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[–][deleted] 40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Tell her you're an "attractive, tall fit guy in his early twenties that has no issues with picking up girls with decent experience in that area".
Mission Accomplished
[–]Kommoncents1 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nailed it
[–]Therocksays2020 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
There’s no way to do it without risk. Considering how much they put into their careers most won’t risk it to get laid by a dude. They can bang 25 year olds who ARE not their students
I’ll play along anyways. I met one of my professors for coffee to discuss a book she had wrote. No attraction just wanted to pick her brain. Start there but go in with no expectations .
[–]TheSunshineMan -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Considering how much they put into their careers most won’t risk it to get laid by a dude
They do though..
This happens all the time..
[–]Therocksays2020 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
All the time is a major exaggeration. I dated a faculty member at a community college.
Attractive women can get laid whenever they want. They can find a 25 year old who isn’t their student pretty easily
[+]TheSunshineMan -9 points-8 points-7 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
This shows how much you don't understand about women.
[–]Therocksays2020 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
🤣 tell us oh wise one how many teachers you slept with. Clown
[–]TheSunshineMan -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is one of woman's most popular fantasies..
You're really that dense lol.
[–]Therocksays2020 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂 🤡
[–]Throwawaydrew54321 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Said by a man. Typical.
[–]Hmmoklolthisisfine -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It’s honestly hilarious how easily you can tell the difference on this sub between the men who get women and the men who offer advice based on what they “think/feel” works and have no experience to back up their statements.
These dudes insecurities and lack of confidence will always keep them trapped in the mindset that prevents them from getting women.
YES you can fuck your professors. It happened all the time in my college. Men and women professors.
Just because one of you can’t do it, doesn’t mean it’s not possible.
[–]Therocksays2020 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lmao what a clown. He said is there a way to do it without risk. Can you not read?
[–]Hmmoklolthisisfine 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“what’s the best way of going about this without getting kicked out of class for sexual harassment?”
I told OP in a different comment how to go about it.
My comment to u/thesunshineman was simply stating my opinion on the post and the apparent difference on this sub between men who get women and those who don’t. If you relate to the men struggling to get women then I can understand why you may be offended by my comment - just know I didn’t direct anything at you. You said yourself you dated a faculty member. You sound like a stud that has no problem with women!
My general observation is that many people offering advice on r/seduction share their hypothetical beliefs about dating but have no real success. Which I believe only hurts the people seeking advice.
[–]Therocksays2020 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh I see. I thought you were calling me out for telling him it could backfire. I totally believe it’s possible maybe not wise but that’s not for me to decide
[–]TheSunshineMan 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A simple Google search will prove my point.
It's generally against school rules to have romantic encounters or sex with students.
I clearly said it happens, but they risk getting fired.
How dense are you.
[–]Quantfieldgeek 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why did you capitalize the ARE instead of the not?
[–]conker1264 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Wtf kind of post is this
[+][deleted] -6 points-5 points-4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Isn't this the seduction subreddit?
[–]conker1264 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This ain't the fuck my professor sub. There's so many reasons why that's a terrible idea.
[–]IrregularKingV 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's the worst way to respond to him, yes there's alot of things that can go wrong but he wants to know how
So honestly I'd say mate, get to know her, & don't flirt with her (until you're very close to being done with college)
After ya get to know her & her comfortable with ya then tease her, as ya would any friend, but never become a platonic friend
As in tease her a bit more than you would with your friends without ever flirting with her and if ya do it right then she'll slowly/ rapidly get into ya depending on what kind of woman she is (Shy/ Outgoing/ etc etc)
So:
Other Student: Y'all are always talking/ together, makes me think y'all are going out (or some other shit, run with it)
Her: OH NO OF COURSE NOT!!! (Then in her mind you're completely out of the picture)
[–]SoIKickedHerInThePus 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thats the thing tho. Its because its so wrong that pulling it off makes the accomplishment all the more satisfying.
[–]TexRetroTech 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not a good idea. Wait till you graduate then look her up. Getting a notch on your belt is not worth her career.
[–]2Fast2Real 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Best thing is go see a therapist.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Jokes aside, I don't see how this is a problem other than the slight risk of getting caught.
