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MisterShogunate · 2021-09-30T19:19:19+00:00

I plan to send 1 more text (and then drop it), but not sure if I should write back tomorrow (it would have been 2 days), or in like 2 weeks (next week I'm busy so wouldn't be able to meet up anyway) with a final, "all good, let me know if you are open to hanging" or something to that affect.

Don't.

2021-09-30T18:52:52+00:00

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conker1264 · 2021-09-30T18:43:01+00:00

If you met in person originally first impressions are everything. If she was interested she would've said yes no matter how you asked her or how long you've been texting. I would just say nothing, if she's interested she'll respond back. Texting again won't change her mind.

Hmmoklolthisisfine · 2021-09-30T19:20:26+00:00

Don’t double text right now, move on to other women.

Who knows what went wrong here. Maybe she didn’t enjoy the convo as much you think she did. Or maybe you invited her out to do something she doesn’t care for.

But I have been successful in similar situations. Here’s how I pulled them off:

I sent text inviting her on a date.

Girl ignores message.

I try again 3-5 days later.

I send a text saying “haha I for sure thought that (date place) was your vibe. Let me try again.. (insert new idea)”

OR

If I send a date invite that I wrote with humor, I’ll say something like “haha I was for sure that would have made you laugh. Let me try again.. insert date idea)”

Just don’t get hung up on any woman. There’s a million more out there. And never try more than one more time. If you do give her a second text, do it in a light funny way showing you don’t really give a fuck. If you’re too serious it looks needy. You need to come off as if you don’t care what the outcome is, because in reality you don’t. You’re just shooting your shot and trying to have fun with a cool person you met.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-09-30T19:52:55+00:00

Wait 5 days.. or 2 days before you can meet up again.

If you're next free day is Saturday, message her on Thursday.

Mouthpiece · 2021-09-30T20:18:30+00:00

It's been 24 hours and I haven't gotten a response AND she hasn't even opened the text.

This is (just) part of why texting sucks. If she never reads the text, there's literally nothing you can put in that text that will make a difference.

There are a couple of possibilities here:

She isn't able to read/respond to text messages right now for some reason, and you're a victim of bad timing. This is rare, at least for this length of time.
Your text messages aren't getting through at all since that first one. This also seems unlikely.
She's just not interested in hearing from you. This is the most likely scenario.

If it's 1 or 2, you still have a chance if the timing or technical issues let up and she get your message. Depending on what you say next, you could save this or screw it up.

If it's 3, there's nothing you can do or say that will help you.

So let's focus on the unlikely first two scenarios. She gets your most recent text, but a few days late. She feels bad or embarrassed, maybe so much she wouldn't respond. This is why you queue up something that lets her off the hook a little bit: "It looks like you're not getting messages right now--let me know when you get back to civilization and maybe we can reschedule."

Don't pout or throw a tantrum—just move on but leave the door open if things change on her end.

Johndope6969 · 2021-09-30T21:32:23+00:00

F that man dont waste your precious time playing childish games like that. Find a woman who actually cares and doesnt wait for her back up 2 to come begging for attention

ProfessorZoom80 · 2021-10-01T06:49:38+00:00

You are thinking too much. She is not interested, delete her number. Have some self respect

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