you’re courting girls they’re most likely dating or being approached by other men. If these women want sex but you want to wait for a relationship first, it’s entirely possible they abandon you for a man that can fulfill their needs. You’ll eventually find what you want but it may take awhile.

2021-10-20T05:58:17+00:00

Please don’t unlearn it. When you reserve intimacy for people you really care about, sex stays special—almost sacred—in your mind/heart; you don’t become jaded or so blasé about it to the point of looking around a bar for the prospect who will bore you the least on any given night.

You don’t have to be some virtue-signaling, save-sex-for-marriage extremist. Not being interested in random hookups makes you discerning and interesting. I PROMISE that quality girls are 1000% more intrigued by a man who’s not into chasing any and every piece of ass within his vicinity.

Women want to hear/know that you’d rather have less sex overall because you don’t need to stick it in whenever any opportunity presents itself. You’re doing good. 💪🏻💪🏻

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