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[–]hiken420 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
Spoil usually means with money and buying them stuff. If you're not trying to do that then she's not down. Only way to get a gold digging hoe is to play them... Not pay them!
[–]KingoftheNorth412 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Also used as slang for escorts/prostitutes.
If you get that sort of message again, cut your loss and block her.
[–]Lessogide[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I used a pick up line that involved kissing
[–]KingoftheNorth412 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Doesn’t matter what you said.
She’s a working girl. You pay her for her time. Is that really what you want?
No judgement. Be safe.
[–]Lessogide[S] -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I hear ya but I felt she was tryna make some sort of joke and she misinterpreted my response
[–]KingoftheNorth412 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Well you are wrong my friend. Live and learn.
[–]Lessogide[S] -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Possibly but I could also be right. You never know
[–]KingoftheNorth412 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yes, we do know. Spoil = pay her money to hang out. Stop thinking about this or you’ll make the same mistake.
[–]Lessogide[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Where are you from?
[–]Lessogide[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She said “Lol u tryna spoil me”, pardon the mistake on the post
[–]Alextryingforgrate 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She is looking for a sugar daddy to pay for her living dude.
That’s it that’s all.
Full stop.
End of story.
Move along.
[–]hiken420 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What he said!! Why I said irrelevant!
[–]kipetamova -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, I agree wholeheartedly, and I want to say thanks for sharing your experience.
I have two daughters (7yo and 9yo). I love them more than I've ever loved anybody. I would do anything to protect them. I would give my life for them.
But, if I had a time machine...I would travel back in time and just not have them. My life would be so much better in almost every way. I had no idea that fatherhood would so damn HARD both physically and emotionally. I was such a happy, carefree guy before but I had no idea how much anxiety I would feel knowing my daughters are out there in the world and they could be taken advantage of or manipulated or lied to or assaulted or all sorts of bad things.
It's really difficult for me to type this, but I deeply regret having children. And I'm glad we have a little forum like this where we can say things like this out loud. If I admitted my regrets to my wife, or my friends, or my parents, or my siblings, I would be seen as a monster, a horrible parent! There's a HUGE stigma against parents saying they regret having children, so I've always had to keep up this facade.
I love them more than the world, and I will continue to be the best Dad I can be, but I wish I never had them. And it's too late to go back.
[–]Lessogide[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I used a pick up line that involved kissing (Not sex)
[–]hiken420 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Irrelevant!
The reason I say that is that she actually replied “Lol u tryna spoil me” meaning the pick up was spoiling her jokingly and I now said “If you mean spoil you with a date and a good time then yes😁” then she replied with “😒👎” and then blocked me
[–]KingoftheNorth412 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she replied with that and then blocked you, what makes you think she wasn’t fishing for money? FFS move on man.
[–]letsgetrandy 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You didn't do anything wrong.
It's just a materialistic bitch looking for someone willing to spend money on her, and when she could tell by your response that you weren't that guy, she felt the need to be rude to you before moving on to the next person.
Don't sweat it. This was not a quality woman and you're better off with her gone than you would be trying to please her.
[–]Hmmoklolthisisfine 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nice guy vibes. You should have responded by telling her if she proves her self then maybe you’ll spoil her. Something like that would have worked better. Make her qualify herself.
[–]Mmm91for[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it was the smiley face tbh
[–]Looksmax123 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why do you care so much man?
[–]ooogabooogaboooga23 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was talking with a prostitute on OkCupid the other day, long story short, don’t give them the time of day
[–]Pain_Tough 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m thinking the ‘good time’ words sound like you wanted sex but the way she said ‘spoil’, man don’t waste a minute. I’ve known attractive women who rack up three dates a week for the free food. Run!
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