OLD openers | seduction

Here’s a few examples of OLD openers that were successful and led to numbers and/or dates.

What works for me is opening with either a message that relates to their profile or I immediately propose a FUN date. I don’t like wasting my time on the apps so I keep the small talk to a minimum and escalate for a number. I’m not trying to be anyone’s pen pal.

I only use hinge because I value my time and I can choose what women I want to talk to rather than mindlessly swiping on tinder/bumble

Her hinge prompt: My love language is… pasta

I open with: Have you tried the pasta at (restaurant)?

She replies: I don’t believe I have, where is it at? :)

By my 6th message I asked for her number and we have a date planned this weekend at a local drink spot

Her hinge prompt: Please don’t ask me how my days going… it’s going well

I open with: Let’s make your day better than well. Have you been to (rooftop bar)?

She replies: I have! I love that spot…

Two messages later I ask for her number. We made plans but I planned a different date with someone else I was more into so I told her I’ll let her know when I’m available

Her hinge photo: She’s wearing a pink top and holding a pink mixed drink

I open with: That glass is so dangerously close to spilling. Good thing you were wearing pink 😂

She replies: Hahahah…noticing the small details.. I have a hunch you must have a good sense of humor😂😜

A few messages I ask her out to a bar. We went on a date that led to making out

[–]donnybdonnyb 4 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]Hmmoklolthisisfine 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Here’s what works for me:

I get their number ASAP on the app

I’ll hit them up the next day or the 2nd day with a simple message that usually refers to something we talked about on the app

Personally I hate texting and I prefer to keep it to a minimum. And what’s the point of getting to know a girl that I may never want to see again after our date?

If we didn’t already talk about a date on the app, I’ll propose something fun for us to do on the weekend

If her schedules busy then I’ll say no worries I’ll try to catch you another time. That’s it. I don’t question what days they are free. I don’t pry into her life. I let it go for now

From here I won’t text her because to me it’s pointless to text someone I don’t plan to see. Sometimes I’ll text her the next week to give a date one more shot and she’ll usually say yes or offer a day she is free

Anyways if she accepts my first date offer then I don’t text her much the days leading up to it. Which realistically is only 2-4 days which is nothing in terms of time passing.

I might send her a random hey btw I was just wondering what’s your favorite color. It makes her question why would I ask that and I do this because I always show up with one or two flowers that are her favorite color. (keep it small. No bouquets) Usually when we first meet they’ll say omg how did you know I like (flower). And I respond no idea. For some reason I had a feeling your favorite color is (whatever color she told me), just lucky I guess. Works every time

The day before the date or the day of I’ll confirm we’re still on

When she says yes I’ll say cool here’s the address let’s meet up here at this time

Then we go on a date

The only time I call a girl is either the day of the date to either tell her I’m running late or tell her I’m at the spot and we’re trying to find each other

Also if she calls or FTs me on the days leading up to the date then of course I answer but I never initiate

[–]donnybdonnyb 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Hmmoklolthisisfine 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Title	OLD openers
Author	Hmmoklolthisisfine
Upvotes	10
Comments	4
Date	September 17, 2021 7:03 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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