[–]2Fast2Real 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“It’s an awesome story to tell if I’m successful.”
That’s a very strange thing to say about fucking your professor and risking her career. Sex is about pleasure and love. Not bragging to seem cool.
[–]kcarp315 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is fucked up.... Your risking her career.
[–]FaithInStrangers94 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This reminds me of the time I spoke to a big time player who unsurprisingly turned out to be a pitiful insecure mess, who told me that he imagines himself telling the guys as he’s fucking a new girl. When you’re at that stage Houston you’ve got a problem
Don’t bother, or do but don’t complain when it backfires
[–]Global-Bridge-6787 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Goddamn lmfao. This was kinda funny to read albeit sad.
[–]TheSunshineMan 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
So you're going to try and get her fired from her job too?
Not cool.
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[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Because that's most schools rules..
You can date or have sex with students et
Fireable offense.
[–]One-Leg7314 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I thought for college it’s different? Since your over 18
No.. a simple Google search will show you lots of teachers and staff getting fired for having sex with their students.
Against school policies.
[–]gamerkid403 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wtf even is this shit?
[–]Particular_Visual531 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Flirt with her, be very prepared and smart in the subject, professors like smart is why they are professors. Never admit to flirting, and if she asks to do something tell her in a very flirtatious way it's probably best to not do it since yours is a professor-student relationship. After the term is completely over, then approach her and directly ask her out. If she asked you to go do something and you told her no, now is the time to say" let's go grab that cup of coffee (or whatever)"
Done.
[–]Kindly-Article7336 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I believe that you are very egotistical. Just because you think you can get laid by the whole population of women doesn’t mean you can so good luck. You are doing it as a notch on your belt. So you can tell everyone. Just what she needs to get fired. You don’t care if it hurts her career. Just so you can brag. Do you not see how pathetic you are?
[–]BridgetheDivide 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Even if she's into you, this could ruin her career. She's probably not gonna go for it. Wait til the semester ends if you really want to try
[–]Dazzling-Being245 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
From my experience you can. However it’s risky, you have to look for signs that she is interested. For my example, my professor always asked if I was coming to office hours. She also gave me her number if I needed any help with work. While I wasn’t catching on because I was just interested in getting a B at least. It did kind of make me wonder. Ended up getting an A even though I thought I was a B student. Never really thought about it after the semester until I saw her out, we talked and she was a little tipsy as was I. She pretty much said that she wanted to fuck me all the time during the semester I had her but she never knew how to drop hints to make it obvious. We ended up having a fwb type of thing for a while but she got another job at another college. Long story short, look for hints. If you don’t get any, be cautious. They could kick you out of class and report you to the dean.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn that's pcrazy
[–]Hmmoklolthisisfine 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Here’s what you do:
Do well in her class. Go to her office hours. Build your rapport with her. Don’t sexualize her. Pass her class.
After you’re out of her class then shoot for it. I’ve got drinks with my old professors before.
It’s risky for her to sleep with a student, plus she probably won’t want to see you in class after you hook up. It will be unnecessary tension and possibly awkward for her. Once you’re out of her class it will be easier.
Good luck!
[–]KingoftheNorth412 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well we know what’s in your search history 🤣
[–]skatinislife446 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t bother during the semester. Approach her casually after your done in her class.
[–]SummerEarly 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me too man but she’s married and has kids so it’s a no go :(
[–]mmmkaaaayyy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe ask her out for a salad. At your place. With large cumbersome vegetables. You get the idea.
[–]somzeFiree 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Educationaly ofc 😂
[–]spicy_simba 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doing things just because someone is hot and it's a nice story should be balanced with not doing things because it can cause harm and regrets.
The middle ground, if you are really interested is to talk to the teacher after you graduate.
Also bear in mind, its likely your teacher is getting harassed on a daily basis by the douzens of students who want to have sex with her and you don't want to add to that.
This person has a duty to keep teaching regardless of who is in the class or what happens, and it's not that easy to change classes or schools. They have a tough job, and unlike porn movies and erotica, they want to get done with the day and continue with their life.
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